Does oral work for you?

Contributor: jenny10 jenny10
I know this may sound like a really stupid question, but I have never actually climaxed from oral stimulation alone. I have received some awesome hour long plus blow jobs where we took a beer break in the middle haha and still no result. I have been given oral by women and men and still no dice. A buddy of mine suggested it may be hard to finish from oral if you masterbate too much but that is a very rare occasion for me. Oral feels AMAZING and I love receiving it, but just wondering if there are any other guys out there that can't really finish from it? Or any other women out there who's fellows cant finish.
02/23/2012
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Insightful topic debates on Oral sex enhancers:

If you enjoy a flavored lube for oral, does the COLOR matter???
For instance, if you enjoy a LEMON flavored lube, does it have to be YELLOW to enhance your enjoyment, or do you prefer it be CLEAR???

Guys - do you want your significant other to put toys or finger in your anus during foeplay? sonetimes or never?
Guys - Do you want your significant other to put toys or fingers in your anus during foreplay? sometimes or never?

Big head, small mouth.
Can anyone suggest some mouth exercises or something to help strengthen, stretch, and loosen my jaw?

Which type of clitoral attachment do you prefer?
I like the idea of non-animal best, but I am curious what other people like and why.

Do use any oral accessories?
I was wondering if anyone used anything like peppermints, ice cubes, flavoured lube etc?
02/23/2012
Contributor: martb40 martb40
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Originally posted by jenny10
I know this may sound like a really stupid question, but I have never actually climaxed from oral stimulation alone. I have received some awesome hour long plus blow jobs where we took a beer break in the middle haha and still no result. I have ... more
For years I couldn't cum from oral alone. Several girls tried but couldn't get me past a certain point. I think their jaws got tired and they had to stop. My wife was the first girl that could make me cum that way and it made me realize something very important...... Not all girls can give good head, as I'm sure not all guys do.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
The trick to ensuring a guy cums from oral is to use more than just the mouth. You need to have a hand on the shaft and be pumping up and down at the same time as you are sucking on the head.
02/23/2012
Contributor: underHim underHim
Maybe stay away from the alcohol as it can desensitize some?
02/23/2012
Contributor: jenny10 jenny10
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Originally posted by underHim
Maybe stay away from the alcohol as it can desensitize some?
Thank you. I have drank alot in my past. And by alot I mean ALOT haha
02/23/2012
Contributor: Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
This is a pretty common problem actually. For a lot of men fellatio just doesn't provide quite enough pressure or friction for them to reach orgasm. My partner has a much harder time reaching orgasm from fellatio. He still enjoys it greatly and I've spent as much as an hour going down on him. Don't try to put so much pressure on reaching orgasm. Just relax and enjoy and appreciate the sensations whether you ejaculate or not. You are more likely to reach orgasm if you don't focus on it.
02/27/2012
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
*raises hand* I have not come from oral since 1981. My current SO loves giving BJs and I really like the feeling so we do this often with no risk of "finishing". We decided to not let this be a problem, but instead, embrace and use it for our enjoyment. She has performed oral on me in the car, bookstore bathroom, parking lot next to the car...just about anywhere possible!
03/01/2012