Should Transgender People be Able to Change the Sex on Their Birth Certificates?

Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
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Originally posted by G.L. Morrison
KittyKat522 said "I wouldn't want to say that a transgendered person shouldn't have the choice to do so, but I just don't see the point of doing it."







Surprise! Your legal sex/gender is not ... more
I have always been told by the transgender people that I know that "sex" and "gender" are entirely separate concepts. According to them (and this makes sense, really, when you think about it), "sex" is biological (i.e., what's between your legs) while "gender" is entirely a psychological concept (i.e., this is how you *feel*, regardless of the genitalia you possess.) I'm not claiming to know what trans people go through, or any of the struggles they experience, so I really hope I didn't offend.

To be frank, I didn't think of a birth certificate being important for travel/passport purposes, because when I applied for my passport, well, I didn't need my birth certificate (my baptismal certificate sufficed.) So yes, I see your point there.

As I said in my original comment, I definitely don't think that transgendered people should be stopped from having the sex on their birth certificates changed. I didn't, at the time of my original comment, see why anyone would want to do that, but I've since realized that, hey, just because I personally would never have the need to do so, that doesn't mean that someone else might not want to.

So again, I'm sorry if I offended you. It was just my take on the article.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
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Originally posted by G.L. Morrison
It's no more appropriate for cis-gender people to sit around and talk about what legal hoops transfolk have to jump through and whether or not they should be ALLOWED the enormous privilege of paying psychologists, judges, and fees for new ID... ... more
I can certainly empathize with your feelings about this post, but I really don't agree that having a discussion about this is not "appropriate" for cis-gendered individuals. And to be perfectly honest, I find your comparison of this article/this discussion to what the Jews experienced during the Holocaust to be not only inappropriate, but disgusting. Please do not compare a biological classification on an individual's birth certificate to an entire race of people being systematically dehumanized and tortured. One is entirely purposeful; the other is not. I'm sure that the doctor who declared your biological sex at birth did not purposely assign you the wrong sex just to dehumanize you.



I think that there is a way to engage here and voice your opinion (whether contradictory or not) without making hurtful, inaccurate comparisons.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I'd have to agree with Gogojojo and Sex & Lies. My anthropological/ sociological/ gender studies educated self just can't help but seeing the inability for them to alter their birth certificate as superfluously discriminatory. I've ... more
Thank you. (hehe I didn't know we had a drink smiley until now...yes!)
04/05/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
I agree with him. I definately think that people should be more open and accepting but I believe that official documents like a brith certificate should stay the way they are.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
Well the great thing about being priviliged is not being able to see how environments that seem safe to you might not be safe to others. I know that when I as a Black woman see white men discussing issues that largely effect me personally, ... more
You have made some extremely valid and powerfully moving points. Thank you very much for sharing with us.

I also appreciate how careful you were with your wording that it COULD be a hostile environment when people outside of a certain identity discuss how laws impact the lives of people with said identity. Yes, it can be; but it does not have to be.

We are all, first and foremost, human beings, and we should all care about the well being of ALL people and seek better understanding of those who are different from us. Shutting down discussion entirely would only keep the environment of misunderstanding and hostility alive and well. How can we come to understand the struggles of others if we do not talk about it? By calmly and politely sharing the harmful ramifications of what appears to the majority, at first blush, to be simple, harmless paperwork, you have made a MUCH greater impact than you think.
04/05/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
Thank you. (hehe I didn't know we had a drink smiley until now...yes!)
Thank you Gogojojo. I think your contributions have helped a lot of people really think about their own perspective and much of what you said made sense to me.

One of the reasons we publish Roland's column is because, while we recognize his opinion can often be controversial (some use worse adjectives to describe his opinions) he's willing to concede that he might be wrong, he's willing to say what, obviously, many people are thinking but won't say... therefore never giving someone the opportunity to address those thoughts as flawed or privileged.

One of the reasons people do refrain from even talking about these issues is responses like G.L.'s — the feelings of not being in a safe environment in which you can speak up and honestly are not exclusive to those who traditionally do not hold the social power.

How do you go about trying to change those perceptions without first allowing them to be expressed? Otherwise, how do you know who has them, what's flawed about them and how they came to believe what they do? These are all things one must know before one can attempt to change the way others perceive the world around them.

