Do you consider fingering to be sex?

Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I would say it's more like to fondeling or groping. More of a foreplay action then actual sex
07/18/2014
Contributor: guard083 guard083
I don't think of fingering as sex. Of course everyone has their own definition of what sex is to them, but I see fingering as foreplay really. That has been used to lead up to more things in my relationship.
08/14/2014
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
I think it's personally up to that individual. It just depends on what you think it is. If it is indeed sex to you, then it is.
08/17/2014
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Foreplay.
Totally agreed, not sex in my opinion.
09/22/2014
Contributor: Azula Azula
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Originally posted by edeneve
finger fucking isn't brought up in sex discussions yet it occurs a lot. do you consider finger fucking to be sex?
It's totally sex, and tbh I imagine anyone who feels differently hasn't experienced a proper finger fucking. You wouldn't know it from my ridiculous dildo collection, but having my girlfriend's fingers inside me is much more intimate and similar to penis-in-vagina sex for me than having her fuck me with an impersonal piece of silicone with no nerve endings. No disrespect to dildos-- obviously, I'm a big fan of them. But to me, it's much more "real" sex than strap-on sex. But I also consider oral sex to be "real" sex, and I don't really understand why anyone would torture themselves trying to make scissoring work. That shit is hard to pull off!
09/23/2014
Contributor: Jmo2280 Jmo2280
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Originally posted by edeneve
finger fucking isn't brought up in sex discussions yet it occurs a lot. do you consider finger fucking to be sex?
I consider it just a form of foreplay
09/23/2014
Contributor: Kdlips Kdlips
have any of you ever had sex while on your period
09/29/2014
Contributor: Aesenthia Aesenthia
I would consider it part of foreplay, but it is a sexual activity. I think if it can bring you to orgasm it is certainly sexual.
10/03/2014
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
I would consider it foreplay. If bodily fluids are not exchanged in your private parts then it's not sex.
11/29/2014
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Azula
It's totally sex, and tbh I imagine anyone who feels differently hasn't experienced a proper finger fucking. You wouldn't know it from my ridiculous dildo collection, but having my girlfriend's fingers inside me is much more intimate ... more
I considered it foreplay. According to Azula, apparently I've been doing it wrong all this time...
11/30/2014
Contributor: Live-love-laugh Live-love-laugh
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Originally posted by KittyGoesRawr
*raises her little lesbian hand* Damn straight, I do!
agreed.
12/15/2014
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
finger fucking isn't brought up in sex discussions yet it occurs a lot. do you consider finger fucking to be sex?
I consider it to be part of foreplay.
01/25/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I would agree that fingering very well may be considered foreplay but that foreplay is an important part of sex. So YES I would say that engaging in fingering would count as being "sex".
02/11/2015
Contributor: Sarebear&Del Sarebear&Del
I would say its more foreplay but still its getting a little crazy in bed
02/14/2015
Contributor: BusyMe BusyMe
Not actual sex not even close.
02/20/2015
Contributor: The Awkword Lover The Awkword Lover
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Originally posted by CinnamonNights
I consider fingering to be a sexual act, but I don't consider it to be sex. To me sex is pretty much intentionally touching genitals with someone for an extended period of time. Scissoring, and someone giving or receiving a dick (one that is ... more
This is my view as well.

...especially when the owner of those fingers does NOT know what he or she is doing. Ha!
11/02/2015
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by edeneve
finger fucking isn't brought up in sex discussions yet it occurs a lot. do you consider finger fucking to be sex?
I think it's foreplay, not necessarily sex
11/08/2019
Contributor: Nightstalkerlove Nightstalkerlove
I thought I knew until I read all of the posts. Now I'm not sure what I think after reading everybodys opinions.
11/10/2019