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Arousal Creams/Ointments?
I have NO sex drive. NONE! I enjoy talking about sex, but to actually want it...nope! I am having my hormones tested in January, but for now, can you.

cream pie
How many woman like cream pies I have heard some love it while others hate it

Woo hoo...is it coming?
I was looking at the website to see if you had any other type of rings that go over the testicles. I saw the Woo hoo and thought it would be a good..

Creams or sprays that relax tighten vaginal muscles.
I suffer from something called Vaginismus. Vaginismus is a Painful spasmodic contractions that affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of...

Do you add creams, oils or candles to your massagers?
When you use a palm massager or the wand massagers, I was wondering-How many of you add oils, creams and massage candles to your massages?

I've been on birth control since before we started dating, so I've never had unprotected sex. But he never uses condoms. So, I don't even know what they feel like...

I take fluid bonding very seriously, always have. Unless I know the results of their lastest STD workup and we have an ongoing relationship, there's no way I'm have unprotected sex with anyone.

My partner and I have never had unprotected sex without the explicit intention of wanting to be pregnant, but the desire to do so has definitely been there for both of us before.

But while there is obviously good reason to avoid unprotected sex if you are with multiple partners, I think it is much less of a big deal if you are with the same partner and are willing to deal with the possibility of pregnancy.

...and just because I was curious I looked up the average chances of pregnancy with unprotected sex during a woman's cycle...



Here's what Princeton researchers say about the chances of pregnancy with unprotected (or failed birth control) sex:

Emergency Contraception: Risk of Pregnancy

"Researchers have calculated the average risk at different times in a woman’s monthly cycle, but it’s important to remember that your risk could be higher or lower. The risk is highest on the days right before you ovulate (when your ovaries release the egg), reaching a maximum of nearly 30%. You can’t know for sure when you will ovulate, so researchers have calculated the average risk of pregnancy based on a woman’s monthly cycle (since you can figure out when you started your last period).


During the first two days of a woman’s cycle (day 1 being your first day of bleeding), the average risk of pregnancy is virtually zero. After the first two days, the risk starts to rise steadily, reaching 9% on or about day 13. Then it begins to decline slowly until it levels off at about 1% on day 25. It stays at about 1% for the rest of your cycle. (The average monthly cycle lasts 29 days, but it is perfectly normal to have a cycle that lasts as little as 20 days or less or as long as 40 days or more.)"

My husband and I always are bareback. The only time he comes in me is when we are trying to get pregnant. Any other time it's on me or in a tissue.

I love feeling bareback but know better than to get myself pregnant.

Barebacking, yes, when I'm at the lowest chance of pregnancy. Cream pies? No. I won't let him cum in me until I'm on a solid birth control, such as the IUD. (And yes, I realize there's pre-cum to consider, even if I'm not letting him cum in me).

My wife has always been on birth control and she loves when I cum inside her so I've never seen a reason not to

When we are on solid birth control, then we go bareback. We are exclusive, he's my first, his first was his late wife, so neither of us is worried about infection. Pregnancy is our only real consideration.

There has only been once that I let a guy cum inside and it was on my period (double gross). With my current guy, we used to start off without one then stop and put one on to finish. Then I had a pregnancy scare and we were like, "Oh yeeeaahh, PRECUM!" So now his thingy goes no where near my mabobber without one.

I WOULD LOVE TO BUT NEVER HAVE!!!!!!

HATE condoms- so I pretty well only do bareback and creampies make it that much better. I've been on Nuva ring for years now and despite being kind of gross to take out I love it.

Nothing beats it assuming you know your partners sexual health.....

Hate condoms.

Hate him pulling out.

there is nothing better than cuming inside a woman. it sucks having to stop mid stroke and jerk yourself off. It also sucks wearing a condom bc it takes me 6 years to finish.

The best: anal cream pie. heaven on earth.

Only use condoms for masturbating when I need to keep it clean and quick.

I NEVER use condoms for sex. The plus to birth control and a closed stable of sex partner(s).

I have an IUD, so no condoms for us!

We do this, but we are fluid bonded and married. Having a child wouldn't change anything for us, so we don't always prevent it. We are okay with that, though.

i HATE condoms.... BUT i will use it until i know i'm the only one he's fucking... gotta be safe

nope always use condoms