Should Transgender People be Able to Change the Sex on Their Birth Certificates?

Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by Rockin'
(We're all learning here. No worries about heads rolling, etc.)



"Why not just not worry about what that label is on the certiciate and live life any way we choose?"



I live as the gender I was assigned when ... more
The legal thing REALLY confuses me. We live in a (theoretically) equal society, in which men and women (theoretically) have exactly the same rights - so why do we even concern ourselves with sex/gender any more? Can't we just be individuals rather than an M or F in a box? Being one gender or the other shouldn't give anybody any additional rights, according to the law, or take rights away.
04/12/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
The legal thing REALLY confuses me. We live in a (theoretically) equal society, in which men and women (theoretically) have exactly the same rights - so why do we even concern ourselves with sex/gender any more? Can't we just be individuals ... more
Uh-oh.

You're about a minute away from being told that you can't comment on this, being a "cis-gender" and all.

(No, this is not my position, just something that I've observed and intensely dislike about our thoroughly modern world.)
04/12/2011
Contributor: hjtee hjtee
I can't even bring myself to read the article. It just seems idiodic.

By his logic, they shouldn't be able to change their name on their birth certificate either, because it's not the name they were born with.
04/16/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by Rockin'
(We're all learning here. No worries about heads rolling, etc.)



"Why not just not worry about what that label is on the certiciate and live life any way we choose?"



I live as the gender I was assigned when ... more
But wouldn't it be harmful if sex/gender were not intertwined in the legal system? I ask this because I shudder to imagine what a co-ed prison would be like. In a system where gender/sex is not considered, a woman could be assigned to a cell with a man. Granted, men are often abused by other men in such situations (and women by other women), but a woman locked away in a cell with a male felon (or immersed in a male general population under maximum security lock-down) would find herself in a disproportionately high-risk situation for being raped.
04/18/2011
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
But wouldn't it be harmful if sex/gender were not intertwined in the legal system? I ask this because I shudder to imagine what a co-ed prison would be like. In a system where gender/sex is not considered, a woman could be assigned to a cell ... more
I am not sure if this is done everywhere, but I believe a lot of prisons take note of things like that. Transgender inmates are put in separate cell blocks, because they know putting them in with general population will cause violence.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
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Originally posted by sarahbear
I am not sure if this is done everywhere, but I believe a lot of prisons take note of things like that. Transgender inmates are put in separate cell blocks, because they know putting them in with general population will cause violence.
Thanks for the reply.

I realize there are current safeguards in place for such issues regarding gender and sex. I was just speaking to the hypothetical in addressing this particular statement:

"I will say that it would be nice if society at large weren't focused on sex and gender, but both concepts are, currently, very entwined in both the culture and legal systems of the USA."

My question is how the legal system would work if it did not account for (i.e., focus on or intertwine itself with) gender and sex. Gender and sex are extremely important to people's identities whether we identify as male, female, or even as genderfluid. Plus, our sex and gender have an undeniable and direct bearing on how safe we are in certain situations.

What I meant was that a focus on gender and sex is not necessarily a bad thing and that perhaps we should not consider it a negative that the legal system has a focus on these issues. Such a focus on gender/sex can bring about some very positive things in life (such as the safeguards the legal system puts into place in prison populations). A focus on gender/sex does not not bring about only negative things.

How could gender/sex not be considered a legitimate and valid concern? If sex/gender is a legitimate and valid concern, how could the legal system ethically choose to disengage itself from it?
04/18/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I think this entire argument and the strife it causes from supporters and the opposition would go away if society allowed human beings to think, act and behave the way they feel according to things they enjoy doing and not what they SHOULD do based on what's between their legs.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by Ansley
I think this entire argument and the strife it causes from supporters and the opposition would go away if society allowed human beings to think, act and behave the way they feel according to things they enjoy doing and not what they SHOULD do based ... more
Hear hear!
04/18/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Hear hear!
Seems a hell of a lot less confusing than trying to define an entirely new gender or sex in addition to the male/female gender/sex.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by hjtee
I can't even bring myself to read the article. It just seems idiodic.



By his logic, they shouldn't be able to change their name on their birth certificate either, because it's not the name they were born with.
You'd be able to remove the modifier "seems" from the word "idiotic" if you actually read the article and found out for yourself one way or the other!
04/18/2011
Contributor: Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme) Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
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Originally posted by Ansley
Seems a hell of a lot less confusing than trying to define an entirely new gender or sex in addition to the male/female gender/sex.
Hear! Hear!

