Do you find meaningless sex with strangers a turn on?

Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
If you could have meaningless sex with random people SAFELY would it be something you would actively pursue?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Hell yes!
22  (42%)
No thank you.
30  (58%)
Safe or not, I do it now.
Total votes: 52
Poll is closed
05/09/2011
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Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
05/09/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
That's not really my thing. (I'm assuming you mean a bunch of one night stands.)
05/09/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I have never had sex with a random person so I would not know what the feeling was like...
05/09/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
If I could I think I would. No strings attached kind of deal sounds just fine to me.
05/09/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
No. I need a mental connection first.
05/09/2011
Contributor: Virgulino Virgulino
"Hell yes!"
05/09/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I would rather be connected before sex.
05/09/2011
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
yeah nu, im turned on by the person i love not strangers
05/09/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
Nicely said

And yes, it's a turn on.
05/10/2011
Contributor: Howells Howells
In theroy or fantasy, yes. Looks hot in movies an I like the general idea. BUT in reality no because I know myself and I would bring feelings into it. And it would turn out bad for me afterwards.
05/10/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Hell no! 1ST Because I'm deeply committed to only my partner and in a monogamous relationship. 2. because I am much better than a one night stand & I deserve better.
05/14/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I don't, but that's because I've never been one for a one night stand.
05/16/2011
Contributor: tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Sex with strangers can be fun...the best way is a a swings party..that way you do have a safety net(kinda)and who says you can't be friends afterwards...or at least Fuck buddies. That way it's not a one night stand. Having sex with strangers can allow you to do things you might have wanted to try but could not with you current partner or for fear of being judged for your desire. If you are in a monogamous relationship then this idea would not work for you unless you opened up your relationship. But if you are in a mono relationship them you probable don't want to open it up.
05/16/2011
Contributor: lolsos lolsos
Oh yeah!
05/17/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
N0OOOOOOOO
06/20/2011
Contributor: clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
Yeah... what is sex 'supposed' to mean? Doesn't it serve many purposes? The phrasing tints the question...
06/22/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Yeah! I'm young, unattached, and want to have fun.
06/22/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
The best sex in my opinion is meaningful but it doesn't have to mean everything. Just my opinion.
06/22/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Not really
06/22/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I didn't vote. I think sex with strangers is hot as a fantasy, but it's not something I would ever actually do. I've had a lot of partners for my age, but I've never had a one-night stand.

I have ... too high of standards to sleep with strangers, in real life, I guess. I have to know their intelligence baseline, and common sense, and stance on separation of church and state... not to mention health!

But if I had a loving partner who would be able to arrange a gang bang for me full of strangers-to-me that were known-and-trusted to him, that would be absolutely amazing.
06/23/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by daniel and frances
If you could have meaningless sex with random people SAFELY would it be something you would actively pursue?
sex shouldntbe meaningles sif it is thentahts just sad in my opinion
06/23/2011
Contributor: daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
That's very true. I guess I didn't consider that when I posed the question.
06/23/2011
Contributor: duff duff
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
Why does sex have to be meaningless purely because it is with random people?
i dont see how it can mean anything more than just sex. i call that meaningless...
06/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Sex is way too personal to share with some random stranger. I'd rather be with someone I love.
06/23/2011
Contributor: fabidefabi fabidefabi
It cannot be a complete stranger. There has to be some sort of chemistry or spark.
10/10/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I don't sex is meaningless, even with a stranger, so no. Sex is a form of emotional bonding and it happens even if you don't know the person.

But from my understanding, you're asking if sex in a one night stand is a turn on? i can take it or leave it
10/10/2011
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I've never had sex with someone I didn't know, can be a fun fantasy but not something I'd necessarily want to engage in.
10/10/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Nope, I find myself sexually attracted to someone based on who they are as a person so sex with strangers isn't possible for me.
10/10/2011