Vibes vs. Fingers: Do your orgasms feel different?

Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very intense, but at the same time it feels "incomplete" (for lack of a better description). Like when I pull the vibe away my body just goes, "Wait, that was it? Something's missing." Using my hand, however, leads to orgasms that might not be quite as intense, but ultimately feel better and more satisfying.

So how about you? Does it feel the same for you, or different?
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Perceptive forum discussions on Finger vibrators:

Ladies, when your lover is "fingering" your vagina, do they also have a finger in you "back there"?
I did not put this under anal, since that category might be looked at by more anal leaning lovers. The question is, how common is it, among the whole.

how many fingers?


Do you prefer your hands/fingers or toys for solo sex?
solo sex is what I'm doing these days, but that will soon change YAAAY!!!. I think he's arrived. anyway, I have changed from primarily using my...

finger vibes and replacing the bullet
There is a finger vibe that I love, but is not intense enough for me. Would there be any issue with getting a more powerful bullet to replace the one.

Your Fave- Finger Vibe or Pocket Rocket?
I honestly can't decide which I like more for a great orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Do you have a favorite? Is there a special favorite brand you.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Raigne Raigne
I definitely experience the same thing you describe. Contractions in the muscles afterward don't last as long and aren't as strong with a vibrator, and the whole thing feels ... a little forced, maybe?
04/11/2012
Contributor: Calla Calla
My orgasms are more intense, longer lasting and more satisfying when I use a vibrator. I can also reach orgasm much faster with a toy.
04/11/2012
Contributor: DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
My orgasms are more intense w/ a vibrator.
04/11/2012
Contributor: interestingstuff interestingstuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
Me too! I feel with a vibrator, there's less of the buildup feeling to the orgasm, it hits really fast. Manually, it's sweeter. Perhaps less intense, but sweeter.
04/11/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Definitely! ^^
04/11/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
It is good to switch it up. Sometimes I rely too much on my toys!
04/12/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I can't even remember what a hand orgasm feels like anymore I've been using a vibe for so long. My hand just can't do it fast or strong enough and gets too sore before I can get off.
04/12/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
There's definitely a difference and I was just thinking about this the other day. I do like having vibrators as my hands get a little tired! lol
04/12/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Fingers, toys, oral, and penises all make me feel a different orgasm. =P
04/15/2012
Contributor: rbruning rbruning
i so thought i was the only one who thought about this, never have seen it talked about anywhere else. good to know im not crazy
06/10/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
I find them different.
06/10/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i wouldnt say they are different only because i wont/dont use my fingers i just cant do it i dont like the feel on my fingers
06/11/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I chose the "I wouldn't know because I only climax with toys" option. I really can't get off with my own hands; I never enjoy the way my own hands feel down there. I can tease my breasts with my own hands just fine, but not the lower lady bits.

Also, I chose other because I wuv cookies and sharing them makes people happy!
07/10/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
For me, a toy is more intense. Without a toy, it's still good, but not as great as with a toy. The best? With my man AND a toy
07/24/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
I feel the same way! I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one. I never thought to ask if others felt this way too. Thanks for posting this
07/24/2012
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
I personally love using toys and I enjoy them more than my fingers. It takes me way too long to get off without a toy.

Do I enjoy them more than my husband? No, but I do prefer them over my own fingers
08/16/2020
Contributor: Wickedly Yours Wickedly Yours
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
I feel like it’s more intense with a vibrator.
08/16/2020
Contributor: aznbbgirl aznbbgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I've mentioned this before, but I'm curious to see how common it is. When you orgasm with a toy, does it feel different than the orgasms you have with your hands?

For example, when I use a vibrator, the orgasm itself can be very ... more
Toys can stimulate me in ways that are amazing, but not humanly possible. Fingering, especially if done by a partner, also feels amazing but in a different way that's hard to describe.
08/16/2020
Contributor: cumtastic cumtastic
I don’t feel anything with my hands at all
03/27/2023