Was your first anal play experience your idea or your partners?

My love and I aren't into anal intercourse, however, we have dabbled some with anal stimulation. The first time was my idea. We were having a nice romp, and I was taking her from behind. For what ever reason I got the urge to rub her anus and see what happened, kind of a heat of the moment thing....well heat describes it perfectly. As soon as I put my finger on her rosebud, she had a shattering orgasm, suprised the hell out of both of us! Subsequent to that time I have gone as far as inserting a finger partly into her back door, and have had positive responses. She hasn't as much as said she enjoyed it or voiced a thought of more, but the reaction has been the same every time, instant climax. She has pleasured me similarity when doing oral and I found the experience ok, but really did not have the urge for penetration as such. Lately I have been thinking of trying some p-spot therapy for health reasons, which might open opportunities later. Stay tuned! less