Oral sex while she's on her period?

Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Wow. I wonder what determines who does this? And why? (Or why not?) My Man and I don't even think about it. I did the math earlier in this thread. It's like 84 days a year without sex if we didn't have sex during my period. THAT isn't happening. Even going 5 to 7 days a month without sex isn't happening. We fuck like rabbits no matter what time of the month it is.

He has no problem going down when I have my period. He talked ME into it decades ago, "I don't care. It's just some fluid. I want to make you come. Just let me try it." I finally consented, and it's amazing. Like most women, I get really horny during my period. (It has a lot to do with pelvic congestion during menstruation, it helps the clitoris fill with blood easier and causes many women to become very aroused. Not to mention the swollen uterus from menstruation is eased by orgasm. I can't see NOT doing it during my period. With the exception of when I had endometriosis, then if we got to it right as it started, it helped the pain.)

I mean, I guess if people really don't like it and can go a week every month with NO sex (because in our house there is NO SEX without oral. None.) And up to two and a half months a year counting all the days you are having your period.

We have sex very frequently, and neither one of us could go that long without it. Three days is a "drought" for us. Uh uh. Sex continues at it's regular pace, whether there is a little menstrual blood or not.

Taking a really warm bath before sex can help. It can help the blood stop for about an hour or so.

It's just some blood. If it gets really messy we just get in the shower after.

We have a dedicated maroon King Size sheet, and maroon and red towels, that we lay on the bed over the regular sheets. We lie on those and then those go in the wash. It isn't a big deal. Most of the fluid during menstruation is mucous and regular vaginal secretions anyway. The blood is less than most people think there is.

*shrug* For us, going without is much worse. It doesn't bother either of us.
12/20/2010
Contributor: married with children married with children
never have, never will
12/30/2010
Contributor: ImSteve ImSteve
Not that big a deal. I don't get into the fluids, but pleasure is pleasure and it drives her crazy and I focus on the clit. She's extra sensitive at that time
12/31/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
No way for me, we have never discussed it but we just don't go there. But I do enjoy PIV sex during my period and I am usually very horny during that time.
For me sex alleviates my cramps.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
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Originally posted by sandblastedskin
This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
I love giving oral to my wife and our girlfriends. I will give my wife oral on her P because she is extremly clean and well groomed. usually she will be wearing a tampon and i can still get at her clit.
12/31/2010
Contributor: Blooddragon Blooddragon
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Originally posted by Envy
Ewww, I know my bf likes his meats pretty much rare, but not this one!
lol!
12/31/2010
Contributor: ana123 ana123
He wouldn't go down on me if I were on my period but we always have sex when I'm bleeding. Either in the shower or with a towel down. He just doesn't like how the blood dies sometimes during sex and gets sticky.
01/01/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
My wife will have none of it, but I did go down on former girlfriends during that time of month provided they had a tampon in.
01/23/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I don't think it would be really pleasant for him without a tampon, but it would be really interesting.
01/24/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
Wow, reading up from where I last posted, I am surprised to see so many people using such strong language as "disgusting" and "gross" "ick" "yuck" "EW" etc etc...

I mean, what kind of message are you sending yourself every month? "You are a disgusting, gross female that should never be touched during your menstrual cycle!"?

:/ I realize these are all personal opinions, but wow!
01/24/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I would not want to do that. I don't know that it would gross out my man though... but it would gross me out. lol
01/24/2011
Contributor: lovehurts lovehurts
My bf had and it was a fight for him to even do it.
01/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by tigerkate
Wow, reading up from where I last posted, I am surprised to see so many people using such strong language as "disgusting" and "gross" "ick" "yuck" "EW" etc etc...

I mean, what kind of message ... more
I agree with you, tigerkate.

Some people don't do it, and that's fine. It's their decision for what they do. But, to use words like "gross" and "disgusting" to describe sexual practices that other people obviously enjoy and have openly admitted to liking is rather rude.

I would hate to think some who are new to the site might think that this dissing of other people's sexual practices is the norm on Eden, and most of us know it isn't. Eden is usually a very tolerant place, and I think most posters realize this and refrain from using words like "gross" and "EW!" when other people have already said they engage in said practices. (Sexual or otherwise.)

I wouldn't want to scare away any new people with such talk. People might be afraid to be open and honest.

Not to even mention adding the message that the normalcy and absolute femininity of menstruation is somehow unnatural and "disgusting." Isn't that what we don't want for ourselves, and our daughters?
01/25/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I was weirded out about it at first, not because I was bothered by it, but because I couldn't believe that he wasn't bothered by it. My boyfriend was just like, "Look. You have a tampon in, you know I can give you a clit orgasm in like, two seconds, are you really worried about a little string? Just let me do it."
01/25/2011
Contributor: Free Free
I'm fine with it, but it's not great for me.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Purpleladybug Purpleladybug
My husband will do it but I don't ever ask for it cause its just not something that turns me on.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
This is one line I won't cross. NOT interested in getting my red-wings, thanks.
agreed.
01/26/2011
Contributor: inbarati inbarati
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Wow. I wonder what determines who does this? And why? (Or why not?) My Man and I don't even think about it. I did the math earlier in this thread. It's like 84 days a year without sex if we didn't have sex during my period. THAT isn't ... more
Wow. 84 days. That's almost 3 months a year. Really NOT worth it.

