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You are right. I find even if I am not in the mood, if I go ahead and jump into it, it won't take but a minute or two to get me completely on-board and wondering why I was apprehensive in the first place.
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Very sound advice P'Gell. The act of taking charge - deciding that sex and intimacy are vital to your relationship. Sex and intimacy are like food and water to your relationship - without it, the relationship dies.
1. Decide ... more
1. Decide ... more
Very sound advice P'Gell. The act of taking charge - deciding that sex and intimacy are vital to your relationship. Sex and intimacy are like food and water to your relationship - without it, the relationship dies.
1. Decide it's important
2. Figure out what's getting in the way
3. Develop 'work-arounds' for the most common obstacles
And maybe the most important, when in doubt - go for it. You may not feel excited at the moment - but if you and your partner make the effort, by the time your done, you'll be so glad you said yes! Even if the sex turns out to be less than spectacular - you were intimate, you learned something about yourself and your partner - and things will be better next time.
Use it lose it! less
1. Decide it's important
2. Figure out what's getting in the way
3. Develop 'work-arounds' for the most common obstacles
And maybe the most important, when in doubt - go for it. You may not feel excited at the moment - but if you and your partner make the effort, by the time your done, you'll be so glad you said yes! Even if the sex turns out to be less than spectacular - you were intimate, you learned something about yourself and your partner - and things will be better next time.
Use it lose it! less