Do you prefer sex oriented discussions or chatty oriented discussions?

Contributor: edeneve edeneve
myself, I prefer sex oriented discussions - I've learned from them & they just are more interesting. I know others prefer to chat and keep things light. do you prefer sex oriented discussions or chatty oriented discussions?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
sex oriented - here's why
2
chatty oriented - here's why
1
other
35
Total votes: 38 (38 voters)
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Both. If all we ever talked about was sex around here it would get really boring, really fast.
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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I like both. I like ones that make me think a bit most
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Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I also like both
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Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Like most things - variety is preferable to more of the same. I find a lot of the questions inane - but I can ignore those and go on to the ones that are more thought provoking.
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I like both, as long as the discussions are interesting.
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Like most things - variety is preferable to more of the same. I find a lot of the questions inane - but I can ignore those and go on to the ones that are more thought provoking.
inane - good point Gunsmoke.
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Contributor: hillys hillys
You need a bit of both.
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Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Both, I like to learn new things and I like light conversation as well.
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I also like them both. While I like sex and talking about it, it's nice to have some variety. Sex isn't my life and I like to get to know other contributors in other ways as well.
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
myself, I prefer sex oriented discussions - I've learned from them & they just are more interesting. I know others prefer to chat and keep things light. do you prefer sex oriented discussions or chatty oriented discussions?
With our Friday Night Dinner Group (where I am going in a couple hours) we always speak "sex". It's great. Been doing it for about four years, sometimes anywhere from three to more then a dozen married couples and we still have not run out of topics or opinions. Sure, we speak about politics, money, kids, work, but the big "free speech" topic is always sex. We get great ideas here on EF to talk about too.
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Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Like most things - variety is preferable to more of the same. I find a lot of the questions inane - but I can ignore those and go on to the ones that are more thought provoking.
I enjoy both.

I skip over the inane "What do you like better; white socks or off- white socks?" as they drive me up the wall for the more thought stopping-think-about-i t-questions.

I especially love reading those whole threads!
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by hillys
You need a bit of both.
Indeed...depends on who we are with and where we are.
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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Ansley
Both. If all we ever talked about was sex around here it would get really boring, really fast.
A week ago, sex, in our "free sex talk" group never got around to sex. It was all about "health care, growing older, medicare, reimbursement..etc". Hate to say it, but that is the topic that got boring and tiring after a couple hours. Especially since a lot of those there are in health care, with strong opinions on the matter.
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Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Both. They're both great at being educational and entertaining
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Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
I enjoy both.
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Contributor: eri86 eri86
Little bit of both depending on who I am with.
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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I like both, but I do enjoy questions that make you think and are a bit provocative in nature. Of course you knew this already if you've ever read and answered my questions.
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Contributor: js250 js250
Both. I like the variety and depending on my mood, there are subjects that I find very interesting.
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Contributor: never shy never shy
Both ITs fun to hear or learn new things or ideas
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Contributor: SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I am not that much of an expert to talk about sex all the time, but on the other hand sex was the reason I started to use this forum in the first place. So I really do like both.
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Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
I like both! I love reading others' experiences.
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Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I like both discussions. Although, I prefer the chatty ones because the sex ones, to me, get rather boring and redundant.
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Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Both, there are some sex ones that I don't participate in as they don't relate to aspects I partake in or know anything about. There are some topics that come up over and over that drive me insane but I just look over them and move on.
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Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I like them both! I'm not always in the mood for the same thing, so even an inane question, might interest me at some point. Besides, those & the games are popular for a reason, some times people don't want to think too hard! I've posted, & seen posted, some very thought provoking questions & they die a quick death, so I can understand why someone would rather not continue to post only deep discussions! Of course, the same can be said of sex only discussions. I like that this forum is broken down into sections so you have the opportunity to avoid, for the most part, what you don't want to see & can zero in on the topics that interest you that day. I like seeing the responses of others as much as I like commenting myself!
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Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Both! Like so many have already said, if it is an interesting topic and stimulating conversation, that's what I look for.
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Contributor: edeneve edeneve
interesting responses to my question. I too like discussions of interesting topics and those that stimulate conversation. I also like those that offer learning about something.
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Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
I LIKE BOTH, BUT IF I COULD ONLY CHOOSE ONE IT WOULD BE SEX!!!
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Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
A little from column A, a little from column B.
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Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I love having both. It makes talking about sex feel so "normal"! I wish my real life could be more like that.
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