We're new to P-spot play. What are the best ways to stimulate the prostate? What types of toys work best? Advice for beginners?
Thanks so much everyone
Thanks so much everyone
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07/26/2012
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It's different for different men, so what type of toy will depend on him.
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed finger during oral sex. She tried different things, rubbing, thrusting, pressing, etc., to see what I liked and get a better idea of where. Vibrations were introduced later via the Ophoria finger vibe, but I wasn't sure I liked it. We move on to the Tantus Silk Small and the VixSkin Spur, but it turned out that I did want vibrations after all. That led us to the Naughty Boy, which is what we use most often even now after we've tried several other toys.
My advice is to take as much time as he needs and learn together what works for him and what doesn't. Obviously you'll want to start with something small, but a bit of exploration might be needed before you find something that really does it for him
~A
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed finger during oral sex. She tried different things, rubbing, thrusting, pressing, etc., to see what I liked and get a better idea of where. Vibrations were introduced later via the Ophoria finger vibe, but I wasn't sure I liked it. We move on to the Tantus Silk Small and the VixSkin Spur, but it turned out that I did want vibrations after all. That led us to the Naughty Boy, which is what we use most often even now after we've tried several other toys.
My advice is to take as much time as he needs and learn together what works for him and what doesn't. Obviously you'll want to start with something small, but a bit of exploration might be needed before you find something that really does it for him
~A
07/26/2012
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good advice thanks
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Alan & Michele
It's different for different men, so what type of toy will depend on him.
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed ... more
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed ... more
It's different for different men, so what type of toy will depend on him.
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed finger during oral sex. She tried different things, rubbing, thrusting, pressing, etc., to see what I liked and get a better idea of where. Vibrations were introduced later via the Ophoria finger vibe, but I wasn't sure I liked it. We move on to the Tantus Silk Small and the VixSkin Spur, but it turned out that I did want vibrations after all. That led us to the Naughty Boy, which is what we use most often even now after we've tried several other toys.
My advice is to take as much time as he needs and learn together what works for him and what doesn't. Obviously you'll want to start with something small, but a bit of exploration might be needed before you find something that really does it for him
~A less
I had to get used to her messing around back there in the begin with, so I think we started out a lot slower than most people do. First it was just her well-lubed finger during oral sex. She tried different things, rubbing, thrusting, pressing, etc., to see what I liked and get a better idea of where. Vibrations were introduced later via the Ophoria finger vibe, but I wasn't sure I liked it. We move on to the Tantus Silk Small and the VixSkin Spur, but it turned out that I did want vibrations after all. That led us to the Naughty Boy, which is what we use most often even now after we've tried several other toys.
My advice is to take as much time as he needs and learn together what works for him and what doesn't. Obviously you'll want to start with something small, but a bit of exploration might be needed before you find something that really does it for him
~A less
07/30/2012
Warm up first with some finger play. Then move on to a vibrating anal probe.
My favorite is "Colt the Prowler" Have Fun..
My favorite is "Colt the Prowler" Have Fun..
08/06/2012
Start with fingers, but when and if you're ready to move on I'd strongly recommend something in silicone. You can use it with almost any lube, it can be cleaned and santitized, and you don't have to worry about anything leaching.
Once you've tried silicone you can branch out into the hard materials if you want.
While you're working with fingers figure out what kind of stimulation he likes. Does he like the fingers to press and stay in place, does he like small movements, thrusting? How much pressure does he like?
All of these will help you figure out what kind of toy you want to try. You might even decidide to stick with fingers.
Once you've tried silicone you can branch out into the hard materials if you want.
While you're working with fingers figure out what kind of stimulation he likes. Does he like the fingers to press and stay in place, does he like small movements, thrusting? How much pressure does he like?
All of these will help you figure out what kind of toy you want to try. You might even decidide to stick with fingers.
08/06/2012
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