Okay....we have skirted around this issue in many polls. Straight to it now....IF you enjoy anal sex, is there part of it you DON'T like?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
For those fans of anal, are there parts you DO like but others you don't...but are still a "fan"?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Love to feel him CUM inside me
10
Hate to feel him CUM inside me
1
Love to feel his CUM exiting me
5
Hate to feel his CUM exiting me
6
Love the feel of initial stretching as he enters me
10
Hate the feel of initial stretching as he enters me
4
Love it when he pumps away inside me (prefer it over him staying still)
12
Hate it when he pumps away inside me (would rather he stay still)
2
Total votes: 50 (17 voters)
Poll is closed
05/19/2012
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05/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
The one thing I don't like it the initial stretching as he starts. Otherwise I LOVE everything else.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Beck
The one thing I don't like it the initial stretching as he starts. Otherwise I LOVE everything else.
I agree. That part is the lowest moment on my enjoyment scale, but he is slow, gentle and with the right lube, it is painless (I don't do pain). Once he is in me, it is all AWESOME joy.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
Still getting used to it, only tried a few times, but I like the feel of the stretching, then again I like the stretching if I try to take something too big vaginally as well. Feels almost like a challenge, like "I can do this!"
05/20/2012
Contributor: FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
Agreed. I'm not a fan of it in the beginning, although he is gentle so it usually doesn't hurt, but once we get past that, it feels amaaaazing
06/01/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
The only things I don't like is when the lube burns the eczema on my hands (even the best Sliquid does this) and when I get a cramp in my neck.

That's about it for not liking it.
06/09/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
The lack of spontaneity because of required preparation is about the only part we don't like.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
The lack of spontaneity because of required preparation is about the only part we don't like.
Honestly, we kind of make the prep FOREPLAY. We shower together and use fingers with soap and little wet kisses to get ready...etc.

Some of our best love making are NOT spontaneous, but planned. Planning involves THOUGHT and that is a very sexy, exciting thing, if you think of it that way.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
The only things I don't like is when the lube burns the eczema on my hands (even the best Sliquid does this) and when I get a cramp in my neck.

That's about it for not liking it.
Eczema on hands? Have you had a GOOD (VERY GOOD) dermatologist look at this? It may not be eczema...it could be any number of TREATABLE and CLEARABLE conditions. Since I kind of know what you do all day, you know your hands are exposed to all kinds of pathogens. Maybe they CAN be "cleared" with the right therapy. ANY "hand condition" is sure no fun. I wish you well with that.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by FriskyInFlorida
Agreed. I'm not a fan of it in the beginning, although he is gentle so it usually doesn't hurt, but once we get past that, it feels amaaaazing
That is how my first BF got me into being such an anal fan. He was a super lover...as were all the one's since. Of course, I married the best one. Hey, why settle?
06/09/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Bex1331
Still getting used to it, only tried a few times, but I like the feel of the stretching, then again I like the stretching if I try to take something too big vaginally as well. Feels almost like a challenge, like "I can do this!"
Much as I am a HUGE fan of anal, my hubby is the biggest thing that goes in my tush or vagina. I am TIGHT in both areas and stretching just hurts...so we buy slender toys, good lubes and then it is all fun.
06/09/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Honestly, we kind of make the prep FOREPLAY. We shower together and use fingers with soap and little wet kisses to get ready...etc.

Some of our best love making are NOT spontaneous, but planned. Planning involves THOUGHT and that is a very ... more
Well of course prep and foreplay go together, and we do indeed plan playdates. The spontaneous instances would be say, out in the woods on a hike, catching her someplace in the house looking irresistible.
06/09/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
For those fans of anal, are there parts you DO like but others you don't...but are still a "fan"?
I like when he first enters me and I like when he holds me down and has his way with me. It's the best
06/21/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I don't like the thought of there being any "mess."
08/02/2012