I was wondering, who out there has ever dealt with this situation? How did you handle it?
Heres my situation: Tonight, my wife wanted to confront her ex husband about the blow up that he had on the phone Saturday night with her. She was concerned about their daughter-physical issue- and he said basically "Don't tell him how to raise or take care of her-its not your problem" and she was trying to stay calm and he starts yelling at her on the phone about her "Bitching at him" and yadda yadda.
So then we get there to drop the kids off tonight and she said that she wanted to talk to him to clear the air and any misunderstandings-she was TRYING to be adult about it. She was calm (from what she tells me-I stayed in the car-not my place to get involved with this sort of mess.) and she said that he started yelling at her about how she was bitching at him and that she was not the one to make the ultimate decision about them going tot he drs and what not.
Long story short-He's being an ass. She is trying to be a good mom. They live with him during the week and we get them weekends/holidays/summ er vaca ect. She is LIVID, rightfully so. She is going to be filing for custody this week. She has had it with his neglect and righteous attitude and how he is on "His parental high horse" as she says lol.
So Im wondering-How do I handle this? Part of me wants to get involved, and tell him just what an ass he is being and totally give it to him. On the other hand, I know its not my place, other than to be there for her when he makes her upset.
So, have you been in this situation? What did you do? How should I tend to this issue?
Heres my situation: Tonight, my wife wanted to confront her ex husband about the blow up that he had on the phone Saturday night with her. She was concerned about their daughter-physical issue- and he said basically "Don't tell him how to raise or take care of her-its not your problem" and she was trying to stay calm and he starts yelling at her on the phone about her "Bitching at him" and yadda yadda.
So then we get there to drop the kids off tonight and she said that she wanted to talk to him to clear the air and any misunderstandings-she was TRYING to be adult about it. She was calm (from what she tells me-I stayed in the car-not my place to get involved with this sort of mess.) and she said that he started yelling at her about how she was bitching at him and that she was not the one to make the ultimate decision about them going tot he drs and what not.
Long story short-He's being an ass. She is trying to be a good mom. They live with him during the week and we get them weekends/holidays/summ er vaca ect. She is LIVID, rightfully so. She is going to be filing for custody this week. She has had it with his neglect and righteous attitude and how he is on "His parental high horse" as she says lol.
So Im wondering-How do I handle this? Part of me wants to get involved, and tell him just what an ass he is being and totally give it to him. On the other hand, I know its not my place, other than to be there for her when he makes her upset.
So, have you been in this situation? What did you do? How should I tend to this issue?