Thank you to everybody who contributed meaningfully and respectfully here and in comments on the article itself. I know that my perspective has changed and at least one other person who has spoken to me about this has also come to see things differently as a result. I am betting Roland has a changed perspective on the topic as well — seems like being the "target" at which everybody aims tends to change his stance on things in some way, sometimes small, sometimes large.
04/05/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
I think the most damaging aspect of this in recent years is the conflation of "sex" with "gender."

The trans community may disagree, but I continue to use the definition that was handed to me via psychology: sex speaks to biology, and gender speaks to roles and identity. "Sex" is male, female, intersex, or other (most of these aren't viable, though); "gender" is masculine, feminine, androgynous, and so forth.

On to the topic at hand: transGENDER people--those whom identify as another gender--should not be able to modify their birth certificate to reflect their wishes. TansSEX people--those identifying with, and having genitalia of, another sex--should absolutely be permitted this.

I know from a friend of a friend that the UK permits this very thing. The woman whom I met is exceptionally bright and gave one of the most interesting highly technical presentations I have ever seen. Apparently, the man that she was born was not this way at all, instead plagued with feelings of being in the wrong body. So, for her, created vagina and all, I absolutely think she is in the right to go back and retroactively alter her birth certificate. Pre-op, I wouldn't think so.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
I would add that (after skimming the article) I disagree with the author's positions the birth certificate as a definitive record of a person's sex history. I would suggest reading the work of Anne Fausto-Sterling Sexing the Body to see a ... more
Indeed. Very good point, this: one need only look at the recent events of the female Olympic runner Caster Semenya. "She" was, after genetic testing, found to be inter-sex, if I recall correctly.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
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Originally posted by P'Gell
She's right about a lot of this.



If you've ever been in the birthing or delivery room when a baby with "indeterminate gender" is born, you'd know. Some babies are born with what looks like a "penis" ... more
You are here, when you talk about surgery being done in the absence of investigation with the anticipation of the child "growing into" their assigned sex, talking about John Money's horrible experiment of the 1950s or 1960s (I believe it was).

Awful, that.
04/06/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I think it would be fine to change the birth certificate.
04/06/2011
Contributor: XzombehxbearzX XzombehxbearzX
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
i myself being transgender think we should be able to. its not our fault we were born wrong.
04/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
I agree with you. It smacks of cis-privilege. That being said I (a ciswoman) commented because I didn't see anyone offering challenges to the author's argument and that seemed atrocious to me.



(Note: I don't know the ... more
There are a number of trangendered people and those who have had their gender reassigned (or are in the process of doing so) on this forum. I can't speak for them, but I have not heard any of them express ANY hostility from anyone else on this forum regarding gender, either theirs or other. At least I haven't seen this happen here on Eden.

We're a pretty nice bunch of people, no matter what is hanging out between our legs or what gender we identify with.
04/06/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Erotica Explorer
You are here, when you talk about surgery being done in the absence of investigation with the anticipation of the child "growing into" their assigned sex, talking about John Money's horrible experiment of the 1950s or 1960s (I believe ... more
Yes, the so-called "John-Joan" case was only one of possibly hundreds of thousands.

These non-consensual "reassignment" surgeries were done, as far as I know, up until the present time.

Pretty awful stuff. Hubris is a horrible thing, and this type harmed many many people, and their families.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
Well the great thing about being priviliged is not being able to see how environments that seem safe to you might not be safe to others. I know that when I as a Black woman see white men discussing issues that largely effect me personally, ... more
This is not the forum for this particular point, but as a cisgender male enjoying such perceived privilege, it is very frustrating to basically be told that my opinion is invalid.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Quote:
Originally posted by Erotica Explorer
I think the most damaging aspect of this in recent years is the conflation of "sex" with "gender."



The trans community may disagree, but I continue to use the definition that was handed to me via psychology: sex ... more
Brilliant comment and perspective.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
This is not the forum for this particular point, but as a cisgender male enjoying such perceived privilege, it is very frustrating to basically be told that my opinion is invalid.
Saying it is an improper forum and then laying such a heavy claim on what I've said seems disingenuous to me. Luckily, EF provides me with a message center on my profile, my email should also be available, AND you can find a link to my blog. So if at any point you do want to bring discuss that claim I am available. Those please do give time for a thoughtful response.

