If you could have meaningless sex with random people SAFELY would it be something you would actively pursue?
Do you find meaningless sex with strangers a turn on?
05/09/2011
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Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
05/09/2011
That's not really my thing. (I'm assuming you mean a bunch of one night stands.)
05/09/2011
I have never had sex with a random person so I would not know what the feeling was like...
05/09/2011
If I could I think I would. No strings attached kind of deal sounds just fine to me.
05/09/2011
No. I need a mental connection first.
05/09/2011
"Hell yes!"
05/09/2011
I would rather be connected before sex.
05/09/2011
yeah nu, im turned on by the person i love not strangers
05/09/2011
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Nicely said
Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
And yes, it's a turn on.
05/10/2011
In theroy or fantasy, yes. Looks hot in movies an I like the general idea. BUT in reality no because I know myself and I would bring feelings into it. And it would turn out bad for me afterwards.
05/10/2011
Hell no! 1ST Because I'm deeply committed to only my partner and in a monogamous relationship. 2. because I am much better than a one night stand & I deserve better.
05/14/2011
I don't, but that's because I've never been one for a one night stand.
05/16/2011
Sex with strangers can be fun...the best way is a a swings party..that way you do have a safety net(kinda)and who says you can't be friends afterwards...or at least Fuck buddies. That way it's not a one night stand. Having sex with strangers can allow you to do things you might have wanted to try but could not with you current partner or for fear of being judged for your desire. If you are in a monogamous relationship then this idea would not work for you unless you opened up your relationship. But if you are in a mono relationship them you probable don't want to open it up.
05/16/2011
Oh yeah!
05/17/2011
N0OOOOOOOO
06/20/2011
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Yeah... what is sex 'supposed' to mean? Doesn't it serve many purposes? The phrasing tints the question...
Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
06/22/2011
Yeah! I'm young, unattached, and want to have fun.
06/22/2011
The best sex in my opinion is meaningful but it doesn't have to mean everything. Just my opinion.
06/22/2011
Not really
06/22/2011
I didn't vote. I think sex with strangers is hot as a fantasy, but it's not something I would ever actually do. I've had a lot of partners for my age, but I've never had a one-night stand.
I have ... too high of standards to sleep with strangers, in real life, I guess. I have to know their intelligence baseline, and common sense, and stance on separation of church and state... not to mention health!
But if I had a loving partner who would be able to arrange a gang bang for me full of strangers-to-me that were known-and-trusted to him, that would be absolutely amazing.
I have ... too high of standards to sleep with strangers, in real life, I guess. I have to know their intelligence baseline, and common sense, and stance on separation of church and state... not to mention health!
But if I had a loving partner who would be able to arrange a gang bang for me full of strangers-to-me that were known-and-trusted to him, that would be absolutely amazing.
06/23/2011
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sex shouldntbe meaningles sif it is thentahts just sad in my opinion
Originally posted by
daniel and frances
If you could have meaningless sex with random people SAFELY would it be something you would actively pursue?
06/23/2011
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That's very true. I guess I didn't consider that when I posed the question.
Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
06/23/2011
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i dont see how it can mean anything more than just sex. i call that meaningless...
Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
06/23/2011
Sex is way too personal to share with some random stranger. I'd rather be with someone I love.
06/23/2011
It cannot be a complete stranger. There has to be some sort of chemistry or spark.
10/10/2011
I don't sex is meaningless, even with a stranger, so no. Sex is a form of emotional bonding and it happens even if you don't know the person.
But from my understanding, you're asking if sex in a one night stand is a turn on? i can take it or leave it
But from my understanding, you're asking if sex in a one night stand is a turn on? i can take it or leave it
10/10/2011
I've never had sex with someone I didn't know, can be a fun fantasy but not something I'd necessarily want to engage in.
10/10/2011
Nope, I find myself sexually attracted to someone based on who they are as a person so sex with strangers isn't possible for me.
10/10/2011
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