Contributor: Tart Tart
Today I was told that not many men actually enjoy anal sex. This is a contradiction to the thought I have had that most men like anal, with a few exceptions. I'm more than curious now to find out what men really think of anal sex.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am a male and I love anal sex!
I am a male and I find anal sex disgusting
I am a male and anal just isn't my thing
I am a male and I could take it or leave it
Total votes: 92 (92 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I love it, but it's not my call to make. It's a wonderful expression of love and submission. However, I always let my wife decide since there are days when she's in the mood and days when she's not - among cleanliness issues as well. If my wife isn't feeling sexy, then sex isn't that great regardless of what we're doing. It was really her idea to try it in the first place too. Because of the issues related to it, I never suggested it during the 5 years we dated or the 4 years of marriage before then. It was totally worth the wait until she was comfortable with it. Before we tried it, I never really gave it much thought - I didn't know what I was missing!
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I answered for my guy who loves it. We just did it last night lol. He compares it to vaginal sex except tighter in a different way.
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I answered for my husband. He loves it too. We started talking briefly about it yesterday afternoon and he got hard. We did it last night and the orgasms he has from it are amazing in my opinion. There is something about it that is very primal that turns us on.
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim

I have never tried, but I would like to. I guess it is a fantasy of mine as the wife has no desire to do it, but I do not ask for it.
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I didn't vote because I'm a girl, but my partner would probably say it's not his thing. I was the one who wanted to try it, and he was very hesitant but basically agreed out of curiousity. He says he'd rather just have vaginal sex because we don't have to use lube or start slow, and because his penis gets a bit sore after anal due to the tightness.
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
I voted for my boyfriend. He loves loves loves it!
Contributor: maskineri maskineri
Let's separate some things. Do men enjoy being on a giving or a recieving end of anal sex?
As to giving, I don't see any downside here. The only things that might stop you here is hygiene (easly solvable) ot moral/religious beliefs. Everything else is fun.
As to reveiving, I find anal sex really troublesome. It depends on the skills of the active partner A LOT! It's really easy to ruin your first impression if your parnter is a beginner or tries to rush things.
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Like Hallmar82 - although I love anal sex, it's up to my wife and she's not a fan.
Contributor: iCouple iCouple
Anal sex is great when she's ready and willing...but that is rarely the case! I don't feel "shafted" when she says no though!!
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
For the longest time my guy would ask for anal. Sometimes I would get brave when I had a couple drinks in me, but it was never very successful. It would hurt, we'd stop. This went on for years. I guess I never really gave it a fair chance. Then one night I just told him to go for it. I had him go nice and slow and I used my vibrator on my clit. Well, that was a fuck for the ages!! We both came so hard. After that we started doing it semi regularly(always with my vibrator in hand). Now it's gotten to the point were sometimes I practically have to beg for it. I just love it that much. Of course, he's usually more than happy to oblige (although sometimes he'd rather just fuck my pussy).

Moral of the story: Give anal a fair chance. I never would have guessed I would love it so much. Now I can't picture my sex life with out it.
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
voted for hubby. seems like something that is only done when the mood calls cor it. which is not very often.
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Voted for my SO. He just doesn't like the thought of being in the same place as waste. I dunno. Anyway, he's too large for me to enjoy it in any case.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'm assuming you're talking the man as the giver/penetrator.

Sensation-wise I don't see how there could be any complaint, unless it was that it didn't live up to expectations (it's not super tight all the way).

There are some other things that guys do worry about. Cleanliness, whether or not you'll hurt your partner, is it safe, will she like it, does she see it as a lack of respect, etc. These all can make a guy not like it.
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I'll put in a vote for other as well. I am very interested in trying it, but my wife does not want to do it at all. (It's an out hole) Maybe on day she will change her mind, but I am not going to push for it right now.
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I am female, my b/f loves anal both to give it and to get it from me via a strap-on.
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
Voted for hubby - he could take it or leave it. He likes it but he likes other things better I think. He still has a good time when we have anal I'm just usually the one to initiate it.
Contributor: beautifulpierced beautifulpierced
Voting for hubby. anal is totally his obsession. I wasn't all that into it due to a "mishap" with a previous boyfriend but my husband and i try and it takes some serious relaxing on my part. he loves it and im slowly but surely changing my mind on it and coming around to his side. lol
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I like it quite a bit, but don't need to have it regularly.
Contributor: abntroll58 abntroll58
I love it but it's been a while
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Anal sex is fun and connecting for me. I love playing with her butt while going down. the mood has to be right and it is never rushed. Her body is a wonderland.
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
I love it as long as I am not hurting my partner.
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I think the preparation and patience necessary to do anal properly is probably a big turn-off for a lot of people. I love anal myself, but it generally requires some forethought and a lot of patience. Moreover, if your partner doesn't enjoy anal sex, it can be tough to enjoy it yourself. I'm turned off by the idea that my girl isn't into whatever we're doing or is just doing it to please me. So I guess anal is probably pretty popular in theory, but not so much in practice.
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Voted for hubby, he is a take it or leave it person with it. Sometimes he starts it and sometimes I do.
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
My boyfriend loves anal sex. And since the first time we've tried it, I've never vetoed it. But still, I mean, I love it too, but not as much as he does, and in my opinion nothing beats vaginal intercourse. But for both of us, anal comes close.
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
My husband & I enjoy anal
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Originally posted by Tart
Today I was told that not many men actually enjoy anal sex. This is a contradiction to the thought I have had that most men like anal, with a few exceptions. I'm more than curious now to find out what men really think of anal sex.
I am a man, hetero and happily married. I love giving/receiving anal sex of any kind, it is a very erogenous area. I think most men enjoy anal intercourse with their significant other, and I think that I lot of them, but not all, like anal sex of some variety, whether that is pegging/rimming or just fingering the anal area of themselves.
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
Funny enough I have never been on the giving side of anal, always on the receiving end and I can tell you as a guy it is amazing. I hope to give anal sex (giving) a try soon.
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I answered for my guy who loves it. We just did it last night lol. He compares it to vaginal sex except tighter in a different way.
That's what my boyfriend said too.
He said it's kind of the same as vaginal, but also really different.