So I was with this girl for 3 years, we never fought, or argued. We got along perfect. Well a little over 3 months ago I left her because she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, and I wasn't sure that's what I wanted. I told her I needed some time. Well after 2 months I decided that she is who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and no I never dated or slept with any other girls. She of course started seeing someone else about 2 weeks after the break up. I wrote her and told her how I felt poured my heart out. We ended up meeting that same day. We hung out for a week behind her new boyfriends back until she finally told me she didn't want to do that anymore and that she was confused. She told me that we would have to stop talking. So a few days went by without us talking then she broke up with her new boyfriend and made him move out of their apartment. However she still told me she was confused and was hanging out with him one night and me the other. This went on for 2 weeks. Finally I asked her if she was still sleeping with him she said yes. She never slept with me. I told her she needed to chose and she picked him. I'm confused, she told me she loved me when we were hanging out and we even talked about getting married after we both graduated from College, we even talked about me moving in with her, but now the new guy is back living with her. Do you think she will come back around if she truly loved me?

By the way I'm a guy using my friends account for advice. I understand I made a mistake by lettering her go less

It sounds so sad. From what you wrote it seems like she might be your first relationship. Or the first serious one at the least. Many times first romance do not last. At that age you 2 are probably like best friends. Even high school sweethearts that get married get divorced. Instead of waiting around I would move on and see the rest of the world.

We both had long term relationship as teens. Neither of us are with that person anymore. less