Going down on a girl?

Contributor: Anteaterz Anteaterz
I've never had the opportunity to in a relationship before, and my current girlfriend is used to that type of stimulation. I have no idea where to even start! Is there a certain etiquette I should follow, or some sort of instruction? I don't want to go in blind and not be able to return the favour to her :/
07/16/2012
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07/16/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by Anteaterz
I've never had the opportunity to in a relationship before, and my current girlfriend is used to that type of stimulation. I have no idea where to even start! Is there a certain etiquette I should follow, or some sort of instruction? I don't ... more
Well, my personal philosophy is to ask her what she likes. Ask her to guide you. As far as etiquette, don't act disgusted or complain about anything, you should be fine. If she's not willing to tell you what she likes, just start exploring. I assume you know from other types of sex you may have had with her what types of pressure, strokes, etc. she likes. If you usually use your fingers on her clit, try doing the same types of things with your tongue. Some girls like circles around their clit, some like flicking, lapping, some like lots of pressure, some like light, fluttery touches, some like fast or slow. Try different things until you get a positive reaction from her, keep trying variations until you find what makes her come. It'll be a lot easier for both of you though if she'll give you some guidance. Just explore and play and talk to her if she's willing. Enjoy it. I personally find it one of life's greatest pleasures.
07/16/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Anteaterz
I've never had the opportunity to in a relationship before, and my current girlfriend is used to that type of stimulation. I have no idea where to even start! Is there a certain etiquette I should follow, or some sort of instruction? I don't ... more
Be honest..Tell her you aren't experienced in that area, and ask her to tell you what she likes. My experience has been that every guy does it differently. And Practice makes PERFECT!!!
07/17/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by charletnarouh
Well, my personal philosophy is to ask her what she likes. Ask her to guide you. As far as etiquette, don't act disgusted or complain about anything, you should be fine. If she's not willing to tell you what she likes, just start exploring. I ... more
Charlet's got it. Talk to her and learner boy responses, when she thrusts towards you or slows down. And if she tells you to keep going or don't stop- don't stop!!!! Pull through and she'll be fretful for it.
08/03/2012
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
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Originally posted by Anteaterz
I've never had the opportunity to in a relationship before, and my current girlfriend is used to that type of stimulation. I have no idea where to even start! Is there a certain etiquette I should follow, or some sort of instruction? I don't ... more
I say be honest and tell her you are inexperienced. If I were her, I would definitely take advantage of the situation and give lots of opportunity to explore and "practice"
08/03/2012