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How old were you when you first tried anal sex

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Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized toy. Not just starting to play around with your ass.

Also feel free to mention how you found your first time and whether you still enjoy doing it semi regularly
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
up to 18
79  (28%)
18 - 24
159  (57%)
24 - 32
29  (10%)
32 - 40
7  (3%)
40 - 48
4  (1%)
48 - 56
56+
1  (0%)
Total votes: 279
Poll is closed
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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05/12/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
The first time someone tried it with me was a stupid h.s. kid and it was only a second because then I realized what he did. That doesn't count
The first time I count I believe I was 18 and it was very intimate.
I still do it "semi regularly". Have only done it with this and the last bf as mentioned above.
05/12/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
The first time, I was about 18 and somewhat under the influence... Very unpleasant, no lube, only siliva and pain. I guess I was about 20, when I experimented with toys and then with a b/f. Guys like to talk about it, watch porn but many are just not into it.
I love anal stim and usually masturbate with a plug in my ass and the same for intercourse. The additional pressure on my g spot produces a very satisfying orgasm for me.
05/12/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
The first time I tried anal was with my previous boyfriend, at the age of 18. It was extremely uncomfortable the first time, simply because he didn't know what he was doing and didn't work his way in. We figured out a somewhat comfortable position to do it in, but I never really enjoyed it with him.

Things DRASTICALLY changed with my current boyfriend, however. I tried anal with him at the age of 20, and it worked out very well! He understands that in order for the woman to enjoy anal stimulation, you have to gradually work your way in. I love any type of anal stimulation with my man, because he knows how to work it! I never used any anal toys before him either, and now I love using them, and intend to build up my arsenal- no pun intended
05/12/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I have tried it once with the man I’m with now around when we first started dating. But it was a little much for me, more pain than pleasure. But its something I defiantly want to get into again. I just want to experiment with anal toys first...
05/12/2010
Contributor: seaofneptune seaofneptune
I tried it at 23 with my current partner on whim - I was surprised because it didn't really bother me. I realized then what all the hoopla was about and have tried it off and on with him since. I also recently purchased my very first plug too!
05/12/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
The first time that I tried it was with my current beau and I was 18. I was more painful than pleasure for me at that time, using no lube and previously only using fingers for stimulation. I have been very apprehensive to try it again--not because of the pain, but because I get so worried about 'cleanliness'--but we have both begun to express interest in it again and are trying to figure out the right way to do it.
05/12/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I first tried anal sex with my then husband when I was about 21. We've always been good at communicating, and he knew to go slow and use tons of lube. It didn't hurt, was just a tad uncomfortable at first. We did it a few times after that, and I loved it. My current boyfriend and I have tried it a few times, but there's a major size difference between him and my ex-husband. I was kind of shocked when it was more pain than discomfort. We went slow, but man, he's thick. Haha. As soon as I came, we had to stop. It's just a little too much for me at this point.
05/12/2010
Contributor: JustYourAverageGuy JustYourAverageGuy
I tried it with a toy for the first time when I was 24. I wanted to hear what this P-spot hub-bub was about. Glad I tried!
05/12/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Maybe the 18-24 range should have been made smaller? That spans over an entire college career?
05/13/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Maybe the 18-24 range should have been made smaller? That spans over an entire college career?
Yes well i was going to make it smaller but didn't really know the average age of everybody on here and didn't want to discriminate against anybody that has tried it at an older age.

Should i make a new poll with smaller age ranges especially between that 16-30 range where most people have most likely tried it for the first time in their experimentation phase?
05/13/2010
Contributor: B & M B & M
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
My first attempt at anal sex wasn't really consenting. I was 19 at the time, and the guy I was with at the time decided he could just stick his cock in without any warning at all.

I've come to learn more about anal sex since, and now appreciate it much more with toys.
05/18/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
I was 19
05/19/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
I have tried it once with the man I’m with now around when we first started dating. But it was a little much for me, more pain than pleasure. But its something I defiantly want to get into again. I just want to experiment with anal toys first...
Guess I should of put my age.. lol.
I was 18.
05/19/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I was maybe 20 and didnt know much about anal, it didnt hurt but the second time it did so I put off trying it again until I got more infrmed and started enjoying anal stimulation.

I find that my partner rarely suggests anal sex as he does not have much interest for it as much as I do. He always says that he does it bcs he knows I like it, he would not really request it out of the blue.
05/26/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
I was 22 and and gang raped by 4 other soldiers both anally and vaginally. I was given 3 day leave and one of the upper ranking officers told my fiance that he needs to take a 3 day leave as well. He was ferious I mean just ferious about it. He felt really bad for me and lets say it was good the 4 others were in custody and he wasnt in the same room as them.

Its hard to explain but I had a hard time accepting the fact that the guy ive been sexually avtive with for the past 8 years(thats how long at the time it happeed)and the only guy I was ever sexually active with never had his dick in my ass but 3 other guys just got to really made me mad.

