I often see adult films and sites with wording exactly like you've used.

Some people take it tongue in cheek, as a racy way to describe a genre of porn. Others get their panties in a wad.

Unfortunately, even on an adult site, some people are a little uptight and prefer things to be worded in a less inflammatory way.

Personally, I think it's interesting to see how racial and cultural norms have changed over the years. Nothing wrong with being curious at all. Just maybe launder the wording a bit next time so people don't feel offended.

I don't see anything wrong with the question or the topic, and I personally don't take offense to this poll at all, but I can see how for some people the way it was worded might be seen as offensive.

Sadly, many people are too often on the lookout for something to be offended by.

And ironicaly, they still voted in the poll anyways. Oh well, I'm moving on.

Personally, I'm not offended either, and I think it is interesting.

Some people on the forums are touchy about certain subjects . . . including the terms "man" and "woman".

I just thought I'd give a fair warning.

This. I agree.


Bievan- I am not personally offended by this, and it's not racist at all since you aren't making any references to stereotypical reasons WHY a certain race would like it more solely based on their skin color or ethnicity. You are simply asking about numbers. It's just like the poll I saw on Manswers the other day... which puts out more... brunettes, blondes, or red heads.

Anyways... I voted for ya. Don't let a few pantie twists get ya down from posting interesting topics in the future. You can't please everyone all the time and it's not your job to.

This is too funny, but when he was dating, my hubby dated a girl for a couple months. All his girlfriends before and since were "into" anal play...including me, but this Asian girl had him convinced that "Asians cannot do anal sex, because their rectums are far tighter then Caucasians. Kind of like the corners of the eyes". He bought the B.S. and never, ever even tried. When he finally watched a video with ME, decades later, I should add...he was SO bummed that he had been conned by this girl who simply didn't want to go there...but for YEARS he really believed it...especially since you NEVER saw Asians doing that activity till recently. Ha, ha.

Oh that is a good one.
My first GF was Asian and we engaged in anal before vaginal because I had not yet purchased condoms. But it was so much fun that we regularly did anal especially when she had her period.

I'm on the same boat as you BunnyCups

I didn't vote although I'm Chinese and I like anal. I don't go around asking my Asian friends or other Asian women if they like anal or not. Asian women were brought up to be discreet about everything sexually related. Anal Sex is a big no, no, a taboo, especially for women brought up in traditional Asian families. I for one, am different from those women, because I grew up here and I do not believe in those misinform traditions.

Maybe your husband's ex-Asian girlfriend really did believe that Asian women have a tighter rectum, depending on how much knowledge she has about sex. If you take a look at the introductions on Asian porn that include anal, they always have the words "tight Asian hole......". So there you have it, even porns are trying to make viewers think Asians are tighter!

I think that going around flagging others because you were flagged is a poor decision to make. Personally, I hope you don't decide to go about this process, especially since it creates extra work for Zuul.

Speaking of which, once one flag is posted on a thread, no more are necessary. It will be brought to the attention of the admins and it will be handled however they think is appropriate. Carrie Ann was already in here and didn't think that any offense was intended. I don't think we need to create more flags for Zuul to have to respond to.

I totally get you! Strange, I once had a similar situation... better not go there. Lol. It wasn't all that similar, but I had gotten the idea that anything goes when it comes to rape, no matter how offensive, but other things are totally accepted. You never can tell how people will react. I can see how you done this in fun and in interest. I didn't see it as anything more than a regular survey. I see many surveys in magazines and such A LOT like this. I didn't notice you downing anyone. It seemed all in good fun, like you said. And even though I'm a chicken and have never done anal, I'm curious to learn what others like. Anyways I didn't vote since I really didn't fit in. Lol.

Hey, hey now. I've been in your situation. Some people love to click those flags and some just enjoy the feeling of everyone jumping on one person and even some just like to feel offended. Lol. Not everyone is like that. You could go and join them and be a flagging fanatic and stop having fun or you could be better than that and since you know how it feels, do the opposite.

I couldn't agree more.