He knows. He bought me my first one, but he's not comfortable with me using them. But last time he was here I left them out and he grabbed them to use while we were having sex. So I think we're making some progress.
Does your significant other know that you have or use sex toys for self pleasure?
06/17/2012
i do she doesnt
06/19/2012
we definitely use toys together!
06/28/2012
We both use toys.
06/28/2012
Of course my partner knows! I am honest with him and I have too many to hide besides. Sometimes we use them together.
06/28/2012
Yep, and he'll sometimes use toys on me. He doesn't use them himself though - even though I offered to buy him a Fleshlight, he has no interest. He doesn't even watch porn! But oh well.
06/28/2012
My boyfriend and I both use sex toys.
06/28/2012
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we feel sex toys enhance the intimacy it makes it more fun and makes it last longer
Originally posted by
mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
Just curious what other couples ... more
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples relationships are like when it comes to using sex toys. less
Just curious what other couples relationships are like when it comes to using sex toys. less
07/02/2012
We love sex toys! I'm in a poly triad, and neither of my partners have any problem with me owning or using toys, alone or with them. One doesn't own any of their own toys, but the other has quite a large collection of them. We share toys sometimes, since we buy good quality products that can be sterilized.
07/04/2012
We both use them...We LOVE toys!!!!
07/04/2012
Yes, he knows.
07/04/2012
Hubby and I are very aware of what we use. But then, we also think that even though a toy is technically really for only one of us (mostly me), it benefits us both.
07/04/2012
Yes, he knows. We usually use them together.
07/04/2012
There's no way I'd hide something like that from a partner ever. My partner knows I use them, buys some for me, and has no issue with it. We share some toys.
07/04/2012
he knows and he's totally into it and gets enjoyment out of anything that is bringing me pleasure. he doesn't use them though
07/10/2012
I am his sex toy
07/10/2012
Since I have been using sex toys my partner always knew. My last 2 partners I actually got them a sleeve to use while we were apart. I used my toys with and without them. I tend to drop the I use toys when we start talking sex so its not too big of a surprise. I mean if I don't tell them straight forward when they walk in my room or bathroom they would find them anyways.
07/10/2012
My partner knows and we both use toys. In fact, we're both on EF.
07/10/2012
i just bough my bf a fleshlight he loves it
07/10/2012
Oh my gosh yes he knows he actually encourages it!!!!! technically speaking he does use the toys....... on me! he could sit and watch for hours and hours I think he likes my toys as much as or even more than I do but thats ok with me i like the way he watches me and I like not having to hide something that I enjoy!
07/10/2012
he definitely knows since we both use them together
07/10/2012
I'm not in a relationship but most guys I know don't have toys but love to know about that I have them and use them.
07/10/2012
I got some for my man recently I felt it was time for him since we've been together for 10 years and I've used Toys myself and with him since the start. he still doesn't use his very often, more with me then by himself. I'm almost always up for some action so he doesn't have a chance to use his toys unless it's with me, but since I'm pregnant after the baby arrives I'm sure he might get some use since there's a good 5-6 week wait time.
07/11/2012
Yes he knows because we usually use them together. He has his own as well lol
07/11/2012
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my hubby uses them on me. im on a search for one for him
Originally posted by
mlmac
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples ... more
Just curious what other couples ... more
My wife doesn't know that I use sex toys or even own them. Although, if she did find out one day, she definitely wouldn't understand , but I'm sure she would accept it, as long as I use them in private.
Just curious what other couples relationships are like when it comes to using sex toys. less
Just curious what other couples relationships are like when it comes to using sex toys. less
07/11/2012
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same with mine...
Originally posted by
Rossie
My husband knows and he doesn't have a problem with it, he always lends a hand and use the toys on me during foreplay. I wish he's willing to let me try toys on him also, but he's totally against it!
07/11/2012
Yes, he knows
07/13/2012
She knows and uses them with me but she doesn't like to use toys as much as I do.
07/14/2012
yes
07/29/2012