When my kid was born and we were discussing developmental milestones with the doctor, he told us: "Your son is an individual, and he'll reach milestones whenever he reaches them, not when it says he should in a book, or when his cousins do."

People are individuals too, so surely it would be much better to judge them without all the baggage of male/female/transgende r norms they MUST adhear to, and just view them as who they are as an individual. They should be able to adopt, reject or manipulate gender norms any way they want to without having to conform to other people's standards.
04/18/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
This comment probably deserves its own thread, but I'll start here first.

I watched a documentary at 4 AM this morning on gender identity and the gene scientists think is responsible for brain sex. Originally, gender was thought to be a construct of nurture versus nature. While both sides of the argument agreed society influenced gender roles, no one could refute those whom had been raised as one sex and were literally dying to be the other. And they began the process of determining what it was about people who were transgender and transexual different from those who were cisgender.

This documentary largely focused on cases in Australia and New Zealand, specifically one woman who had all of the physical characteristics of a female but her chromosomes were not XX, they were XY. The SRY gene is believed to be what hard wires the brain into one sex or the other. It is carried on the Y chromosome.

The condition is known as Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome. It's where the body blocks the male characteristics of development, almost as if the Y chromosome were an interloper. There are two forms, complete and incomplete.

The aforementioned woman has Complete AIS. She has a vagina and developed breasts. She has very little pubic hair or underarm hair and no uterus. Women with Complete AIS are often extremely tall and some actors/actresses and models are suspected of having the syndrome.

Incomplete AIS babies are often assigned a sex at birth through surgery. It is common practice for doctors to not discuss the issue with parents and act on their behalf based on their assessment of the child. This is done without genetic testing. The child is then raised to follow his/her gender role but often feels they do not belong in 'that' body. All they know is it doesn't feel right to them. Most patients do not discover the condition until puberty strikes and they fail to menstruate (females), or begin to develop breasts (males). Some never discover it all.

In Australia, out of the 50 documented cases where sex was surgerically assigned, only 2 were unhappy with their sex. All 50 were assigned as males at birth because it is easier to create a vagina than a working penis. No discussion of circumcision was mentioned. In the United States the doctors chose based on which of the genitalia was more fully formed. Out of those cases more than half were unhappy with their sex.

Watching this documentary really opened my eyes. Some people believe whole-heartedly that transgenderism and transsexualism are simply lifestyles - it's something someone chooses to be. Science is quickly putting it to bed and giving us concrete evidence and understanding of a very complex (and politically heated) condition.

At this time, genetic testing is not affordable or widely available in most scenarios. I believe people should be able to change their birth certificate. I am hesitant to recommend a set of guidelines to allow someone to change the document because of the enormous cost the person would incur if they had to get genetic testing or surgery or years of therapy first. It seems unfair but there still need to be a set of regulations to prevent fraud.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Erotica Explorer Erotica Explorer
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Originally posted by Ansley
This comment probably deserves its own thread, but I'll start here first.



I watched a documentary at 4 AM this morning on gender identity and the gene scientists think is responsible for brain sex. Originally, gender was thought to ... more
Better yet, look at the cognitive and skill-based testing that people going through reassignment have taken, and how their thoughts, abilities, and attitudes about things changes dramatically from start to finish.

I saw a documentary a while back (quite some time ago) where a M2F patient was taking tests to look at math, visuo-spatial sketchpad, and empathic measures.

In one of the later tests, the patient broke down crying, couldn't explain what was going on, but remembered the image rotation and manipulation portions being dramatically easier when the brain was bathed in testosterone.

Long story short: no, this is no lifestyle or choice or passing fad. People who do this have extremely good reason to completely turn their lives upside down, and tend not to do this on a lark.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Brosia Brosia
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Originally posted by Erotica Explorer
I think the most damaging aspect of this in recent years is the conflation of "sex" with "gender."



The trans community may disagree, but I continue to use the definition that was handed to me via psychology: sex ... more
You have to consider that the cost of SRS is above and beyond what some people are able to pay. Basing a person's rights (in this case the right to change their birth certificate) on their physical status is in some cases actually just basing their rights on their income.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
Thanks for the reply.



