Blowjob that is exciting for both of you??

Blowjob that is exciting for both of you??

LovesItHot LovesItHot
Giving blowjob has never been something I liked doing too much. But, when I watch adult videos, I can see that the giver feels almost the same pleasure as the receiver does. I too want to feel horny when I do it and want my man to see it. To make BJ time more exciting for myself, I sometimes stimulate myself with fingers, but I’m yet to try a toy.

Sisters, what do you or your partner do to make a blowjob profitable for both of you?
Sep 11, 6:50 am
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
From my experience (as a male) it's pretty much about attitude. If you want to like it you will. If you consider it a chore - it will surely not turn you on.

For many years my wife was pretty ambivalent. What she called a BJ was really a hand job with a little lip action.

About 10 years ago she decided to change everything - and I mean everything. Step 1 of that process was to start giving real hands-free BJs, trying to deep-throat and swallowing!

Frankly it was a huge - but welcome surprise.

When the act of giving someone pleasure excites you - you have gotten beyond sex as your personal stress-relief mechanism and into a world of endless possibilities.

Best of luck - hope the ladies on EF have more good ideas for you.
Sep 11, 12:10 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
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Originally posted by LovesItHot
Giving blowjob has never been something I liked doing too much. But, when I watch adult videos, I can see that the giver feels almost the same pleasure as the receiver does. I too want to feel horny when I do it and want my man to see it. To make BJ ...
First of all, you should love what you do. But as a lady, I can understand that sometimes you're just not in the mood. During these days (nights?)) I love to wear a vibrating panty that allows my BF to control my pleasure by surprising me with the variety of vibes.
Sep 12, 11:18 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I position a Wand or vibrator on my clit while doing it. One of the best toys for this is a U shaped one like the Unity or We Vibe. Once I left it in when we had intercourse. However it made him cum too soon

I had to grab a dildo to finish myself off.
Sep 12, 11:20 am
cummingattractions1 cummingattractions1
Quote:
Originally posted by LovesItHot
Giving blowjob has never been something I liked doing too much. But, when I watch adult videos, I can see that the giver feels almost the same pleasure as the receiver does. I too want to feel horny when I do it and want my man to see it. To make BJ ...
As a male, what my lady and I do is I kiss, lick and tease her with fingers till she's on the brink of orgasm, then eventually take her to orgasm. By then she is very turned on, and the head is more "in tune" with the heated moment. I lie down, and have her perform oral on me while she is in doggy position. This allows me to tease and finger her already stimulated pussy. I can get her G super swollen and she has soaking orgasms EVERY time WITH my cock in her mouth. It is very erotic for the both of us!
Sep 12, 12:56 pm
LovesItHot LovesItHot
Gunsmoke, I agree that it's all in my head so I'm trying to work on it
Lena Eden, it sounds interesting. Guess I should involve my man in the process this way
OH&W, Lovebears, thanks! That's what I'm looking for, however, I've never considered U shaped toys. Is it really worth it?
cummingattractions1, thanks for sharing your experience!
Sep 13, 4:12 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by LovesItHot
Gunsmoke, I agree that it's all in my head so I'm trying to work on it
Lena Eden, it sounds interesting. Guess I should involve my man in the process this way
OH&W, Lovebears, thanks! That's what I'm looking for, ...
Yes ,yes,yes ! When solo, vibes both clit and vag / g spot at the same time. Best to get one w a remote. Don't be surprised if you end up using it 5-7 times a week. When watching tv, going for walks and giving oral.

It's enjoyable during intercouse if you like that full feeling and g spot stimulating. Just don't be surprised if he cums fast . Have your Mega dildo or vixenskin close by.
Sep 13, 1:01 pm
LovesItHot LovesItHot
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes ,yes,yes ! When solo, vibes both clit and vag / g spot at the same time. Best to get one w a remote. Don't be surprised if you end up using it 5-7 times a week. When watching tv, going for walks and giving oral.

It's enjoyable ...
"When watching tv, going for walks and giving oral"
Well, it sounds great - perfect for every occasion
I think that's what I really need to consider.
Thank you!
Sep 15, 9:27 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
EdenFantasys has also created a super guide on how to make blowjobs as fun and exciting for her as they are for him.
Yesterday, 5:06 am
dominatrixNY dominatrixNY
i love to give a BJ.... it s hot and a big turn on for me
Yesterday, 11:34 am
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