Do you get a better P spot orgasm from pressure on the prostate during other play, or from motion agains the prostate?

Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We tried direct pressure, while I sucked him off, but he didn't find that comfortable or fun. Massaging his prostate during oral or any other activity is what gets him his super orgasms. However, we see all these rigid prostate devices that plug into the guy and "sit there". Does that direct continual pressure help get some guys off?
09/21/2013
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Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We tried direct pressure, while I sucked him off, but he didn't find that comfortable or fun. Massaging his prostate during oral or any other activity is what gets him his super orgasms. However, we see all these rigid prostate devices that plug ... more
For me, it’s all motion. Pressure is fantastic but when it’s pressure and movement, that’s what sends me over the edge. - C
09/21/2013
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We tried direct pressure, while I sucked him off, but he didn't find that comfortable or fun. Massaging his prostate during oral or any other activity is what gets him his super orgasms. However, we see all these rigid prostate devices that plug ... more
Well, it's rather a combination of both pressure and motion. You can a approach it in several ways and it greatly depends how worked up your guy is. The first option in my opinion is an inflatable buttplug from which my favorite is the Gapers Organic. Here is the link to my review if you're interested.
The point is that the pressure it applies is very gentle and you can actually move it a bit around and in/out to create actual sensations of stretching the sphincter muscles. Unfortunately it's currently out of stock but it's very well worth to wait.

The other option which I personally like a lot are Cyberskin/WixSkin/UR3 types of toys which have a little girth. So by using them you don't have rigid pressure and could also creates sensations from the penetration movement. (Actually the combination of the inflatable buttplug as a warmup and then the toys for pegging/manual stimulation do the best trick for me). Here are a few of my favorites:

1. Play things dong - great toy with nice girth (beginner to intermediate)
2. Ultra skin cock - would use it 24/7 if I could. The best solo/pegging orgasms I ever had. Pure anal super-o's everything. Really
3. Randy = the pro version, which I use when I have a need to filled up completely.

So basically this is my advice. The thing is that if the toys seems to big, look for smaller sizes but you will grow out of them very fast.

Enjoy!
09/25/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
get a curved steel or glass toy like the njoy pure wand. let him try it on his own to learn what he likes then he can coach you.

i have a pure wand that i love using on my prostate. orgasms without it just seem dull. when i find the right spot, short/fast/hard in and out movements are what is best. it seems as i get closer to orgasm, the wand seems to go faster and faster. i have an aneros plug which is supposed to only provide pressure. it only felt great when i started trusting it which ultimately lead me to the wand because it is so much more effective for thrusting.
09/25/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Chou Wang
Well, it's rather a combination of both pressure and motion. You can a approach it in several ways and it greatly depends how worked up your guy is. The first option in my opinion is an inflatable buttplug from which my favorite is the Gapers ... more
tell me how you use the ultraskin cock solo. i am thinking about experimenting with that. do you put a condom on it to keep it clean?
09/25/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I've had some from the Aneros MGX and the Lelo Billy while solo. Both when used correctly and hitting the spot work well.

The best though is one of the N Joy plugs or even the mgx while thrusting into my wife vigorously. That is really out of the world. A grand slam. The best is with the NJoy PP 2.0. I also have more semen than w/o a plug.
09/25/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I've had some from the Aneros MGX and the Lelo Billy while solo. Both when used correctly and hitting the spot work well.

The best though is one of the N Joy plugs or even the mgx while thrusting into my wife vigorously. That is really ... more
so you get pleasure just wearing the njoy plug while having intercourse? have ever done thrusting on the prostate to warm it up then insert the aneros or plug for intercourse? i am thinking about trying this.
09/26/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Bubba29
so you get pleasure just wearing the njoy plug while having intercourse? have ever done thrusting on the prostate to warm it up then insert the aneros or plug for intercourse? i am thinking about trying this.
I discovered the immense orgasm after a session with the MGX. I noticed my erection was larger and harder after she gave me oral with it still inserted. While thrusting I could feel it moving back and forth till I exploded. The harder I thrust the harder it thrusted my rectum and prostate.

The njoy large gave the same result but the NJ 2.0 made me cum too fast.
09/26/2013