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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
who brought up the subject of anal sex in your relationship? you or your partner
12/08/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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12/08/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
My partner brought it up.
12/08/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Ummm... I don't remember. It's been 6 years since we got together, but I remember the first time we really discussed it. It was a NO for both of us, but I believe we both were on the topic. Hell, I was just shocked into bliss when I realized he wasn't going to beg and threaten me with anal sex like every single other male on the planet I've ever been with. Ugh! What a relief. No anal sex pressure here! But if I really had some interest in it, I'm sure he'd go through with it. We talk about butt sex, usually joking about it, but I doubt it's something we'll ever get into.
12/08/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I did!
12/08/2012
Contributor: toy review man toy review man
My wife did. I was surprised, but went for it .
12/08/2012
Contributor: nikki0668 nikki0668
my partner
12/08/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
not sure but she likes it more than I do
12/08/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
Usually it is my partner who brings it up
12/08/2012
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
It was part of a conversation where we said maybe. But he brought it up first. Non verbally with finger play and rimming.
12/08/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
I brought it up first but it's only in the past year or so that it's become something we do regularly and often.
12/08/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
In every relationship I've been in where it's happened, I have been the instigator.
12/08/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I actually brought it up. When we first got together when we were 16, I said that was one thing I wouldn't ever do. He said ok and never brought it up again. About a year ago (maybe a little less?) I expressed interest in it. He was excited and we tried multiple times until recently when we were finally successful. He is not really huge about it like a lot of guys are, but he thoroughly enjoys it especially now!
01/19/2013
Contributor: LadyRelentless LadyRelentless
One of the first times we hooked up he said "you can touch me anywhere" and I thought oh good, and started touchin his butt, which is what he meant.
01/20/2013