The language people are using to say no way makes me sad, too. Menstruation isn't disgusting. It's not sick, or nasty. It just is.
01/26/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by Blinker
Ew. Naw, dude. Just...naw. I would never want my boyfriend to do that. I have to kiss that mouth.
no way would i do oral on period, not my thing and im sure my husband wouldnt be for it either, but the other night i was still on period and thought he knew i was on it but he initiated sex, and i didnt turn him down, but i felt discusting the whole time even tho trying to please him
01/27/2011
Contributor: inbarati inbarati
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I agree with you, tigerkate.

Some people don't do it, and that's fine. It's their decision for what they do. But, to use words like "gross" and "disgusting" to describe sexual practices that other people ... more
I'd like to third this sentiment. It's just so sad that this language gets flung around. I truly hope no one is out there reading this, being hurt, and not commenting.
01/27/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by inbarati
I'd like to third this sentiment. It's just so sad that this language gets flung around. I truly hope no one is out there reading this, being hurt, and not commenting.
I'm sure there are, inbarati. Yet the unpleasant comments keep coming. I mean, if one doesn't like it, that's cool. Just say, "It isn't what I like." But the comments with all the negative language and words like "disgusting" and "nasty" may make those who feel menstrual sex is just fine feel disrespected.

Like I have said, there are a few sexual practices My Man and I don't engage in (very few) but I simply don't do them, say they aren't for me. I don't put down people who do find them pleasant and engage in them.

Sex is a very personal thing, and everyone has a right to their opinion, but there's no reason to be insulting to those who like it.

Thank you for being supportive.

*sigh*
01/27/2011
Contributor: inbarati inbarati
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I'm sure there are, inbarati. Yet the unpleasant comments keep coming. I mean, if one doesn't like it, that's cool. Just say, "It isn't what I like." But the comments with all the negative language and words like ... more
Not everything is for everyone, and that's cool. Variety is the spice and all. Just, way too much hate for something so simple.

I hate to say stuff like this, but I lurked on these boards a long time before I started posting. This makes me sad because I expected better from the EF crew. Open-mindedness was rumored to be the hallmark, here.

And I've marked you as one of my favorite contributors already.
01/29/2011
Contributor: KatPawz2003 KatPawz2003
I had it done to me once, he actually was the one who wanted to. It grossed me out but he seemed to enjoy it. He likes the taste of blood so it made things "more tasty" in his eyes. I will NEVER do that again as it was soooo awkward for me. I made him go to the bathroom after and brush his teeth a bunch of times before I was even able to kiss him on the cheek. I was so uncomfortable with it that he never asked me again.
02/02/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
We don't do that! That's just gross to both me and hubby!
agreed. i have had sex with hubby on period a few times but its not something we like to do knowing im on it, but of course NO i dont get oral on mine, gross to us both not just me. but i do give him oral even if im on period.
02/04/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by mama2007
agreed. i have had sex with hubby on period a few times but its not something we like to do knowing im on it, but of course NO i dont get oral on mine, gross to us both not just me. but i do give him oral even if im on period.
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02/04/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I don't think I could do it. It would gross me out way too much!
02/05/2011
Contributor: FABULOUSCURVES FABULOUSCURVES
Quote:
Originally posted by sandblastedskin
This is related to the poll "Period Sex" and I was just wondering what people's opinion on doing oral sex during a period. For women who vote, just assume your speaking of letting your partner go down on you.
Being a lesbian woman I see this question SO many times and my answer is of course not. For one that is just disgusting and I will never understand how people to do but to each his own. There's a line to my freakiness and that is where it stops. There's no way that I will ever have oral sex while she's on her period and I know she wouldn't do it to me either. Even if she did, which she doesn't, I wouldn't let her because during that time I don't even want to be touched or looked at.
02/05/2011
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
oops, to funny, i just posted the exact same question before seeing this. Great minds think/inquire alike.
02/06/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
Not voting since it hasn't really come up yet - my girlfriend wouldn't be comfortable with it at all, in either direction, I think. I'd actually be fine giving but I'm not sure about receiving, since I know it'd gross her out.
02/07/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by FABULOUSCURVES
Being a lesbian woman I see this question SO many times and my answer is of course not. For one that is just disgusting and I will never understand how people to do but to each his own. There's a line to my freakiness and that is where it stops. ... more
You don't want to be looked at?

Wow.

Hell, I want my partner to look at me, touch me, fuck me, and give me oral sex anytime and every time and all the time. I have no self loathing or disgust about a simple, normal healthy expulsion of uterine fluid from my body.

It ain't no thing. I've never even considered this a Kink (although both my and My Man's Kink Tolerance is pretty high, even for stuff we don't do ourselves.)

Mileage, I guess.
02/07/2011