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Do you still flirt with your partner?

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Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
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Originally posted by MattBryant
we barely flirt, "life's" kinda killed alot of it. its either "need sex now" or "to tired/grouchy/in pain". and it's hard to flirt when you know each other so well, and the fact you know you'll eventually get ... more
I felt the same way as you until I received as a gift from my husband the book "Lube Jobs: A Woman's Guide to Great Maintenance Sex." Guess he was trying to tell me something. Well, let me just say, that book changed my entire outlook on sex. It helped me tap into the sexual being inside me and I flirt with my husband and enjoy great quickies with him all the time now...even more so than when we first started dating in high school over 25 years ago!!


Lube Jobs
01/03/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Yes I do!!!!
01/03/2011
Contributor: Kiwi Kiwi
It depends on the situation. Sometimes I am much more flirty than I was when we met.
01/05/2011
Contributor: RomeroB RomeroB
I love to flirt with him. I know exactly what turns him on. I also love to send him sexy text messages and I know he gets turned on.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitt Katt
I felt the same way as you until I received as a gift from my husband the book "Lube Jobs: A Woman's Guide to Great Maintenance Sex." Guess he was trying to tell me something. Well, let me just say, that book changed my entire outlook ... more
I wonder if my wife has read this little book? Grudging 'lube jobs' gave way to loving 'lube jobs' a few years ago - what a difference just a small change in attitude can make.

Thanks for the link!
01/10/2011
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
Oh yes... I still charm him, flirt with him, banter more than ever before and tease him to no end. Now that I know which buttons to press to get him all worked up.... but then again... he still drives me just as wild and crazy as the day I met him.
01/12/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
Oh yes, my husband is in the army so we have flirty phone sex often.
01/20/2011
Contributor: *Huxley* *Huxley*
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Are you as flirty as you were when you first met your partner?
Yes, it helps keep the relationship feeling fresh.
02/03/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Are you as flirty as you were when you first met your partner?
It's been almost two years and we still flirt.
02/04/2011
Contributor: AlleyXXX AlleyXXX
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Are you as flirty as you were when you first met your partner?
I think this is part of a healthy marriage. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and together for 11. We flirt All the time. I feel like if you loose that with your partner then you risk them getting it from other people and forgetting what it was like to get those feelings from you. I still send my husband "naughty" pics from my cell phone while hes at work and he still send me dirty messages as well. There are even times we get to the point that we cant keep our hands to ourselves. I think you need to do what you can to keep your relationship "fresh". There are too many people out there who are cheating or have been cheated on which is usually, I believe, due to an unhappy sex life with the current partner. How does cheating start? With Flirting...So for the love of god Flirt with your LOVER!!
02/24/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
I would say yes I don't think we realize we're doing it half the time, but we definitely still do it.
02/24/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I am definitely more flirty now than when we first met. Hee hee, I think it comes along with being comfortable with him. I'm also much more flirty online than in person. In person my words get all stuttery and faily.
02/24/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
Yes, I still flirt with him. I can't really help it.
02/24/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I like to be a little outrageous, but sometimes I'll go up to him in a bar, throw out a pick up line, then be like... "You didn't like the line? Um, alright. Wanna fuck in the back of your car?" LOL

It's fun to tease around
02/25/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Yeah we do still flirt. It's fun, and he always responds so well. Nothing like flirting with the person you love.
02/25/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
I try my best.
02/25/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
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Originally posted by indiglo
Yeah we do still flirt. It's fun, and he always responds so well. Nothing like flirting with the person you love.
Hey, baby. How YOU doin'?
02/25/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by DexterStratton
Hey, baby. How YOU doin'?
Awww, you DO always respond so well, see? lol
02/25/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
oh we are definitely more flirty. It's fun. I enjoy flirting with my husband so much.
03/22/2011
Contributor: bunny love bunny love
Yes! I love how bold we are able to be with each other now. It's a lot of fun and very liberating.
03/23/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
I flirt with my partner still and we have been together for 3 years
04/01/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Sure do... I still find him the hottest guy in the world... even when he's being a dick like he has been lately, lol...
04/01/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
Everyday!
04/01/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
Absolutely!
04/01/2011
Contributor: purplekidney purplekidney
We flirt all the time. It's a good way for us to connect and make sure we know that we're both still interested in and turned on by each other.
04/03/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Yes, every chance I get.
04/03/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
Yes, we flirt all the time. Even after almost 13 years together. Drives people crazy. It's funny because people who don't know us assume we just started dating.
04/04/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
All the time!
05/30/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Most definitely!
05/30/2011
Contributor: shentel shentel
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Are you as flirty as you were when you first met your partner?
Well before me and my husband were married we got it on all the time. Now we barely get it on.
05/30/2011