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Have you ever been woken up by being penetrated?

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Contributor: CE CE
I guess this is mostly for women, but guys can answer too. Have you ever been sleeping and the reason you wake up is that your partner is penetrating you? I don't mean playing with and waking you that leads to sex, but actually being woken up because of the penetration?

I've done this with my partner a number of times. Mostly its my finger sliding up her butt, but I've also fingered her pussy a few times. Once she was in a perfect position and I slowly slid my penis inside her ass, but it was hard to keep from waking her while positioning myself on the bed. Of course I use lube (KY) for either hole and go slow, as she isn't getting wet while asleep. Once she's awake we have a nice session and start the day off perfectly! I recently woke her up with a vibrator on her clit. She was completely asleep as I slid it underneath her panties and I watched her eyes flutter as she slowly regained consciousness. We both enjoyed it a lot!
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Never, but would like to
Wicked Wahine , Hallmar82 , wicked48 , HannahPanda , XxFallenAngelxX , mailroomorder , babyrock , RonLee , SecretKinksters , Husband and Wife , Pretties , calliope , flyanddrive91
13
Never and don't want to, its disrespectful
TransMarc , SweetSaffron , 02022013 , tammyandy69 , sexilexi29
5
Yes, vaginally with a finger
CamoCutie , jwitt754 , gorgeous , epiphanyjayne , Two Grand , Bignuf , C&K0143 , peppermintgal , ichigostrawberry , justwannahavefun , Holly Wood , Slutty Girl Problems
12
Yes, vaginally with a penis
CamoCutie , jwitt754 , Two Grand , Dolphin Lady , OH&W, Lovebears , Bignuf , Happy Kupple , CutiePatootie , dragonflia , Holly Wood , KingsQueen , Slutty Girl Problems
12
Yes, vaginally with a toy
Yes, anally with a finger
Nympho88 , Bignuf , wastrel
3
Yes, anally with a penis
Bignuf , CutiePatootie
2
Yes, anally with a toy
Total votes: 47 (38 voters)
Poll is closed
07/11/2013
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
My husband can't even touch me while I'm asleep, let alone get that far. So, no.
07/11/2013
Contributor: CamoCutie CamoCutie
My husband will occasionally wake me with his finger or penis penetrating me. I'm a very heavy sleeper so there are times when I won't even wake till he is halfway done. It's not something he does often due to me being a heavy sleeper cause he doesn't wanna have the feeling of taken advantage of me or doing it without my consent, very sweet of him, but he is my husband, I don't care haha.
07/11/2013
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
I have before with a previous partner and did not like it. To me, I felt extremely violated. Loving relationship or not, I want sex to happen because we BOTH want it.
I've been woken up with caressing, stroking, feeling a partner's erection against my body and having it lead to sex, and enjoy it. But actually being penetrated while asleep is too far for me.
07/11/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I chose that I'd want to, but I need to explain that...This is something I would need to have discussed beforehand & expect that the boundaries on it are followed. If I decided that I was not open to it and it happened anyway, I would be furious and most likely end it! I can see both sides of the issue as far as liking it or not, but imagine I would most likely be game for it at least once to see if I liked it. But, I would never be okay with it if it wasn't discussed at some point beforehand!!
07/11/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I would love to do this with my wife but I don't I'd be able to get into position without waking her. Plus, she would probably be rather grumpy at having been woken up regardless of how sexy it might be...
07/11/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
That has never happened to me, because I do not like to be bothered while I'm sleeping -- doesn't matter how arousing it might be.
07/11/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Never but I would like to!
07/11/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
Just last week while camping in a tent my bf woke me up by fingering me when he came to the tent. I woke up for some sex but then we went back to sleep until morning. I loved being woken up like that. I wish it happened more often.
07/12/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I like it sometimes, usually I'm grumpy in the morning so it helps I've been with my hubby for over 10 years now so we're pretty comfortable with each other, and know our boundaries.