I would also enjoy you pointing out where exactly I said your point was invalid. In my recollecting of my writing on this forum I said that 1)I disagree and 2) that the fact that you speak from a privileged position has the potential to create a hostile environment for the marginalized people that you discuss. Hostile isn't the same word as invalid.

But again, if you want to discuss this further, not in this thread. please feel free to contact me via any of the above channels.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
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Originally posted by Erotica Explorer
Indeed. Very good point, this: one need only look at the recent events of the female Olympic runner Caster Semenya. "She" was, after genetic testing, found to be inter-sex, if I recall correctly. ... more
Actually, because she has been allowed to return to women's sporting I think that she was determined to meet the genetic criteria of a woman. One sec, while I dig...


Okay here was the blog post I was looking for. Transgriot: Coming Soon To a Track Near You...Caster Semenya. While the geneder testing completed by the IAAF is confidential, they green lighted her to run again so the assumption is (because the IAAF has never been considered a benevolent body when it comes to gender testing) that she had to have passed. You can follow the link to Monica aka Transgriot's blog to see coverage of the issue from when Semenya won her medal up to (and beyond) her last race post gender testing.

I do get the sentiment, however, because there have been women in the past who have been brought before the IAAF for gender-testing only to discover that they were intersexed genetically. I can't think of any names off the top of my head but reading Monica's writing on Semenya will probably provide that information (as she is pretty thorough on her trans*/intersex history.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by Gogojojo
Saying it is an improper forum and then laying such a heavy claim on what I've said seems disingenuous to me. Luckily, EF provides me with a message center on my profile, my email should also be available, AND you can find a link to my blog. So ... more
You never said my opinion was invalid - I just got the distinct impression you think it's inappropriate for a cisgender male to talk about transgender issues; or be given a forum to do so in the first place.

Personally I've been fascinated by the points people have raised and it's distinctly challenged my position in several key areas. If I hadn't been given a forum to do that in the first place, I would never have seen other people's perspectives and been challenged to change my own.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by XzombehxbearzX
i myself being transgender think we should be able to. its not our fault we were born wrong.
Hey Alixxe,

Since no one has yet acknowledged your comment, I wanted to. I am cis and have to say I really appreciate your entering this conversation - where the majority of us so far identify ourselves with the gender we were assigned at birth. That takes courage, and I am grateful to hear your perspective because frankly it's the only one that matters because the issue effects YOU directly and not me, for example.

This is a pretty upsetting topic and I have seen my trans friends and family break down into tears, self harm, quit jobs, leave school, not seek medical attention when they desperately needed it, turn to drugs and so much more over it. I am 100% behind your statements and slowly, state by state here in the US (not sure where you're from,) it is becoming easier for trans individuals to have their legal identification documents reflect who they are. A decade ago my aunt was fired because she came to work in a dress and announced that she was transitioning from a person she never truly was into the person she IS and always has been. She fought it, and now in her state? You cannot be fired for your transition status.

We're getting there. Slowly but surely.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
Quote:
Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
You never said my opinion was invalid - I just got the distinct impression you think it's inappropriate for a cisgender male to talk about transgender issues; or be given a forum to do so in the first place.



Personally I've ... more
Well then, let me clarify. I don't think that its inappropriate for a discussion to happen. I do think that it is important that when we speak from a position of privilege and power (as both of us are in this case, though in different ways) that we are conscious of that. It is, to me, inappropriate for cisgender/sexual people to have a discussion in a public forum with the assumption that 1)trans* people are not present or 2) that they feel comfortable speaking in that forum.

I assume that this impression comes from my comment in response to G.L. Morrison. Ze stated that it was inappropriate for cis* people to be having this conversation at all. I responded that I agreed. And I should have been more clear as to what I agreed with. So to be clear I don't think that being cis* disqualifies you or anyone from being able to discuss trans* issues to a point. I do, however, think it is a privileged/powerful position to be able to talk to this issue in a public forum in the way that you and others had at the point where I entered the discussion were. And I don't think that that privilege/power was acknowledged or dealt with and that to me is/was inappropriate.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
Hey Alixxe,



