Saying names during sex

Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i've never been much for saying my partner's name during sex. It's just not natural for me. i don't have any particular attachment to or fondness for hearing my own name during sex either.
What about you? How do you feel about using names during sex? Do you say your partner's name during sex? And if so, is it because it's natural for you to do so, or does your partner like it or ask you to, or do you have some other reason? Do you like your partner to use your name and do they?
11/13/2012
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Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It feels awkward for me, too. And my husband doesn't use my name either so I guess he feels the same.
11/14/2012
Contributor: butts butts
We do, it feels very personal. He really likes when I say his name during any play.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
It's not very natural for me either. I'm more likely to say "babe" instead of his name.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I don't really say names either during sex.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Mynedful Mynedful
I'm very quiet as well, names seems odd... to me at least talking at all during sex other than sexy comments would be odd.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I feel like if it happens, it's nice. But, if it's forced or unnatural, that's not so good. I don't generally say my partner's name, and he doesn't usually say mine and we're all okay with that.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
If it happens during sex it's usually natural. I do enjoy hearing my name, but its not such a big deal that I'd ever ask her to say it.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I do say his name during sex. He doesn't often say mine so I find it extra sexy when he does.
11/14/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
i've never been much for saying my partner's name during sex. It's just not natural for me. i don't have any particular attachment to or fondness for hearing my own name during sex either.
What about you? How do you feel about ... more
I'm the same -- it doesn't come naturally. Neither of us really do, but I've said "honey" before. It doesn't bother me if he does not say my name. Honestly, the name saying kind of seems like it's more just something that came from movies, not real life. But who knows.
11/14/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We don't talk a lot - or use names - lots of heavy breathing though
11/14/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
i've never tried it.
11/14/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
never really thought about it before, but I don't ever recall hearing or saying names
11/14/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I don't use his given name, but sometimes I'll call him "Sir" if he asks a direct question. I feel odd about using given names during sex.
11/14/2012
Contributor: johnnyjohn johnnyjohn
I dont really say names lol just not my thing
11/16/2012
Contributor: Katdid Katdid
I dont say names.
11/16/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
It's not very natural for me either. I'm more likely to say "babe" instead of his name.
Same thing here.
11/18/2012