Who initiates anal sex?

Contributor: libbyv libbyv
if you and your partner enjoy anal sex, who generally initiates it, you or him?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
i'm a girl and i ask him for it, if in the mood
Rossie , KinkyKatieJames , TJtheMadHatter
3  (33%)
i'm a girl and he usually asks
Adnerbmw , The Vixen , Isola , SecretKinksters , Cosmonaut
5  (56%)
i'm a guy and she asks for it
i'm a guy and i'll ask her if i can
1  (11%)
Total votes: 9
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
It's usually me who asks for it...when I feel naughty!
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'll tell him when I think my body can handle it.
Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Originally posted by libbyv
if you and your partner enjoy anal sex, who generally initiates it, you or him?
i'd ask if i wanted it
Contributor: cgartman1989 cgartman1989
i think a girl should initate it, the guyy should not assume that she wants it
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
Neither of us really asks - we just do it.
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
i picked he does, but its pretty fifty fifty for us, we both like it and both initiate it pretty equally
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I do. I let him know that I'm in the mood, by telling him about the butt plug I'm wearing.
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
My man almost always the one to suggest/ask for it.
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He does, but I'm always game for it.
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
He suggests it.
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Sometimes she asks, more often I ask, but she's the gatekeeper... LOL