07/12/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
I call that rape. No thanks.
07/12/2013
Contributor: SweetSaffron SweetSaffron
Considering that a sleeping person can't give consent, I feel it's something that should be avoided, unless agreed to beforehand.
07/12/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Occasionally! It's a nice surprise.
07/15/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by HannahPanda
Occasionally! It's a nice surprise.
mmm that would be a nice surprise.
07/16/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
No, I haven't. My partner wants to make sure that I am consensual.
07/16/2013
Contributor: mailroomorder mailroomorder
I never have but I would like to.
07/16/2013
Contributor: babyrock babyrock
it would be definitely be interesting i think.
07/16/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by CE
I guess this is mostly for women, but guys can answer too. Have you ever been sleeping and the reason you wake up is that your partner is penetrating you? I don't mean playing with and waking you that leads to sex, but actually being woken up ... more
He has but not recently. Often he tells me he had an erection while sleeping. I always tell him to "Put it in then."
07/19/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm not a heavy sleeper, so this will probably never happen.
07/20/2013
Contributor: TdotY TdotY
No. I don't want to but I also don't think it's disrespectful for everyone. Some people might like that
07/20/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
He has but not recently. Often he tells me he had an erection while sleeping. I always tell him to "Put it in then."
Wow that's hot, I have never done it, but woke her by me jerking off next to her.
07/24/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by CE
I guess this is mostly for women, but guys can answer too. Have you ever been sleeping and the reason you wake up is that your partner is penetrating you? I don't mean playing with and waking you that leads to sex, but actually being woken up ... more
He knows better then to do it in the middle of the night if I have a big day ahead. He knows I LOVE IT, if I can luxuriate and enjoy the experience. Many a Saturday or Sunday morning I have awakened to his penis sliding in my vagina or anus, and yes, it is a wonderful, awesome way to start the day...waking up knowing you have a partner who is madly in love with your body. What can beat that????
07/26/2013
Contributor: Pretties Pretties
I've never done it to her and wouldn't unless we really heavily discussed it before hand, but I would love her to wake me up with penetration! She wakes me up with her hand on my cock sometimes and that's really nice. The only problem is I usually wake up with a full bladder, and the pressure tends to make me cum much faster if I don't go to the toilet, and doing so kind of breaks the mood...
07/27/2013
Contributor: calliope calliope
I used to fantasize about this. Now iit just seems a bit creepy.
07/28/2013
Contributor: Happy Kupple Happy Kupple
Very sexy, either way!!!!
08/18/2013
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
this reads super creepy to me, sleeping people can't give consent, as someone said. as long as your partner is ok with it, i guess there's nothing wrong in the end, but it DEFINITELY seems like something that should be discussed beforehand. not a pleasant surprise if you're not into that.
11/14/2013
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Yes and it was awesome
11/29/2013
Contributor: KingsQueen KingsQueen
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
He knows better then to do it in the middle of the night if I have a big day ahead. He knows I LOVE IT, if I can luxuriate and enjoy the experience. Many a Saturday or Sunday morning I have awakened to his penis sliding in my vagina or anus, and yes, ... more
I have to agree with you. My hubby and I have talked about it and I have told him that he is welcome to wake me that way... or if he wants to masterbate and cum on me without waking me (he gets up several hours before me for work). Waking like that is much better than a blaring radio...
11/30/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Quote:
Originally posted by CE
I guess this is mostly for women, but guys can answer too. Have you ever been sleeping and the reason you wake up is that your partner is penetrating you? I don't mean playing with and waking you that leads to sex, but actually being woken up ... more
My partner and I do this quite a bit - and love it!!
12/01/2013
Contributor: sexilexi29 sexilexi29
Waking up to foreplay is fine but penetration is too rape-y for my taste. I like my sex to be consensual and would much prefer that my partner does not take advantage of me while I am asleep or otherwise incapacitated.
12/01/2013