One of the reasons I love anal play is that it is such an intimate thing to do with a partner. It is such a sensitive area, that only the most caring, careful,and trusted lovers get to explore. So to me, it carries a much deeper connection and bonding with my partner than other types of sex.

One of the ways I like to bond with my girl is with something I call the 'Sleepy Finger.' It goes like this: at bedtime, she lies on her right side, lower leg straight down and upper leg bent with her knee towards her chest comfortably. I spoon in behind her, with my upper (left) arm down between our bodies. After some anal massage using KY, I slide my middle finger into her ass gently, lifting up her cheek so I can get all the way in deep. Once inside, I put my top leg over her lower leg, which pushes my thigh right up against my hand. This 'locks' us, and my finger, in place, so when we relax as we fall asleep, we maintain this position. I usually massage her gently inside for a short time, barely moving my finger. Since her ass is so sensitive she can feel every tiny twitch. I'm not sure if she can feel my pulse, but I can feel hers! It feels amazing to be connected this way when falling asleep; its comforting, warm and joining for us. We can stay this way for a few hrs, but eventually have to shift around and dis-join, but it always makes for a great start to the night.

So what are everyone's thoughts on this? Has anyone done something similar? Am I crazy obsessed with her ass (I know I am!) and this goes too far? Or does anyone see and love the intimacy of doing this?

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One of the reasons I love anal play is that it is such an intimate thing to do with a partner. It is such a sensitive area, that only the most caring, careful,and trusted lovers get to explore. So to me, it carries a much deeper connection and bonding with my partner than other types of sex.

One of the ways I like to bond with my girl is with something I call the 'Sleepy Finger.' It goes like this: at bedtime, she lies on her right side, lower leg straight down and upper leg bent with her knee towards her chest comfortably. I spoon in behind her, with my upper (left) arm down between our bodies. After some anal massage using KY, I slide my middle finger into her ass gently, lifting up her cheek so I can get all the way in deep. Once inside, I put my top leg over her lower leg, which pushes my thigh right up against my hand. This 'locks' us, and my finger, in place, so when we relax as we fall asleep, we maintain this position. I usually massage her gently inside for a short time, barely moving my finger. Since her ass is so sensitive she can feel every tiny twitch. I'm not sure if she can feel my pulse, but I can feel hers! It feels amazing to be connected this way when falling asleep; its comforting, warm and joining for us. We can stay this way for a few hrs, but eventually have to shift around and dis-join, but it always makes for a great start to the night.

So what are everyone's thoughts on this? Has anyone done something similar? Am I crazy obsessed with her ass (I know I am!) and this goes too far? Or does anyone see and love the intimacy of doing this?

Comments please! less

We do anal play fairly regularly and do something a little similar to this from time to time. We'll start to drift off this way - either hubby's finger in me or mine in him but usually stop right at the point of falling asleep. It's not an every night thing, although I'll often fall asleep with my hand resting edge on between his cheeks, sort of cupping one of them. less

Other: I would definitely do it if my husband wanted to, but it doesn't sound like something I'd be compelled to do. We both like anal play but I see it as more active rather than being something comforting to fall asleep while doing.

I have fallen asleep with his cock in my mouth and I think that is special and intimate. less