My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
Ever wait 'till your parner goes to bed and then masterbate?
03/03/2011
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I don't wait until he falls asleep, I'll generally just do it while we're in bed dozing. It takes almost 20 mins so I know he'll probably fall asleep before I'm done anyway, hah. I'm not sure about him though.. maybe? Clearly if he does it, I'm asleep already and have no idea. He sometimes masturbates in the morning before I wake up, though (or before he THINKS I've woken up, anyway). I don't mind, I like to watch/listen to him anyway so I just lay back and enjoy the show.
03/03/2011
He always goes to bed after me, so no.
03/03/2011
She goes to bed early so I take matters into my own hands.
03/03/2011
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
03/04/2011
No... he'd be irritated if he woke up and found out I was having fun without him!
03/04/2011
Timely question - going down that road tonight!
03/04/2011
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Laugh and go to sleep?...Ouch!
Originally posted by
soyandapplecrisp
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
03/04/2011
I've attempted it once or twice, but he usually will ask me if I'm masturbating and "you aren't done yet?" and then I'll feel awkward and annoyed at that. And then just go to bed frustrated without orgasm.
He doesn't. 100% certain of that one. We've talked about waking up to sexual acts on each other, but we haven't done that so.. meh! (One or the other person is always way too tired for anything!)
He doesn't. 100% certain of that one. We've talked about waking up to sexual acts on each other, but we haven't done that so.. meh! (One or the other person is always way too tired for anything!)
03/04/2011
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Enjoy the ride!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Timely question - going down that road tonight!
03/04/2011
I've never done that, at least not that I can remember. LOL
03/04/2011
Honestly, I think it's normal(if you're doing it for you're own pleasure/fun not because it's the only time you had a desire to), it shows how comfortable you are with a partner.
03/08/2011
I go to bed after my bf all the time. I am more productive at night for school where as he needs to get up early so goes to bed early.
I usually masterbate when he isn't home. If I do masterbate while he is home, it is often bcs he prompted me to do it.
I do know that my guy masterbates in the morning. He does it every other morning. It's fine as long as he can satisfy me later in the day too .
I usually masterbate when he isn't home. If I do masterbate while he is home, it is often bcs he prompted me to do it.
I do know that my guy masterbates in the morning. He does it every other morning. It's fine as long as he can satisfy me later in the day too .
03/08/2011
Never done it and never thought of doing it.
03/08/2011
My partner has to get up before dawn, but I work from home. I'm a night-owl and prefer to stay up. Sometimes he's too tired for sex, or sometimes I don't feel completely "done."
Either case, I tend to masturbate before bed. I have chronic insomnia, so it helps me relax.
We are in a D/s thing, so I always tell him when I do. He sleeps like a rock, so I can honestly take a small quiet vibrator or just manually masturbate right next to him and if he wakes up, we have sex. If not, I am satisfied and I know he'll be ready for me when he gets off work.
Unless it was a D/s situation, I would NEVER be able to handle someone who was upset by my self-loving. It's a physical need like eating. People can be really irrational, and I mean both men and women, about this topic.
Either case, I tend to masturbate before bed. I have chronic insomnia, so it helps me relax.
We are in a D/s thing, so I always tell him when I do. He sleeps like a rock, so I can honestly take a small quiet vibrator or just manually masturbate right next to him and if he wakes up, we have sex. If not, I am satisfied and I know he'll be ready for me when he gets off work.
Unless it was a D/s situation, I would NEVER be able to handle someone who was upset by my self-loving. It's a physical need like eating. People can be really irrational, and I mean both men and women, about this topic.
03/11/2011
I've done it if we were in an argument with each other, otherwise no I don't.
03/22/2011
It's happened....
03/27/2011
Every night. She's busy with her thesis and honestly needs all the sleep she can get. We can fuck all the time after she graduates in May.
03/27/2011
There have been times that he's fallen asleep before me and I got up and masturbated, lol...
03/27/2011
It's not really a matter of waiting until she goes to bed. I don't actually do it much anymore, but she usually goes to bed 2-3 hours before me so if I get the urge, that is when I take care of it most of the time.
03/27/2011
Sometimes it happens..we both get tired sometimes.
03/27/2011
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sometimes, but it's not cuz i want to. just bordem mostly.
Originally posted by
bobowaxer
My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
03/29/2011
With my current SO, I have never done this and do not expect this will ever happen. We both have very high sex drives and enjoy each other tremendously. With my prior, this was a very common occurance...
03/30/2011
No, unless he falls asleep because he finished. Usually when I play with myself he joins in and helps.
03/31/2011
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Thats always kinda awkward. Walked in on my man masterbating once because something was wrong with me (sick, period, idk). I just walked out, he was on the floor and everything. Lol, it was funny.
Originally posted by
soyandapplecrisp
No, but when I used to live with my boyfriend I would sometimes wake up to him masturbating in the morning. I would just laugh and go back to sleep.
03/31/2011
yes have done it
04/01/2011
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LOL I have been doing that forever
Originally posted by
bobowaxer
My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for four years and sex with her was some of the best I've ever had. Still, there were times when I waited for her to go to bed, so I could pleasure myself...Am I on an island on this one?
04/11/2011
No. I don't really do anything by myself when it comes to that. Unless I'm trying to get him to take a hint. Lol. It usually works, but once he was just not getting it. I usually on have to pretend I'm working alone & then he joins! Lol.
04/12/2011
I can't say, I wait for him to go to bed and then masturbate but if he is asleep, if I have the need I will masturbate. If he really wakes up, he will join me.
But if I wake up during the night as he is masturbating, most times I do nothing but wait for his orgasm, pretending to be asleep.
But if I wake up during the night as he is masturbating, most times I do nothing but wait for his orgasm, pretending to be asleep.
04/12/2011
My husband's an early sleeper. I'll usually have some fun with my toys and then wake him up to the real deal.
Funny things is, I've never seen him masturbate himself.
Funny things is, I've never seen him masturbate himself.
04/12/2011
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