Since no one has yet acknowledged your comment, I wanted to. I am cis and have to say I really appreciate your entering this conversation - where the majority of us so far identify ourselves with the gender we were assigned ... more
Thanks for this comment.
04/06/2011
Contributor: Gogojojo Gogojojo
Quote:
Originally posted by XzombehxbearzX
i myself being transgender think we should be able to. its not our fault we were born wrong.
Thanks for your perspective.
04/06/2011
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
How would this affect a person politically? If a transgendered person was born male but began taking hormones and had surgery, if they were in legal trouble which gender would they prefer to identify with for legal purposes? Although they are now female, their documents say male?
04/10/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Quote:
Originally posted by Gogojojo
Well then, let me clarify. I don't think that its inappropriate for a discussion to happen. I do think that it is important that when we speak from a position of privilege and power (as both of us are in this case, though in different ways) that ... more
Hi Gogo - yes, I misattributed GL Morrison's hostility to you and for that I apologize. I was peering back through your comments to try and find something saying my position was invalid and you never said that. Again - sorry.

As for the privileged/power position - I'd really rather you pick apart my words and opinions (as many people have done, very successfully) then dictate how I'm supposed to express myself based purely on my gender/sexuality/color .
04/11/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I was under the impression that the original birth certificate is only altered in SEALED adoption cases - where the biological parents absolutely want no contact with that child in the future. Outside of that specification, the original is kept as is and an ammended copy is then given to the person.

I'm not sure where I stand. I'm still...very...confuse d about the transgender community in general. It's extremely hard for me to wrap my brain around.
04/11/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Ansley
I was under the impression that the original birth certificate is only altered in SEALED adoption cases - where the biological parents absolutely want no contact with that child in the future. Outside of that specification, the original is kept as is ... more
Nope, this is not the case as mine was altered at the age of 4 after my birth parents split up and my mother married my adopted father. While I had very little contact with my birth father, I knew who he was and had relationships with his family.

So the precedence exists, but I am not sure, in the case of open adoption, why it SHOULD.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Nope, this is not the case as mine was altered at the age of 4 after my birth parents split up and my mother married my adopted father. While I had very little contact with my birth father, I knew who he was and had relationships with his ... more
A step-parent adoption is different though because your biological father had to either relinquish rights or be notified of the impending adoption and take no action to contest it.

Calling all the lawyers in the house!! Both of my half-sisters were adopted by their stepfathers. I'll have to ask about my sister's birth certificate. I've never seen it. (Funny enough, my dad gave up rights for his bio-daughter to her new step-father, while taking on responsibility for his step-daughter. It was confusing for awhile when I was a kid.)

But anyway...I'm not sure if it matters at all in the slightest. My brain turns into pure mush when I think about what being transgendered entails. The internal struggles, society's role, gender studies/roles...all of it comes crashing down and I don't know what's real any more.

This has been a very interesting thread to stumble on and I appreciate the nerve it took to write the article in the first place and to continue the conversation without starting a riot. I'm learning a lot, and while I don't get it or understand any of it, every little bit of information and point of view helps.

As of right now, considering what has been written down on this forum, I'm wondering if genetic testing would be the appropriate way to go about things when a child is born? What would society be like without the ability to concretely identify a person as male or female?
04/11/2011
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Ansley
A step-parent adoption is different though because your biological father had to either relinquish rights or be notified of the impending adoption and take no action to contest it.



Calling all the lawyers in the house!! Both of my ... more
"What would society be like without the ability to concretely identify a person as male or female?"

I think society might be a whole lot better.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Rockin'
"What would society be like without the ability to concretely identify a person as male or female?"



I think society might be a whole lot better.
Of course.

But let me ask this (Without getting my head chopped off), if sex/gender is so irrelevant then why not just not worry about what that label is on the certiciate and live life any way choose?


See I told you, I really don't get it. I want to, but I guess I need more information on how it all works.
04/11/2011
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Ansley
Of course.



But let me ask this (Without getting my head chopped off), if sex/gender is so irrelevant then why not just not worry about what that label is on the certiciate and live life any way choose?





See I told ... more
(We're all learning here. No worries about heads rolling, etc.)

"Why not just not worry about what that label is on the certiciate and live life any way we choose?"

I live as the gender I was assigned when I was born; I don't struggle with birth certificate history issues. I can't speak for the people who would like to change their birth certificates.

I will say that it would be nice if society at large weren't focused on sex and gender, but both concepts are, currently, very entwined in both the culture and legal systems of the USA.
04/11/2011