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Aneros Prostrate Massagers
Which do you think is better the Helix Syn or the regular Helix is there a big difference between the two besides one has silicone and the other is...

Njoy Pure Wand techniques
Can anyone offer some tips on how best to use the pure wand? I have tried to use it on my wife only once and she did not enjoy it. Base on the...

Fairy Wand & Hitachi- is it worth it to own both?
Just getting a feel of whether or not I need the Hitachi when I already have the very powerful Fairy Wand! Is it a must?

Sweet Heart Wand vs Rainbow Heart?
I havent tried glass yet, which one do you think would be a better beginner glass toy?

Which premium silicone massager do you think is the best?
I kinda want to buy the thumper , Which in your opinion is better? link

You might look at the Nexus G-play Medium or Large. Heard good things about the Billy that Chou Wang mentioned too.

I've heard good things about Billy. I think you want to stay with something long and hand-held because it seems that the added control and options are good for him.

Another option would be to try a Magic Wand on the Bent Graduate. That would be powerful.

We have tried a bullet on the bent grad, it was too mild though. Thanks for the suggestions. Billy looks great but it's a bit too pricy.

A G-spot vibrator would work just as well. Just be sure you hold onto it since they tend to not have a flared base. You will have more options and there are some that are pretty reasonably price to see if he likes it first. If he does like it, then you can think about investing in a higher quality toy.

I really like the Lelo Billy.

We're going to try the rude boy first since it's affordable