When did you first realize you wanted to get pegged?

Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
just wondering when and why you decided you wanted to try getting fucked with a strapon
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
18-22 years old
ScottA , Robin Goodfellow , 2BudZ , MrCola , himandher , yerkungfuisweak , Anally Fixated , Spilock , BenEatsSauerkraut , joekamal , Eliza , ihavenipples , daman , Ropeguy , UunicornN , CharlieBrown , squire , angel142stx , zeebot , Samy , thebest , PandJ , Volund , allinonekid , CalebC , Robespierrethecat , Eugler , MustangMan
23-27 years old
Kinky Skier , Yoda , leatherlover , Vinroe , Angel deSanguine , YouPutThatWhere? , ihavenipples , slynch , fymenfolk , Pegaholics , Jabberwok , DashO'Roark , Elias McLovin , GRRRRR , dancingduo , C&K0143
28 - 32 years old
Kissaki , dhig , oldkinky , Bignuf , TheArchitect , Kendrir , jakjak , spiced , dannorth , Alex Time
33-40 years old
ToyTimeTim , shepegsME , csweatc , jroho , Cedarlooman , extrafun , tkphoto6 , Herzer
41 - 98 years old
Kindred , Peg , Gunsmoke , RonLee , navigator-d , CharmCity , newfoundlust , robertk2380 , sureYnot , Old Geezer , MIT09
it was just something i had seen and wanted to try it
Kinky Skier , Yoda , shepegsME , Spilock , Gunsmoke , Kissaki , phozersexy , Finso , CharmCity , stlouisxxx , Ropeguy , CharlieBrown , sureYnot , Jabberwok , extrafun , jeangel246 , Kendrir , GRRRRR , Falsepast , Tork48309 , Eugler , Lacey Fennec , C&K0143
my wife brought it up
Angel deSanguine , chantalgiardina , Jabberwok , CookieBits
i was forced into it
i was tricked into it
whats? pegging
LittleBoPeep , Brand , Taylor , Dona , kelaaa33wish , Breas
Lady Venus , Spilock , kawigrl , Mr.RightNow , Finso , stlouisxxx , MaryExy , lanky , zeebot , allinonekid , K101
Total votes: 117 (93 voters)
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Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
I'll start.

I had seen it in porn, and mentioned while walking home drunk from a bar with my later to be wife. I was in college.
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Had never even thought about it till I joined here. Before I would play with my ass every now and then, fingers, a cheap vibe even a hair brush handle. I asked the wife if she would "do me" with a dildo I bought and she said yes, she knew I was playing with prostate massage and was more than willing to help. She has not donned a strap on but she still gives it to me gooood.

About a week ago she saw this, so I do not think it will be long before she gives in on the harness.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
I'd enjoyed anal play for a while, and when I heard about strapon (pegging wasn't the word then AFAIK) I thought "oh, that looks fun. Anal play and she has her hands free, and..."
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
I think most people hardly scratch the surface when calling themselves.. "an ass man"
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I've always loved anal. And by the time I got married to a sexy and adventurous woman, asking about it seemed a no-brainer.
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Originally posted by Yoda
I've always loved anal. And by the time I got married to a sexy and adventurous woman, asking about it seemed a no-brainer.
The big problem is bringing it up to those unadventurous spouses...
Contributor: yerkungfuisweak yerkungfuisweak
I'm 20 and I just purchased my first kit an hour ago. Can't wait for it to come in Friday. I've been playing with myself anally for years now, but I finally have a girlfriend that will join me in play. I brought the idea of her fucking me a few months ago, at first jokingly towards her (but I seriously wanted it) and she thought I was nuts. But now she's taking the adventure with me! I'm excited.

Any tips?
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Originally posted by yerkungfuisweak
I'm 20 and I just purchased my first kit an hour ago. Can't wait for it to come in Friday. I've been playing with myself anally for years now, but I finally have a girlfriend that will join me in play. I brought the idea of her fucking me ... more
Look at some of the "Starting out with anal" types of posts. Other than that the big thing would be for your girlfriend to spend plenty of time learning how to use her dildo/"cock", set up the harness, and thrust with it. Have her "masturbate" by thrusting a bit.

Make sure you're comfortable with her performing anal play on you (bringing someone else in makes it different from solo play) - start with fingers and hand-held toys and move up as you become comfortable.

