The g spot isn't that far in, it is maybe 1.5 to 2 inches in which is why she likes it when you almost remove your finger, that's the g spot.

Just so we are clear, the position is palm facing up, one finger or two fingers curled in the come hither motion. If you want to get really advanced your thumb can also be used to stimulate her clitoris at the same time but that is a bit tricky.

When you hit the g spot you can do a couple different moves. You can go around in circles or you can walk with your fingers or just hold it and keep pressure on the spot while licking her clitoris (real winner technique there in my opinion) What my ex liked best is, hmm I dunno how to describe it but kinda like I was trying to pull her g spot out of her. Not for real of course but that firm pressure and pulling out motion did it for her.

As for toys, I don't know exactly what I used before because I didn't buy it but I remember it looking something like the Mona 2 here on EF. But from reading this site it seems like the bent glass dildos are the way to go for g spot stimulation, the women here on EF rave about the Bent Graduate and the Amethyst so if I were to purchase a toy now to hit the g spot I'd definitively go for one of those. Good luck. less

Not to brag - but I have a Doctorate in g-spot orgasms! The only problem is that I have specialized in just 1 female - so applicability is not assured.

Here's what works with my gal:

1. I bought her a Pure Wand. Gave her a printout of reviews where women described how they use it to orgasm and squirt - then went on a business trip and told her to figure it out so that she could teach me - and she did.

She didn't even know what a g-spot was - until I showed her with my fingers. But anatomically she couldn't reach it, so she didn't quite know what to make of it. The Pure Wand solved both of those problems.

2. We use the Libertor Wedge to make oral much easier - and the fingers or small vibes that go along with that. When doing oral, the Uma and Mona are great toys for targeting the g-spot. The Wedge is also invaluable for targeting her g-spot during PIV.

3. We have used a variety of toys including glass wands; the Njoy Eleven and silicone dildos to help with g-spot stimulation. Some work with the obvious g-spot curve. However the Vixskin dildos work because they are fairly girthy and have a penis shape where the coronal ridge hits the g-spot.

Don't expect the same thing to work every time. In fact we joke that nothing works 2x in a row - although that's not quite true - it does help to use a lot of variety.

Finally - after mastering the g-spot orgasm, it's not even her favorite!

There are two deeper spots called the a-spot (anterior fonix erogenous zone) that is at the juncture of the cervix and vagina - facing toward the belly button and the PFE-zone (posterior fornix erogenous zone) at the juncture of the cervix and vagina facing the spine.

These deeper spots tend to create stronger orgasms for my wife - and are also linked to increasing lubrication i.e. gushing. The most effective toys for this are the Njoy Eleven, G4 Big Boss and Vixskin Johnny & Maverick.

Toy sizes are personal - so luckily there are many similar designs in smaller sizes if that's what you need. BTW - even though my wife likes larger toys - she does not like me to use 2 fingers inside - go figure?

Good luck and enjoy! less