I have a very sensitive clitoris and many of the clitoral stimulators I've tried are way too rough on me. I'm so sensitive, that when a guy goes down on me, he just barely has to touch my tender little clit with his tongue. If he licks me to hard, it hurts. So... I'm finding it hard to find a man that's skilled with his tongue. I'm also finding it hard to find a clitoral stimulator or "Clit Toy" that actually feels like a man's tongue, like a man's tongue with a quick, light touch. Any suggestions? Help me out, please. less

I know exactly what you go through!!!! Having an overly sensitive clitoris can be a blessing and a curse at the same time. I've tried oral simulators... the beaver finger vibe (with the flicking tongue action) and the tongue... they're speed demons that are built to go at it like it was a pussy eating contest... the BEST toy I've found to stimulate your clitoris without making it ache afterwards is the Tantrabeam. It is FANTASTICALLY gentle, it attaches over a finger so you're able to physically apply the pressure and motions yourself, however, it still causes your finger to vibrate like a vibrator. It doesn't simulate oral sex for me but it's gentle while still being able to get me off. less

I am a power whore, and do not have a very sensitive clit, but I would suggest you check out the LAYAspot. I just did a review for it (there are lots of other reviews too) and I found the toy to be too gentle for me. The lowest speed setting is so gentle it is a "barely there" kind of feeling. My husband is super sensitive to vibrations, but he was able to enjoy some of the lower speeds of the toy. Granted it does not simulate oral sex at all, just thought I'd throw that one out there. Good luck finding something great! less