Does anyone keep stuff from Past relationships?

Contributor: indiechick indiechick
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Originally posted by jryder3891
I have been in 3 long term relationships in my life. I am stipp in love with the first girl I ever told I loved her. She is happily in another relationship now. I still have stuff from our relationship and cant bring myself to get rid of it. Am I the ... more
I have a teddy bear that I cannot sleep without if I am sleeping alone so it stays, a few things stayed at my parents house, because they are too beautiful to get rid of. But most has been thrown out. Honestly I wish I had something anything from my last partner I really miss him and it would be nice to have something
06/17/2012
Contributor: Sj83 Sj83
I don't save stuff
06/17/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I kept a few rings because I thought they were pretty and went well with other things I have, and I kept a few shirts that were gifted to me. Anything that reminded me only of that relationship I got rid of though.
06/17/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
I've only had one relationship and tried to give back every single thing he gave me, but he just brought it back. I don't keep it because it reminds me of him, in fact I never think of him when I use them. I just keep them because they are practical, like the computer he bought me, or the coat and sweater etc.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by MaeGal
I still have a bracelet my from my youth crush, of course it was hand made and he is one of my best friends now, so that might make it a little different.
I did the same for a close friend
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by Peggi
I save most things, gifts, notes and letters, pictures and videos, but then again I stay friends with most of my ex's. My hubby doesn't mind my keeping them, either, which I am pretty lucky about, because he realizes that I only save them ... more
I still have notes and pictures as well
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by amazon
I've been lucky, and after time has passed, they were all mostly good memories, so I definitely hung on to sentimental stuff. I know some people can't do that, and it's easier to get over things with everything gone.
I completely understand
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by remember.me
Depends on how the relationship ended honestly. I have kept stuff and given away stuff if it could be given away. I have stuff from nearly 10 years ago still. Also, I like to have something to look at when I'm feeling down, a remind of happy ... more
Thats why I did it. But my relationship ended because i moved 2000miles away
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by Ms. N
I kept stuff, but put it away in a locked box in my closet where I could not easily get to it. After about a year, when it didn't hurt so much, I opened the box and threw everything away.
Thats what i did
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by Bignuf
SO marry the guy already!!!
lolol
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by JennSenn
I kept the gifts, but I got rid of all the texts I had been saving. I guess I just kept the practical stuff like the books and got rid of the sentimental stuff.
I know that feeling
06/17/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
i MAY HAVE A FEW THINGS, BUT ITS NOT LIKE i THINK ABOUT IT.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by LaSchwartz
I have a few things from my first serious relationship but now I have moved on and will trash it.
I wish I could do the same. But I keep alot
06/17/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Crap, caps lock was on and someone posted after me so I couldn't change it.
06/17/2012
Contributor: jryder3891 jryder3891
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Originally posted by Love Obsessed
I keep everything.Gifts,if I liked it,photos everything.I just see no reason in getting rid of things every time you get out of a relationship.
Agreed
06/17/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I'm probably going to sound like a gold digger, but here's what I did:

After my first relationship, I called one of my good friends. I had been in a relationship for almost 4 years, and amassed a lot of things: pictures, jewelry, clothing, electronics, etc. (all gifts). I called a friend to ask what I should do with all the stuff.

He said "Toss the pictures, keep a couple if you want for sentimental reasons, But you keep those gifts! You earned them! Don't dare give them back or toss them!"

It made me laugh, but that's what I did. I didn't wear the jewelry until it was nothing more than a pretty piece. The other gifts are still holding up and are being used to this day (my Mom still has the iPod that was given to me in Xmas of 2007-8!).
06/19/2012
Contributor: Samantha B. Samantha B.
I throw them away gradually, until i end up keeping only one or two objects of great value.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I still the promise ring I got from my longest relationship. I also am a big hoarder of pictures as well. I still have feelings for all my serious exes, but in a sentimental way. I know that things wouldn't be the same, and I try to stress that to my current boyfriend all the time. He is the most important, and these are just things to remind me of good times I had with someone. I'd like to think I can share these memories to bond with my daughter (if I have one), maybe sort of consoling her in her teenage years or telling her that she isn't alone in heartache, and that the pictures and items will aid as a visual reference to the stories and seem more lifelike to her. My mother kept everything, and it was always interesting to see what kind of person she was like when she was younger.
06/28/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
If it's a constant reminder of the relationship, I'd toss it out. I don't like hanging on to things in the past.
06/28/2012