I realize there are current safeguards in place for such issues regarding gender and sex. I was just speaking to the hypothetical in addressing this particular statement:



"I will say that it ... more
"Gender and sex are extremely important to people's identities"

Is this statement true because we are raised in a society that focuses on our sexes and genders? (I think so) Would it be true if we didn't focus on these things like we do? (I don't know) That was the point of my statement. I wish I could know what would be different.

The prison issue you bring up is valid, though. I don't know enough about that situation to make any educated suggestions for it.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Brosia Brosia
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Originally posted by Rockin'
"Gender and sex are extremely important to people's identities"



Is this statement true because we are raised in a society that focuses on our sexes and genders? (I think so) Would it be true if we didn't focus on ... more
I think it would be much easier if society didn't put such emphasis on gender. Every little aspect of life is tied up in whether we act as people expect us to. Those who deviate from expectations in any sense find themselves vulnerable. It's nice to think about a world where things would be different, but until then we need to look at these things as real issues affecting real people.
04/25/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Hi G.L. Morrison - I'm sorry you feel that way. The benefit of being allowed to express opinions in SexIs is to have those opinions challenged - and often have them changed.



There are many things I felt about very strongly about ... more
It's fascinating that when I say that the conversation is inappropriate and creepy, I'm oppressing cisgenders. Weigh in on the subject? The subject isn't how transfriendly is the sex-positive community. The subject under "discussion" is whether or not to roll back an existing law and hard-won legal precedent.

What I am so *rudely* pointing out is this is similar to arguing about the advantages of separate but equal water fountains.

I understand that some of you don't get it. It's so far removed from your lives that I'm being mean and it's just an opinion, no such thing as a stupid question, etc etc. Imagine for a moment, that it's an issue you can identify with. About misogyny. Suppose some guy makes some really sexist remarks that hit home. Is the only way to educate him to be a good girl and nice and explain again and invite him to share his opinion as if it were equal and sane. Or is a drink in the face also an educational tool.

My point is that most people involved in this discussion really still don't see how frightening and offensive, even if unintentionally, many of the arguments are.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Ilkrissha Ilkrissha
Why do we need to differentiate between whether a statement is made by a cisgender (well-informed, as far as i can tell) or transperson?



I think the biggest hurdle is the apparent need for persons on both 'sides' of this 'line' to protect the existence of the line, as opposed to accepting each speaker as 'a unique variation of humanity'
05/03/2011
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by G.L. Morrison
It's fascinating that when I say that the conversation is inappropriate and creepy, I'm oppressing cisgenders. Weigh in on the subject? The subject isn't how transfriendly is the sex-positive community. The subject under ... more
You can perhaps manage to get your message across through the "drink in your face" method, as you so aptly described your previous comments.



And you might teach one person something.



But you will also generally piss off and alienate everybody who gets wet from that drink and make them far less likely to want to listen to anything you have to say. It's a fairly simple principle of persuasion NOT to alienate your listeners. If you are going to treat people that way, then you have to be prepared to accept an equally extreme, negative reaction in response.



So, if you wanna be the "that guy," the one who nobody takes seriously, and who people tune out when they see you coming because they know you're going to rant and rave and call everybody Nazi's. Go ahead and see how far you get toward changing those frightening and offensive opinions we've got.
05/03/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
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Originally posted by Champagne and Benzedrine (Roland Hulme)
Hi Gogo - yes, I misattributed GL Morrison's hostility to you and for that I apologize. I was peering back through your comments to try and find something saying my position was invalid and you never said that. Again - sorry.



As ... more
I'm not sure the opposite of "hostility" is "neutrality". I think it's "conciliatory". I think my examples did part of what I hoped to do. They offended. My point was to illustrate just that: conversations that occur between the power-haves about the power-have-nots have historically ended quite badly.

And it's easy to be offended about someone/something you can identify with. I'm not comfortable with the Norms discussing the Other in the way that it was discussed.

It's funny to me, Champagne/Hume, that you write a column deliberately provocative; post a question provocatively and then cry foul when your background/bias is called into question. Your choice not to understand sociology (or privilege) does not mean it doesn't exist.

In spite of threatening not to, I did go back and read your article.

I stand by my guns, the question "should *they* be allowed to..." is inherently offensive.

But I apologize to the genuinely inexperienced/well-int ended who stumbled into the discussion and the "trick question" that started it.

