It doesn't matter to me because we never leave the bedroom unless we've both gotten there. In most cases though, I have the very first O (from oral/foreplay.) And then I probably have the first 6! LOL. I orgasm throughout the entire thing, so basically, it's always a win for me. During sex though, not foreplay, I guess I come first there too though because when HE comes, it ends and I'm coming throughout the entire thing, so I'd say I'm first. We don't set up a "rule" or anything about who comes first, but that's just kind of how it happens with girl/guy sex, if foreplay is involved (and foreplay should always be involved.) LOL.

Which makes me happier? It doesn't matter to me at all, but we don't have sex until the foreplay has happend (or else it's very uncomfortable, sometimes even painful) so in order for him to orgasm first, it would mean going straight into intercourse & him coming, and then doing the foreplay and another round for me to come and that just seems kinda backwards.

But if it so happened that he came before I got to during sex, that's fine by me. I am lucky though, so I'm usually orgasming from beginning to end.

Orgasm together? That's great too! That often happens to us since mine are pretty continuos, but not always.