Make sure you're comfortable with your position and "readiness". If you're worried about mess go ahead and use a glycerin suppository or small water enema (give yourself an hour or so afterwards, and don't eat a lot).
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Even thought I have not had the pleasure yet - I voted 41 to 98 because I'm over 41 and hope to before I die.

It's interesting how the younger cohort out there lump anyone over 40 as being somehow equal. The experiences of 40 somethings are different than 50s or 60s etc - but I suppose that's too far in future for some contemplate.
Contributor: Brand Brand
I gotta say I never thought about it before now. I don't mind a nice pspot message from her but never thought about literally taking it up by her.
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
Found out about it my first year of college and then fantasized about it until last year, when I brought it up to my then fiance. I'm now the peg-ee of my wife, on the few occasions we've had a chance to enjoy it.
Contributor: Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
I asked hubby and he gave me his answers. He had played anally solo but had never thought about pegging until he saw my harness.
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I am not all together sure when it started exactly. Shortly after we were married we started pegging.
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
younger than 18...
Contributor: YouPutThatWhere? YouPutThatWhere?
I've thought about it for a long time. I already have several non-phallic harnesses that I think I would enjoy. Maybe someday my wife will change her mind.
Contributor: jroho jroho
I was in my mid-30's when the Internet exploded onto the world and unleashed unlimited and easy to access PORN, where I stumbled up on the strapon fetish. And from there my fascination became realization some years later.
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I just recently discovered this was something I wanted to try. I had heard of it quite a while ago, but just hadn't been that interested. To be honest, i hadn't had a lot of anal play on myself at all. I had the opportunity to experience some play with a lover and was blown away by the sensations. The next day I asked if she would be willing to peg me. This last weekend we had the opportunity to try. It was pleasurable in certain positions, but not others. I would be willing to have another go, but I was not over the top enthralled by it. It was fun, but not something at this time that I would add to my regular sex play.
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Thinking about it now, back in 1980 was the first time for me. That term "pegging", hadn't been coined yet.
Contributor: Ropeguy Ropeguy
maybe 16 for me. I had been playing anally for a while and I had read a few stories that included them and thought it would be fun. It took me till I was 22 to bring up the whole subject of anal play with my partner though.
Contributor: squire squire
I think I was about 17 years old when I first discovered anal play. I've been exceedingly lucky that every girlfriend I have had has been interested and willing to pay with me. I think that willingness, that consistent positive experience, combined with a real submissive streak within me, created a desire to be pegged. I was laying on my back on my bed when my first girlfriend walked up to the bed. I was naked, she took off her clothing, approached me, and with a devilish grin placed herself between my legs and pretended to penetrate me by moving her hips. In that moment, looking at her face...I knew I had to try it.
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
I probably first discovered this possibility when shopping for toys in a catalog back in the late 90s, or it may have been from reading online porn. I eventually brought the idea up with my wife and while hesitant, she said if you buy it I will try it. Ordered a harness and dildo years ago and the rest is history.
Contributor: Pegaholics Pegaholics
It was in a porn store when I first saw a strap-on and thought that looks kinky. I was in my early 20s. I wish I knew the exact date I first tried it, as it would be marked with a great celebration each year.
Contributor: lanky lanky
not interested in pegging
Contributor: thebest thebest
wtf younger than 18, more like 14
Contributor: oldkinky oldkinky
When I realized that there was nothing gay about this so we did it and WOW we were both hooked.
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Originally posted by Kinky Skier
just wondering when and why you decided you wanted to try getting fucked with a strapon
We read about it in a magazine, then saw it in a porn video, said "why not"? Picked out a harness together and POOF...it happened. Not something we do ALL the time, but once in a while. Mostly if SHE gets that naughty look in her eye and says "come here...big boy, I got something for you". Oh my.
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Originally posted by ScottA
The big problem is bringing it up to those unadventurous spouses...
thats my problem, I want to try it, but dont know how to bring it up.
Contributor: extrafun extrafun
Im 39 and until about 6 months ago I would not have even thought about it, but then my wife and i started to experment in the bedroom and trying to come up with new ideas. Thats when we got a book and I was reading how there is a pleasure zone back there for guys and it get me interested in what it would feel like. I tried one of my wifes small vibratores oneday when she was gone, but I dont think it was the correct shape. Now Im trying to figure out how to ask my wife to hellp me.