Are you scared to try anal sex?

Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I'm a bit hesitant to try anal sex. I just can't see it being any fun. Are you the same way?
08/19/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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08/19/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I am the same way! I did hesitantly try a toy my fiance was picked to review for free,Gum Drop Slick. It didn't hurt me, but it felt.....odd. There was one time where we had a slip while having sex and he went in the wrong hole (lol), I shot up so fast and screamed. It HURT. I'm just really scared. You aren't alone. But there is nothing wrong with being scared or with not ever wanting to try it. If you do want to try it, there are plenty of kits and small toys here that people have used to work their way up to being comfortable with a penis going back there. I just don't think I'm one of those people.
I'm glad my guy doesn't ask or push me to do it. We talked about it once and how I said it was an exit only, he said he would only try it if I wanted to and that he doesn't care either way and is satisfied with our sex life.
This is gross and embarrassing but I'm gonna say it anyways, I'm sure most people have had a bowel movement where it was hard and big in size (lol, I'm blushing typing this) but I thought HELL NO, if something hurts coming out, then I don't want a hard, thicker, penis GOING IN.
I'm perfectly content with vaginal and clitoral pleasure.

You gotta work yourself up to, you have to relax if you want to do it.
08/19/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife just confided in me that her biggest fear is not pain as she had been saying for some time. Her biggest fear is that I will prefer it to PIV sex.
08/20/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I used to be...but not anymore.
08/20/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Yes, but I have very good reasons to be that are a bit too private and painful to talk about right now.
08/20/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Several girls I met on my path were afraid due to painful or odd experiences in the past. The anal intercourse and all forms of its play are highly intense and therefore should be approached with care and plenty of time. The amount of sensation you can get from stimulation the anal area is very high.

I have so far managed to reeducate a few people on that subject without pain and providing lots pleasure. While not pushing I think everyone should give it a try in their own pace and way. There are tons of educational videos and books these days and starting small and slow will be fun
08/20/2012