We don't do much dirty talking, but there was a point last weekend my boyfriend just go completely caught in the moment and whispered, "I want to fuck you so hard" with this somewhat menacing tone. It was sooooo hot! I jumped out of bed and went for the condoms I'd left in the other room; when I came back, he looked embarrassed and began apologizing that he'd said that. The apology was entirely unnecessary, but he was so dang cute then too.
If your partner talks REAL dirty to you during sex, do they ever make them apologize after?
09/10/2011
Depends on what they say - but usually it's pretty obvious when the mood's broken, and whoever said it will apologize
09/10/2011
I voted other because we don't really talk like that. If he did, it wouldn't be so extreme that I'd need an apology.
09/11/2011
We never apologize, as we've spoken about this previously and have agreed that it is being used in a specific context.
09/11/2011
"Dirty Talk" is consensual. Consensual activities don't require apologies, unless something outside the consent occurs.
No, I don't want him to apologize for doing what turns me on. Why would I want him to do that?
No, I don't want him to apologize for doing what turns me on. Why would I want him to do that?
09/11/2011
Its never happend to me
09/11/2011
There are a couple of phrases or implications that are off limits, but we have been together long enough that we know what those are. Other than that, dirty talk isn't just for sex. We use it throughout the day, as a form of continuous foreplay.
09/11/2011
My husband's usually quiet during sex, I'm the one who talks dirty occasionally, but name-calling is not a part of it.
09/11/2011
He doesn't apologize and I'm glad he doesn't. It's fantasy and I enjoy it. If he apologized it'd be the same as if he'd apologized for giving me an orgasm or if he apologized for taking me for dinner, if something is good and doesn't hurt anyone, why would you apologize. It might actually upset me if he apologized, because then I might feel like he meant it, rather than it being just a fantasy.
On the other hand, there are some things he's not allowed to call me, and if he does, he apologizes.
On the other hand, there are some things he's not allowed to call me, and if he does, he apologizes.
09/11/2011
I've never heard of someone apologizing for dirty talk. That's a new one for me.
09/11/2011
I fucking love it when a guy talks dirty to me. I'm rather submissive.
09/11/2011
No. I only have one or two things that are off limits and kill the mood, but outside of that I LOVE dirty talk. So much!! So there's no need to apologize at all after, for me.
12/03/2011
I have to apologize sometimes, but not my partner.
12/03/2011
I love when he talks dirty, and he knows it. He doesn't need to apologize. I think the first time he said anything super dirty he apologized, but I told him not to worry about it, so he doesn't anymore.
12/05/2011
no. o.O i mean, if he wants to appologize for it. i'd probably like "for what?" though. XD
12/07/2011
lol no
12/07/2011
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i don't mind it so i wouldnt need to hear an apology
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nolongerhere
Sorry, meant to say, do they ever apologize to you after...
My husband loves to say horrible things to me during sex, I like it too, but he always apologizes for calling me his dirty slut, or his tight-pussy bitch...etc...afterwar ds. It lets ... more
My husband loves to say horrible things to me during sex, I like it too, but he always apologizes for calling me his dirty slut, or his tight-pussy bitch...etc...afterwar ds. It lets ... more
Sorry, meant to say, do they ever apologize to you after...
My husband loves to say horrible things to me during sex, I like it too, but he always apologizes for calling me his dirty slut, or his tight-pussy bitch...etc...afterwar ds. It lets me know it was all in fun. Then we cuddle. Anyone else's lover do this? less
My husband loves to say horrible things to me during sex, I like it too, but he always apologizes for calling me his dirty slut, or his tight-pussy bitch...etc...afterwar ds. It lets me know it was all in fun. Then we cuddle. Anyone else's lover do this? less
12/08/2011
haha nope. He calls me his little slut after sex too, which can sound surprisingly affectionate.
05/13/2013
I've never had anyone say dirty things like that to me.. I don't know if I'd be offended or what.. But I don't think it would turn me on one bit. I wouldn't exactly make them apologize but I would mention something of how it offended me and if they apologize then.. so be it.. if not.. then whatever, I guess.
05/16/2013
Dirty talk is a huge turn on for me...so if he apologized for it, it would take something away from it for me.
05/18/2013
No, because no apologies were necessary! Dirty talk is just that.
05/18/2013
He doesn't do it often and he never says he's sorry I don't mind! I don't want him to, I don't want him to think he has to either.
05/18/2013
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