Congratulations to those with an education in class/gender/race in America and who are willing to share it compassionately.

I'm not soft-spoken. It is my complete lack of "sweetness" that has been my stock and trade in writing sex-positive theory, erotica (published in Best of Best Women's Erotica and a dozen anthologies), politics, literary criticism, etc and in fact brought me here.

I'm not wasting honey on flies. If you indicate you are interested in being my ally (or the ally of my allies) then I am happy to answer questions put to me. But I have too often been actively betrayed by the friendship of the "well-intended" mainstream. All authors are deconstructed in a "historical" context of which gender/sexuality/color is a part.
05/12/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
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Originally posted by Kat Shanahan
I have always been told by the transgender people that I know that "sex" and "gender" are entirely separate concepts. According to them (and this makes sense, really, when you think about it), "sex" is biological (i.e., ... more
Thank you for acknowledging your process and I appreciate your sharing your changing perspective.
05/12/2011
Contributor: G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
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Originally posted by Kat Shanahan
I can certainly empathize with your feelings about this post, but I really don't agree that having a discussion about this is not "appropriate" for cis-gendered individuals. And to be perfectly honest, I find your comparison of this ... more
I said in one of the other posts that my allegories only did half the intended job. They startled and offended, as I was startled and offended... what they failed to do was make the leap/connection that you have a context for horror of the Holocaust/Shoah or violence to civil rights activists and persons of color. The violence that you describe as "disgusting" is happening to transpeople today. From hate crimes, discrimination in employment/housing, medical experimentation (forced hospitalization), refusal of government agents to provide services.

The casual attitudes of bigotry or indifference that we display/express about folk different than us do get used as a justification for crazy violent actions by other people. There is a connection however indirect between the anti-semitic (or simply indifferent) discussions that those who didn't want to see America enter WWII and the cattle-cars and gas chambers. What wouldn't we do or say to clearly demark ourselves as NOT ALLIED with those atrocities? If I overreact in these discussions it's because I believe in that connection. Words are powerful.

I'm sorry for casting such a wide net with my comments. I should have targeted them more narrowly and specifically.
05/12/2011
Contributor: slipstitch slipstitch
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Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
I am somewhat on the fence about this. There are pros and cons to both sides.
05/16/2011
Contributor: ra1nb0wb00tay ra1nb0wb00tay
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Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
It's not fair that someone was born with the body of one sex, but with the brain of the opposite. Why should they have to be subjected to having to explain who they are and why they are the way they are? My boyfriend is trans and it would be so much easier for him if he was able to just go change the F on his birth certificate to an M. I strongly disagree with him.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I don't think that birth certificates should be able to be altered for this purpose. That being said I don't think they should be altered for the purpose of adoption either. Rewriting/altering history on a whim is a slippery and dangerous slope.
05/22/2011
Contributor: Brosia Brosia
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Originally posted by Sex'и'Violence
I don't think that birth certificates should be able to be altered for this purpose. That being said I don't think they should be altered for the purpose of adoption either. Rewriting/altering history on a whim is a slippery and dangerous slope.
I would hardly consider either of those instances a "whim". Both adoption and transitioning are very deliberate and drawn out processes. They involve careful assessment and planning. Not only that, but they both greatly alter the course of the that person's life. Something that profound should be treated accordingly.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by Brosia
I would hardly consider either of those instances a "whim". Both adoption and transitioning are very deliberate and drawn out processes. They involve careful assessment and planning. Not only that, but they both greatly alter the course ... more
Agreed. That and changing things on a piece of paper that our culture puts (not inherent) importance and value on doesn't actually change history. It's not like it's a threat to the future to let people feel safe in their new social identity so that they can live each day in comfort and security and they won't be "outed" by someone or something that runs across the birth certificate or other documents.
05/24/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
Disagree.
06/28/2011
Contributor: lzbncrckhead lzbncrckhead
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Originally posted by removedacnt
On SexIs today, Roland Hulme wrote an article titled "Devil's Advocate: Birth Certificates and Transgender"



His postion...."But I do not agree with letting them change the listing on their birth certificate ... more
yes! yes yes yes they should. after all it would make emergency identification easier.
06/30/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
Completely, wholeheartedly disagree.

Take your nose out of where it doesn't belong, and keep your hands and opinions to yourself and your own lives when they affect others. Thank you.
06/30/2011