I wasnt even horny, nor was he. It took me forever to get him hard. I just wanted him to do me in the but. I felt a little better afterwords.

From there on we had alot of anal sex.
06/27/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
I was about 23 the first time and married to my ex husband whose idea of a healthy sex was every day of the week, even though I could have used a break. It really lost its appeal because it became a routine and he didn't make an effort to make it special. I tried it, didn't like it, he was too eager. Eventually I divorced him. My current spouse waited ten years before I gave it another try and it was great! He is bigger than my ex, but he knows how to use his tool gently. And we have the best lube for it too.
07/04/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I had an over-eager cock slammed into my butthole when I was 20. I guess he thought he was being sly? I screamed and slapped him, it hurt soooo bad.

When I was 21, the boyfriend who I'm with now knew I wanted to try anal and he bought me a medium-sized butt plug and we really worked at it to where I was comfortable. Now we do it when we can fit it in, i.e. when there's time enough for me to warm up the backdoor. He can be persistantly annoying about it. Even if we're out with freinds he'll say "butt. butt. booty. butt." over and over. His subtle way of asking for anal.
07/05/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I had an over-eager cock slammed into my butthole when I was 20. I guess he thought he was being sly? I screamed and slapped him, it hurt soooo bad.

When I was 21, the boyfriend who I'm with now knew I wanted to try anal and he bought me a ... more
Dont all us girls hate those over-eager cocks!!! Guys always seem to rush going into a girls ass if only they knew if they took it slow and steady (at least initially) then they will be able to start thrusting with all they've got after we're warmed up...and get it more often as well
07/06/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
Dont all us girls hate those over-eager cocks!!! Guys always seem to rush going into a girls ass if only they knew if they took it slow and steady (at least initially) then they will be able to start thrusting with all they've got after we're ... more
Exactly!
07/08/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I had an over-eager cock slammed into my butthole when I was 20. I guess he thought he was being sly? I screamed and slapped him, it hurt soooo bad.

When I was 21, the boyfriend who I'm with now knew I wanted to try anal and he bought me a ... more
Your second experience is pretty much how mine went too. The first guy did it without consent.
07/13/2010
Contributor: Janis Janis
Tried it at 20, without any preparation because we didn't think of it. It wasn't good or bad, just kind of... dull, for both of us. We've since tried it twice more, to the same result. Probably won't try it again.
07/13/2010
Contributor: bbwluvr bbwluvr
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
The title pretty much says it all.
I'm curious to know at what age everybody had their first anal sex experience.

I think to make it easy to compare ill say it has to be the first full penetration by either a penis or a penis sized ... more
The first time I tried anal sex was probably when I was 17 with my ex girlfriend. We were randomly talking and I asked her what she would do if I fingered her ass and she said she wanted to try. So while eating her out, I went for it! She enjoyed that, so we ended up doing anal sex.

I still do it regularly with my current girlfriend. She loves it so much and always begs me to do it lol.
07/25/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I had an over-eager cock slammed into my butthole when I was 20. I guess he thought he was being sly? I screamed and slapped him, it hurt soooo bad.

When I was 21, the boyfriend who I'm with now knew I wanted to try anal and he bought me a ... more
Gosh, I had the oppsitie problem with mine.

Weve been sleeping together for ten years and hes still is scared hes gonna hurt me. Sometimes I want it rough, he doesnt get that, "are you sure" a second later "tell me if it hurts" its like watever ime not even horny now
07/26/2010
Contributor: happeegrl03 happeegrl03
My first anal experience was when i was about 18. My boyfriend wanted to try it, and hesitantly, I agreed. It was just ok, I think i was too worried about where he was at the time to get any pleasure out of it. My current partner and I have been together for 13 years and she does NOT do anal at ALL. lol. Well, last night I was alone (she is away for a few weeks.. boo hiss) and I was feeling way excited and decided to give anal another try. Being alone, I was able to focus on the sensations and OMG were they ever great! I had my first anal and dp orgasm and it was absolutely YUMMMMMYYYYYY. Although, since my honey doesn't like anal (doesn't even like to talk about it) I shall keep this my "dirty little secret" for my alone time.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Just recently. I love it, but we're still figuring out the logistics because I love anal in the shower, but lube and condoms are not happy campers in all that water. Grr.
07/26/2010
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Um, other.

If the toy or object has to be penis-sized I guess it's not happened. Unless it's a very small penis.
07/29/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
I was 23, and my partner was experienced, which was ideal-- I was pretty nervous about the whole idea, but it helped that he knew what he was doing. These days it's one of my favorite things... both giving and receiving.
07/29/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
There should be an Other. I still haven't tried it yet but I have tried a few plugs. It's not really my thing, at least not yet. My bf loves it though, just with me, eh.....
08/04/2010