Could you masturbate in front of your partner???

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Could you masturbate in front of your partner???

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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Pixie
I do this regularly in front of my boyfriend. I like to grind against a vibrator, which he finds hilarious. I can't get REALLY into it if he's watching. He loves to see me rub my clit during sex though, and often requests it.

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My man does the same thing, he tells me to do it and when I ask him why he says its better when I do it....lol.

I know I am good at knowing what he likes but I doubt I'm as good as he says I am.
08/08/2010
Contributor: V.T.T V.T.T
Yes yes yes! I do it often, AND I absolutely adore watching him stroke it while he watches me do myself with toys. Sooooo a favorite thing of mine. Yay mutual masterbation!!!
08/27/2010
Contributor: Pleasure Piratess Pleasure Piratess
yes, and I have done so in the past for other partners, however, my hubby isn't really into mutual masturbation.
08/28/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I masturbate in front of my partner quite often, although it was a huge boundary for me to overcome and sometimes I'm still very self-conscious. I like that I'm able to do it with him though, because honestly, why shouldn't I?
08/28/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Gary
Of course! How do you think we met?
I'm not sure if I should be curious or just walk away shaking my head....
08/28/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
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Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
lol ive done it i love to do that
10/19/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
My husband loves watching me!! its a huge tun on and then he waits until he can start in on me
11/15/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I think it can help both you you learn what the other one likes. I know the first few times I watched My Man get off by himself, I realized he is a A LOT more vigorous with himself than I was. I learned to be less "gentle" because of this.

I know some people are shy about it, it takes trust to be able to let go like this in front of your lover. But, it can lead to learning a lot about the person you are making love with.
11/15/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
My boyfriend wants me to do this. I am VERY nervous to try it though. I need to learn how to not be so shy I guess
11/16/2010
Contributor: Yesenia Yesenia
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Originally posted by Taylor
My boyfriend wants me to do this. I am VERY nervous to try it though. I need to learn how to not be so shy I guess
Sometimes it helps to put some soft music on light some candles and relax remember that you love each other so have fun and enjoy each other
11/16/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I have masturbated in front of my partner many times. He loves it!! It turns him on and then he masturbates while I masturbate.
11/16/2010
Contributor: The Nakanas The Nakanas
We masturbate in front of/with/side by side/holding each other all the time
11/16/2010
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's a regular part of our sex life...either because one of us isn't feeling good or too sore...but it's still sexy and intimate.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Riccio Riccio
We both enjoy masturbating in front of each other. Sometimes she teases me by telling me that I can only watch her, but I cannot touch her or myself. Other times, our hands are touching while we masturbate ourselves. We may masturbate each other, or one of us may masturbate while the other kisses and touches the other's body. We also masturbate while giving oral sex to the other. Often we do all of these things, because we have no set pattern to making love. Masturbation may lead to orgasm or to intercourse or not, or intercourse may stop while we masturbate. It all depends on what we both enjoy at the moment.

Masturbating in front of your partner is especially intimate because you are sharing a deep sexual secret. We found masturbating in front of each other liberating the first time we did it, and we love doing it. It is a delightful part of our lovemaking, and I highly recommend it.
11/17/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
My hunnie loves it! I dont do it often but it is fun!
12/01/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
If I had a partner - then I would. No different than paying on cam!
12/02/2010
Contributor: Yesenia Yesenia
Quote:
Originally posted by Riccio
We both enjoy masturbating in front of each other. Sometimes she teases me by telling me that I can only watch her, but I cannot touch her or myself. Other times, our hands are touching while we masturbate ourselves. We may masturbate each other, or ... more
I highly recommend it too because you never know what it can lead to
12/02/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't think I could ever do this in front of my boyfriend. He will in front of me, though, if I need to go get a different lube or something.
12/03/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
ive done it for hubbie in the past. and he does it for me too. there are time when hes taking a shower, i walk by, watch him a little. and sometimes i ask him to masterbate for me and he does. i love it. if he turnes me on enough i join him.
12/03/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Absolutely, though I'm a little more shy with it than he is. I often will wake up with him jerking off and he is COMPLETELY dead ass asleep. It's hysterical and endearing, if I can keep my eyes open long enough I'll finish it for him.

This is one of the reasons why I am getting into this site so much. (ok ok PG, we get it, you like it here) I've wanted to get more into it but the stuff at the local head shops SUCK and I was turned off by the idea of the toy not the idea.

Now that I have a plethora to choose from, this will be a much more frequent activity. I also plan on getting him a few sleeves to use.
12/03/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
love it. both a voyeur and an exhibitionist. It is actually a regular part of our sex life.
12/03/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
We do this quite frequently as an interlude during sex.
12/04/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Totally have! We've done it together many times, and have done it ourselves alone too (in front of each other).
12/09/2010
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I enjoy doing it but enjoy watching even more, so doing both at the same time seems to be a good compromise.
12/13/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
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Originally posted by moonch1ld
I enjoy doing it but enjoy watching even more, so doing both at the same time seems to be a good compromise.
Definitely!
I enjoy watching more than doing it as well, so that does sound like a good comprimise.
12/13/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
Yep, I've done it. I was nervous about it at first, but he really likes it.
12/15/2010
Contributor: V.T.T V.T.T
I love to masturbate with my partner! I love nothing more than to watch him please himself, I find it incredibly hot. He likes to watch me as well, sometimes I can be difficult to get off so it's a way for everyone to win.

I was only uncomfortable in the very beginning, but this was due to bad experiences with previous partners who were just really WEIRD about me playing w/ myself at all.....
12/15/2010
Contributor: wrock wrock
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
Yes infact my wife and I sometimes like watch each other masturbate. I dont rly get alot from it is sexy and I like watching her make herself cum but she rly likes watching me. She say watching me stroke my cock drives her wild.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
We do it all the time. Usually he starts when I'm not in the mood, then I end up wanking, too, cuz watching him gets me in the mood.
I am in the same boat! We do it all the time too. I love to watch him and if I am observant I learn some new tricks every now and then. I keep telling my husband that one day I am going to videotape myself and have him watch it when he gets home.
12/15/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Quote:
Originally posted by Yesenia
I was wondering if you could do it or would you be embarrassed if your lover would ask you to masturbate for them?
Actually, me and my boyfriend do the phone sex version of this. When we're both alone with a webcam, it tends to lead to this too. But when we're together, there's no way we're keeping out hands off of each other. We get to riled up to just watch.
12/15/2010