Do you like when your partner wakes you up in the middle of the night to have sex (or would you)?

Contributor: karenm karenm
My partner did this recently and I really liked it. But I can see how some people would just prefer to stay asleep.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, I like it (would like it).
94  (64%)
No, I don't like it (or wouldn't like it).
22  (15%)
31  (21%)
Total votes: 147
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I love it!!!

However; nights before I have to do the work thing early in the morning are very much off limits I make sure it is known.
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
Always a good thing. Who needs that much sleep anyway?
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
As long as we don't have work the next day! We go to bed kind of late as it is and have work in the morning. We both don't function well without enough sleep, luckily we both agree on this.

Any night where we don't have to wake up early the next morning is fair game though!
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I love it when that happens. It's happened multiple times in in one night before, we were both having trouble sleeping, lol.
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
It depends on if I am very very tired or not. If I get woken up out my sleep I am a crab apple I don't care what it is for.
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I sleep pretty hard, so I'd rather do it before I fall asleep, or close to when I'm ready to wake up.
Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
It depends, but I'm usually okay with it.
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I voted "other" since my husband has only done this once (while I was asleep) a few days ago. It was interesting to me, simply because, in the 6 years we've been together, he's never done this. I've done it to him though. I loved it, but when I found out he was "asleep" when we were having sex, it kind of put me off. He doesn't really remember the first half. He does this a lot when I'm awake and he's asleep. I won't turn him down, but it's a turn off that he's not conscious when he's making moves. I call it Zombie Sex. When you're fully awake watching a sleeping person come on to you, grope you, kiss you with their eyes closed, it's Zombie Sex. lol I'd prefer him to be awake and making the moves. I could careless if I'm awake or asleep; I want me some sex. lol
Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
It hasn't happened to me yet, as we don't live together, ie not option do we get to fall asleep together, but I think I would like it.
Contributor: spiced spiced
I'd love it! I tried it a couple of times with my wife and she did NOT love it.
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Answering for my husband -- I'm the one who wakes him up in the middle of the night for sex, and he loves it!
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Hasn't actually happened, but it'd be fun!
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It hasn't happened - and it isn't likely to happen - I'm Ok with that.
Contributor: DolphinGirl DolphinGirl
It really depends on the day of the week and how tired I am.
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Okay this one really depends. I have a lot of sleep issues so it could be annoying. As long as I don't have to get up early it would be fine though.

My boyfriend tends to side on caution on this one, but he has been known to wake me up with coffee and a back rub which in my opinion is just as good as sex sometimes. And I am less likely to toss something, I am far from a morning person and can be quite grouchy upon waking. lol
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I like my sleep a lot more than sex so no, I wouldn't like it.
Contributor: eri86 eri86
I think it would depend on how deeply asleep I was, and how he went about waking me up.
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I guess. . I hate being woken up.. But if it's for sex.. Do your thangggg.
Contributor: js250 js250
NO!!! I love my sleep and am a total bitch if I am woken up randomly! Let me wake up on my own, then bring it on!!!!!
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Yes, I will always enjoy being woken up by my long as it's for sex and not to clean up a mess.
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I like it, but she only did this once. I doubt she would like it as much if I did it..
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Most of the time I do =)
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
Sex halfway through the night when we're both still half-asleep is sorta weird. Dreaming and hallucinating and thinking things that don't make sense. I have to compare notes with him in the morning to make sure it actually happened.

But being woken up for sex in the morning is my favorite way to wake up.
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
I would wake him up -- if I wasn't so dead asleep. Which means I possibly wouldn't appreciate being woken, myself.
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
As long as I don't have an early shift the next morning or have to take my daughter to school for activities.

When our children were babies, it was the only time we could have uninterrupted sex. I would nurse the baby and then when the baby finally ate and fell asleep we knew we would have at least an hour (maybe) to have some fun.
Contributor: carolinagirl carolinagirl
I love it!!
Contributor: synj66 synj66
I would love it if it ever happened! Chances are I was thinking about sex anyways before drifting off to sleep and I often have sexual dreams lol. We keep everything we need less than a foot from the bed so bring it on
Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I'm a chronic insomniac so, if someone wakes me up after I've managed to fall asleep, they may not live to talk about it.

I also take Ambien fairly regularly so once I'm out, consent might be an issue!
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I would enjoy it!