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Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Midway through
If they aren't open minded and I can't be myself, we aren't friends. A lot of people think I'm a bitch for it but I refuse to be friends with someone when I can't be friends with them. What I mean is, if I can't be myself, ... more
I talk about Dildos at the gym with my friend, who is okay with me and my sex toy fetish.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Midway through
If they aren't open minded and I can't be myself, we aren't friends. A lot of people think I'm a bitch for it but I refuse to be friends with someone when I can't be friends with them. What I mean is, if I can't be myself, ... more
Definitely. If my friends get weirded out when I talk to them, I can't hang out with them. Therefor, I cannot be friends with them. If a person doesn't like you for who you are, only parts of who you are, they dont really like YOU.
11/17/2010
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I hate fundamentalist Christians. I won't even get started.... I'll just say that because I can already feel my blood rising. I had a FB status once that said, "Just because you don't struggle with homosexual feelings, doesn't ... more
My pastor says she wishes those folks would stop calling themselves Christians, because clearly they haven't read their Bibles and don't care what Jesus actually taught. So don't worry about your soul, those who fill theirs up with hate are the ones who are really in danger.
11/17/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I had a "friend" (whom did some awful things to me and libeled me to so many people, it's pathetic, (wait, is "libel" written? She talked....trash. Nasty trash about myself, my kids my man.) Anyway, she once told me, well more than once, that My Man and I were "wrong" because we had sex "too often." I was about 30 at the time, she was a year or two younger than me, and she told me that "people our age only have sex a couple of times a year." WTF?

When I told her this wasn't actually the National Average (I think that's about 2 or 3 times a week for couples in their 30s and 40s) she said, "everybody she knows" only had sex a few times a year. So there. My Man and I are wrong.

This is the one where she and her husband have a separate "family" room for watching TV,(or whatever they do instead of having sex) and if I am not mistaken (I haven't been in her Godawful house in years) they also sleep in separate bedrooms.

Yea, My Man and I are the "wrong ones." LOL!
11/17/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I had a "friend" (whom did some awful things to me and libeled me to so many people, it's pathetic, (wait, is "libel" written? She talked....trash. Nasty trash about myself, my kids my man.) Anyway, she once told me, well more ... more
Wow! Sounds like a great friend! My guess is she was just jealous of you guys.. if she considered a few times a year to be normal, I'd hate to imagine a dry spell!!
11/17/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I had a "friend" (whom did some awful things to me and libeled me to so many people, it's pathetic, (wait, is "libel" written? She talked....trash. Nasty trash about myself, my kids my man.) Anyway, she once told me, well more ... more
A few times a YEAR??!!!!???!!!! Maybe that's why her husband wants to sleep in separate rooms. He's probably got a Fleshlight and a butt plug in there! WAY more fun and more convenient than "a few times a year!"

It's healthy and normal for couples to have sex many times a week and many times a day in said week..... or am I going to Hell now too?
11/17/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
A few times a YEAR??!!!!???!!!! Maybe that's why her husband wants to sleep in separate rooms. He's probably got a Fleshlight and a butt plug in there! WAY more fun and more convenient than "a few times a year!"

It's ... more
LOL. I think everyone on this website is going to Hell, if that's the case.
11/17/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Not here
LOL. I think everyone on this website is going to Hell, if that's the case.
I tell you what! The next time it's been more than a day and My Mister complains about frequency, I'll just direct him to this story.... maybe that will put our sex life into perspective....

Not that it usually goes more than a day... but... on those rare weeks....
11/17/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Not here
Wow! Sounds like a great friend! My guess is she was just jealous of you guys.. if she considered a few times a year to be normal, I'd hate to imagine a dry spell!!
How they're still together is a mystery to me. My Man and I have a terrible joke (just between the two of us) that she keeps his balls in a little jar on her dresser. I'm so mean. But, damn....he's one man I hope is getting some on the side. Better yet, I wish he'd leave her lying ass. I don't see that happening.

