In order:

1. I do prefer to be fresh before receiving oral sex, but if I've had a shower recently and haven't gotten too sweaty, I'm okay.

2. Same as above, reverse.

3. Same as above, but not as strict.

4. I am more comfortable if we're not sweaty, but sometimes it's okay if it's very spontaneous sex.

5. Yes, I try to get rid of fluids as fast as possible but not really because of cleanliness, mostly to prevent UTIs. Though now that I'm accustomed to cleaning up after sex, if I don't, then I feel kinda gross.

6. I trim, but I trim for my own comfort, especially during my TOM. Not really ever worried about anything crusting there.

7. I clean my toys after every use. Sometimes immediately, but often I'm so spent that it waits until morning. Depending on the material of the toy and how it's stored, I will at least rinse it off before use.

8. Toys only get used with condoms if they're somewhat porous and being shared; but my more porous toys are usually only for one person.

9. I haven't used a condom in so long! That's the joy of being monogamous and infertile!

10. Only if we've had onions/garlic/other mal-odiferous. Or if Mr's been drinking whiskey. Or in the morning. (morning breath is gross)

11. Yes, yes. YES!!!!!

12. The only lubes I'm ever concerned with are the ones that have an effect (warming/cooling/tingl ing) because they give me UTIs almost always

I'm a very clean person in general. I don't think of myself as OCD about cleanliness even in regards to sex, but there are a few things that make it more enjoyable for me and general cleanliness is one of them.