Seeking sage oral sex advice from fellow plus size puss-havers

Contributor: TheFirecat TheFirecat
Hello folks

So today I seek a little bit of guidance from the plus size population about our old friend, cunnilingus. Now as most of the bigger folk may know, our puss is, to use Khloe Kardashian's words, 'very large and in charge'. And so, the act of oral may be a tad daunting to some.

That being said, I seek counsel on the subject due to said paunchy puss. My boyfriend likes going down on me, but finds it difficult to do because of my chubby pussy blocking his breathing. He can cater to my clit just fine, but anything deeper is kinda difficult. Positioning can also be a problem for the same reasons.

Research on the subject of plus sized oral sex is a tad sketchy at best, so I thought it might be a good subject to bring up here. Does anyone have any ideas or tips on how one could eat a gal out and not die?

Thanks!

Much love,
TheFirecat

P.S. Please be kind. Don't be THAT person by commenting with anything like "try losing weight", "get a snorkel" or anything else sarcastic or shaming. Serious advice only please
07/21/2015
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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07/21/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Have you tried positioning pillows? Liberator makes several of these positioning pillows and I've found they greatly enhance many aspects of my love play session. They come in all types of shapes and in different sizes too. This might not solve your situation, but, it might make things a little easier.
07/21/2015
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
I think the suggestion of pillows is a good one. Also, using hands to tease, play and gently hold you open a bit will help as well....and it's pretty hot.
07/21/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
If I read the question correctly, how about using thumb and forefinger to spread them love lips open. Then he can have his dinner. And come up for air every so often. Just like swimming and he can get his laps in too.
07/22/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
Positioning pillows are awesome, a great suggestion, and we also love and use them. It really hels to get us in a better position and is so much easier on our men . Here's an add thought and would be super sexy to your boyfriend. What if you helped him out a little by using your hands to help open yourself up a bit? You could touch his face with gentle and loving strokes in the process. It may send him over the edge
07/22/2015
Contributor: TheFirecat TheFirecat
These are amazing ideas! Will definitely be trying all these tricks out. You folks are the best ever! Thank you!!!
07/23/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Not to be a perv or anything, but while he's down there, have you tried grabbing his hair and giving it a light tug towards you? How about sprinkling in some dirty talk, while he's at it. You know to let him know what's up in a sexy way? It might up both of your fun factor.

It's just an idea (sinister grin)...
07/23/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
Inq. , your answer was on my page so I just 'had' to come over here to see why pervy idea you had...
07/23/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by TheFirecat
These are amazing ideas! Will definitely be trying all these tricks out. You folks are the best ever! Thank you!!!
You are very welcomed.
I wanted to add, if need be he can spread them with both hands (thumbs & forefinger ) to really gain full access.

So do you like to be lapped up and down, side to side, around and around , suck up and tongue tickled on the special node or all of that ?


Please report back with what worked well !
07/23/2015
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
There is a toy designed to spread the labia! Plus sized reviewer PropertyofPotter reviewed it on her blog, if you're interested in looking into it.
07/23/2015
Contributor: TheFirecat TheFirecat
Quote:
Originally posted by BlackOrchid
There is a toy designed to spread the labia! Plus sized reviewer PropertyofPotter reviewed it on her blog, if you're interested in looking into it.
Sounds like it could be fun! What's it called? I'd love to look into it
07/23/2015
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
Quote:
Originally posted by TheFirecat
Sounds like it could be fun! What's it called? I'd love to look into it
It's called the G-spot Labia Spreader, lol. Creative... Haha. It looks weird but it seems to have good reviews.
07/24/2015
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by TheFirecat
Hello folks

So today I seek a little bit of guidance from the plus size population about our old friend, cunnilingus. Now as most of the bigger folk may know, our puss is, to use Khloe Kardashian's words, 'very large and in ... more
My wife is a curvy lady and I find that using fingers works great and she lays on her back and I get in a 69 like position except I'm not straddling her face (off to her side) and that helps get the job done!
08/13/2015