Just wondering what other couples who have been together for a long time do to keep the relationship fresh. We work different shifts and are both in our mid 50's. No kids at home. We also sleep in separate rooms due to my wife's medical condition (Lyme) & our different schedules. The good news is that we are still more in love with each other every day! Our time together is very important & toys have been a fun part of our relationship for 17+ years.