She is not a "friend" anymore. Too much drama, too much trash talk.
11/18/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Not here
LOL. I think everyone on this website is going to Hell, if that's the case.
Ain't no sin to be getting some.
11/18/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I really wanted to think that most of my friends are open minded about sex and intimacy. I had a rude awakening when the topic of anal sex came up; when I said how great it is and that anal is part of our my/our sex repertoire they fell silent and showed displeasure. My mistake for saying too much (could have been the wine) but never discussed it again. On the other hand, I have three friends, including one guy where everything is on the table....so discretion is so important. One of my g/f's I am intimate with and we exchange toys and tips, so I guess it balances out.
I know that some of my other friends probably think I am perverted.
I used to just wonder what others do, obviously not much as so many seemed to be unhappy but now I just don't give a good F...
11/18/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by Liz2
I really wanted to think that most of my friends are open minded about sex and intimacy. I had a rude awakening when the topic of anal sex came up; when I said how great it is and that anal is part of our my/our sex repertoire they fell silent and ... more
There's a good reason why my profile says "My friends think I'm kinky, but really, I'm not"
11/18/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Not here
My man and I were at a friends house, and the topic of sex came up. I already knew that these particular friends aren't the most open about sex, so I wasn't expecting anything terribly exciting to come up.

But when one of my friends ... more
You know I dunno if it's just a product of our not having close friends or what it is but we tend to not have friends who are sexually repressed. They might not be as experimental as we are but they do like to talk raunchy!
11/18/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Not here
LOL. I think everyone on this website is going to Hell, if that's the case.
We'll just take over a room and talk about all our toys we didn't get to bring with us...the demons might learn a thing or two!
11/18/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by P'Gell
How they're still together is a mystery to me. My Man and I have a terrible joke (just between the two of us) that she keeps his balls in a little jar on her dresser. I'm so mean. But, damn....he's one man I hope is getting some on the ... more
Yeah, it's definitely not worth trying to stay friends with someone like that. And I normally don't wish bad things on people either, but I really can't say I blame you for hoping that her man is getting some elsewhere. If he's not, I don't know if either of them are actually human, lol!
11/18/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
I really wanted to think that most of my friends are open minded about sex and intimacy. I had a rude awakening when the topic of anal sex came up; when I said how great it is and that anal is part of our my/our sex repertoire they fell silent and ... more
Nothing wrong with being a pervert At least you have a few good friends that you can talk about anything with! I'm seriously considering moving because none of my friends seem to be on the same wavelength. Definitely gotta meet some like-minded people!
11/18/2010
Contributor: Not here Not here
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
We'll just take over a room and talk about all our toys we didn't get to bring with us...the demons might learn a thing or two!
Haha, so true. Well in that case, i think we'd all have a good time in Hell. Imagine this kind of conversation in person! Could definitely get interesting...

I don't believe in Hell, but if everyone from EF will be there, sign me up, LMAO.
11/18/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I had a "friend" (whom did some awful things to me and libeled me to so many people, it's pathetic, (wait, is "libel" written? She talked....trash. Nasty trash about myself, my kids my man.) Anyway, she once told me, well more ... more
Libel is wrtitten, brodcast or otherwise published defamation. Slander is either spoken defamation or gestural. Both must be harmful to reputation and untrue.
11/18/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
Libel is wrtitten, brodcast or otherwise published defamation. Slander is either spoken defamation or gestural. Both must be harmful to reputation and untrue.
That's what I thought. The woman slandered me. Told people my last baby (who was about 4 weeks preterm) was small because I supposedly "did drugs." Which, I don't do. She says really horrible things about people. Just a pathetic person. I probably shouldn't have said I hoped her husband was getting it somewhere else. He's a grown man and if he grew a pair, he'd get the hell away from her.

OK. I'm done. I usually give people, like 1000 chances and 1000 forgivenesses. She used hers up.
11/18/2010
Contributor: cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
Different strokes for different folks, I suppose. I'm free to be sexually open, my friends are free to be prudes. So long as they respect me, I respect them. I have other things to talk about besides sex - I haven't found that having "prude" friends has ever hurt my relationships with them.

Never really felt that comfortable with labeling someone a "prude" just for their sexual preference, anyway. I don't want to be insulted for my sexual preference, so I wouldn't call even my most sexually conservative friends "prudes."
06/26/2012