Does your significant other know that you have or use sex toys for self pleasure?

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Does your significant other know that you have or use sex toys for self pleasure?

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Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
Well... he does use them on me... just not on himself. But I so want a harness to peg him some day. Plus to do another girl like I am actually fucking her doggy style lol.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
My wife bought my first one for me, and we're always browsing/shopping EF together, sending each other comparisons and wish lists, etc.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
i always show off to him what ive gotten from eden.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
He uses them on me, but I don't think he uses them by himself.
02/21/2012
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
I just recently introduced toys into our sex life.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
He isn't interested in using toys for himself, but he definitely knows about mine, and I use them with him sometimes.
02/21/2012
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
my bf knows i have toys & likes to watch me use them. sometimes, he even likes to use them on me. i bought him a pussy sleeve once, but he didn't like using it that much. he said that the texture of the material was almost like it was too soft, which was why it would take him longer to get off when he used it.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
My boyfriend certainly knows about my toys and frequently buys toys for me. I bought him a masturbation sleeve which he usually takes when he travels.
We both use butt plugs from our collection.

He encourages me to use my toys as I have a higher sex drive.

He would like to use toys more often with me but I am somewhat uncomfortable with he being the driver, so he usually watches me...
02/22/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
My partner uses them with me
02/22/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
He knows that I have them and he uses them on me but he doesn't really use any on himself.
02/23/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Yes definitely.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
We use our toys together. He doesn't own any yet but we are looking into a few.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I don't understand hiding sex toys from your spouse. Who are you supposed to share your sex life with if not them?
03/03/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Quote:
Originally posted by Fuck it.
I don't understand hiding sex toys from your spouse. Who are you supposed to share your sex life with if not them?
My sex toys are no longer hidden from my wife. I just recently told her about them and she didn't seem to care one way or another. But as far as her using sex toys, she really wants nothing to do with them. The important thing however, is that she does know now.
Now, if there was only a way I can change my vote.
03/04/2012
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
I've never hidden this from my wife and she knows (and fully supports) that I use some toys just for my own pleasure. A few years ago I got the Pfun plug because we had discovered the pleasure that prostate massage could provide. She was very interested in it and the pleasure it gave me. These days if I have a day to myself she'll often ask if I used it, but only because she knows how it gets me off. My wife is slowly but surely getting more into toys and I've bought some just for her use. It's all good.
03/04/2012
Contributor: J Peach J Peach
He doesn't, but I do. I wish he found it sexy, but he doesn't. He's just whatever about it.
03/07/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
Both have some, both use some, both share some. In both masturbation and sex.
03/07/2012
Contributor: purple579 purple579
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
I used to hide it from my ex but eventually it worked its way out now I'm completely open to anyone about anything that they want to know.
03/08/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
He knows and accepts it but doesn't seem in love with the idea. He just leaves me to it knowing I have alot more free time then he does.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
I would have to wonder if my guys were blind and a little light in the brain power area if they didn't know I use the toys I have all over our bedroom(s)!
03/16/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
We both know and use them in front of eachother.
03/18/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
My partner and I were both using sex toys before we started dating. Now we shop on eden together or for each other.
03/21/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
He knows and he doesn't care. We're long distance so when we do meet, I'm pretty much his toy
03/21/2012
Contributor: Brenard Brenard
All the toys I have are ones that belong between me and my girlfriend. We get them together.
03/24/2012
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
We both use them, and are cool with it.
03/25/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
I said "Yes, he or she knows because we both use sex toys." But he doesn't use them on his self... yet. He uses them on me, and I'll run a vibe up and down his shaft, or play with him in some other use. But I am going to get a masturbator for him. So he does use them now, in a sense. And hopefully we can find him a good maturbator soon. ^_^
03/26/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
yes he knows
03/26/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
He knows I have them, loves to watch me use them, and even buys me them sometimes! He doesn't use any toys himself, though.
03/26/2012
Contributor: dhig dhig
yes, we both use them
03/26/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
he knows because he bought me my first toy and a few others since then.
03/26/2012