Should it be One-For-One on Giving Head?

Should it be One-For-One on Giving Head?

Timaree Timaree
Most of us like to keep some kind of reciprocity in our sex, I think. If your partner goes down on you, do you feel an obligation to return the favor either immediately or before they do it again? Or do you repay their efforts in another way?
02/10/2011
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SexyTabby SexyTabby
I give much more then I receive but I don't see any obligations in it. The difference is I'm willing give oral during foreplay and any time I'm not really up to sex but I usually tell him when I want oral.
02/10/2011
Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
Most of us like to keep some kind of reciprocity in our sex, I think. If your partner goes down on you, do you feel an obligation to return the favor either immediately or before they do it again? Or do you repay their efforts in another way?
I do not feel obligated at all. My husband and I are in a D/s kind of relationship, so I do as he says in the bedroom. He doesn't go down on me very often (I've never been a huge fan of receiving oral sex) anyway, and I give him a LOT more oral sex than I get. We're both happy that way though.
02/10/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
We keep the oral 50/50, fair is fair..
02/10/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
Most of us like to keep some kind of reciprocity in our sex, I think. If your partner goes down on you, do you feel an obligation to return the favor either immediately or before they do it again? Or do you repay their efforts in another way?
i usually give hubby a BJ and he doesnt always give oral but i get stimulated in other ways
02/10/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I think in an ideal world it should be 50/50 assuming both enjoy it.
02/11/2011
married with children married with children
It is not even close in my house. I give way more then i recieve.
02/11/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I do not keep score. I love it as much as he does (giving and receiving).
02/11/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
IMO, there should be no 1 for 1 feeling of obligation ANYTHING is any relationship. My partner should do things because he wants to not because I did them for him and vice versa. There is no score kept. I think it is selfish to do so.
02/11/2011
Linga Linga
No, not at all.... I'd be completely happy just giving!
02/11/2011
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