I'm sorry if this question is a little odd, but as a woman I have ZERO idea why something is... I have seen a lot of man on man porn. It seems when men are kissing, performing oral, or a number of other things, they tend to both become very aroused and their cocks are hard as I would expect. BUT when I see a top riding a bottom, more often than not the bottom can be VERY into things, but as soft as soft gets, even if he's masturbating during this. Can anyone tell me why this would be? It's not the same in every porn, but it's so often that I just had to ask. Any insight would be very appreciated. Obviously I'm lost. Lol.
This Girl's Confused About Man/Man Porn...
11/17/2011
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It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly stroke myself to maintain my erection. It's almost like the anal/prostate stimulation is distracting. Hope that helps.
Originally posted by
Kaltir
I'm sorry if this question is a little odd, but as a woman I have ZERO idea why something is... I have seen a lot of man on man porn. It seems when men are kissing, performing oral, or a number of other things, they tend to both become very
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I'm sorry if this question is a little odd, but as a woman I have ZERO idea why something is... I have seen a lot of man on man porn. It seems when men are kissing, performing oral, or a number of other things, they tend to both become very aroused and their cocks are hard as I would expect. BUT when I see a top riding a bottom, more often than not the bottom can be VERY into things, but as soft as soft gets, even if he's masturbating during this. Can anyone tell me why this would be? It's not the same in every porn, but it's so often that I just had to ask. Any insight would be very appreciated. Obviously I'm lost. Lol.
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11/17/2011
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Yep, yep. I learned this during ToyTimeTim's workshop the other month. It really gave me a different perspective on gay porn. It's much more enjoyable now.
Originally posted by
Kindred
It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly
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It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly stroke myself to maintain my erection. It's almost like the anal/prostate stimulation is distracting. Hope that helps.
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11/17/2011
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This is what seems to happen with men I've pegged or performed prostate stimulation on. They're as turned on as can be, but the nerves and blood flow near the prostate are basically getting first attention. In order to keep most men erect at that point, they require constant simultaneous penile stimulation.
Originally posted by
Kindred
It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly
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It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly stroke myself to maintain my erection. It's almost like the anal/prostate stimulation is distracting. Hope that helps.
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11/17/2011
Thank you That makes so much more sense now, lol. I am taking it it's a veryyy distracting feeling for some? I have noticed that most men seem to stroke themselves at the same time, but it seems very rare that they get as hard when being penetrated. No matter how hard they seem to try.
11/19/2011
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Great explanation :3
Originally posted by
Kindred
It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly
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more
It's because the focus of attention has shifted from the penis to the prostate. A man can maintain an erection at the same time, but it's not unusual for the man to lose it too. If my wife is penetrating me anally, I have to constantly stroke myself to maintain my erection. It's almost like the anal/prostate stimulation is distracting. Hope that helps.
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11/19/2011
Very interesting, I don't often porn so I had never really noticed that, but the question made me curious to read the answer. Thanks.
11/19/2011
I have heard other guys say that they're soft when receiving, and I've seen it most in gay porn. Personally, I stay rock hard every time I bottom. It just varies between men.
11/21/2011
Interesting - I had kinda wondered the same thing.
11/21/2011
even as a lesbian i cant concentrate on my clit if im being penetrated its probably something similar to that
11/23/2011
Its a shift in the bottom's focus of stimulation. He's no longer thinking about his penis and focusing on his anus.
11/30/2011
I had to read the answers as well b/c I like to learn something new everyday. Thanks everyone for the insight.
11/30/2011
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