Everything else being perfect: Who cums first?

Everything else being perfect: Who cums first?

MrWill MrWill
Are you happier when your partner gets off first, or yourself? Or do you prefer some sensual synchronicity?
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CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
At the same time is the best but I like finishing first if it doesn't happen. If she finishes first she's usually too worn out to keep going whereas if I get off first I'll keep going until she cums
SMichelle SMichelle
At the same time is nice, but it rarely works out that way (for me).
My wife cums first and that is what I prefer.
indiglo indiglo
I honestly don't care who orgasms first, as long as everyone is on board to keep playing until both of us are satisfied.

It's usually less stressful for my man (according to him) if I orgasm first. I usually need to orgasm at least 3 times to be satisfied, and the first one takes the most work, so he says if we get that taken care of first the next just roll over me and he can relax.
misterazor misterazor
she comes first...and sometimes twice.
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Depends on who is going first :p

My girlfriend and I just start. Whoever manages to get there first is the one who we concentrate on and then the other. Depends on the mood and other varying factors, really.

However, I love it when we manage to cum together.
K101 K101
Originally posted by MrWill
Are you happier when your partner gets off first, or yourself? Or do you prefer some sensual synchronicity?
It doesn't matter to me because we never leave the bedroom unless we've both gotten there. In most cases though, I have the very first O (from oral/foreplay.) And then I probably have the first 6! LOL. I orgasm throughout the entire thing, so basically, it's always a win for me. During sex though, not foreplay, I guess I come first there too though because when HE comes, it ends and I'm coming throughout the entire thing, so I'd say I'm first. We don't set up a "rule" or anything about who comes first, but that's just kind of how it happens with girl/guy sex, if foreplay is involved (and foreplay should always be involved.) LOL.

Which makes me happier? It doesn't matter to me at all, but we don't have sex until the foreplay has happend (or else it's very uncomfortable, sometimes even painful) so in order for him to orgasm first, it would mean going straight into intercourse & him coming, and then doing the foreplay and another round for me to come and that just seems kinda backwards.

But if it so happened that he came before I got to during sex, that's fine by me. I am lucky though, so I'm usually orgasming from beginning to end.

Orgasm together? That's great too! That often happens to us since mine are pretty continuos, but not always.
solitudinarian solitudinarian
I prefer getting off first since PIV sex and masturbation are the only things that make me come. When he does get off without getting me off, he talks dirty to me and pinches my nipples while I masturbate, so I do end up coming. The orgasms I have from sex are just more satisfying.

I usually have multiple orgasms during sex. I quite often come at the same time as him, which is always nice.

There are occasions when he takes a really long time to come. I end up pretty exhausted from having a ton of orgasms, but I keep doing what I can to help him come until he does.
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I am usually the one who cums first through foreplay. I am a multiple orgasm person so I am getting off all throughout everything but as long as we both get off I don't care. If he happens to get off before me I have toys that he will use on me. So as long as we both walk away satisfied all is good. My current partner could careless if he gets off he is more worried about me but I know he needs to get off as well so I make sure my job is accomplished.
Incendiaire Incendiaire
Probably last, because once I cum my brain suddenly loses interest in sex, so it's easier if the other guy is already taken care of.
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
We try to do together or close to it. We are pretty in tune with each other so we know how long and what we like to get us there together.
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