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He's not due back till tomorrow (left yesterday) and I am missing him so bad..

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Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We just started using toys a few days ago and he said yesterday before leaving for our son's for the weekend that I'm wearing him out.

Mind you - he was the one who was wanting sex more before...and I wasn't in the mood that often.

I just can't believe how much I'm missing him sexually right now (forget emotionally).

He loves to go visit our adult son once every month or two so the two guys can just "hang out" and our son doesn't feel so disconnected from our family.

Never minded it before ... but today its like "Dang it...I want him home NOW!"

Ever feel that way when your partner is gone?

Its a totally new feeling to me...and it isn't so much that I want to play alone - its that I want to play WITH HIM....
10/01/2011
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Contributor: dude dude
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We just started using toys a few days ago and he said yesterday before leaving for our son's for the weekend that I'm wearing him out.

Mind you - he was the one who was wanting sex more before...and I wasn't in the mood that ... more
Sometimes, never in the sexual way you are expeiencing. Best of luck to you unti your man returns. How come you don't visit with your son also?
10/01/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by dude
Sometimes, never in the sexual way you are expeiencing. Best of luck to you unti your man returns. How come you don't visit with your son also?
My honey likes to take his motorcycle up - its a way for him to get out of town and just connect with our son alone. (Our son and I are more connected in some ways cause we chat a lot and we are a lot alike - so this gives hubby a chance to spend time with son without my hogging him).
10/01/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We just started using toys a few days ago and he said yesterday before leaving for our son's for the weekend that I'm wearing him out.

Mind you - he was the one who was wanting sex more before...and I wasn't in the mood that ... more
Awwwww. What a great thing! You've hit a spark. I think it's wonderful. Think about how much fun you'll have when he returns. Maybe you should send him a little sext and tell him what he has to look forward to When he gets back
10/01/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
We just started using toys a few days ago and he said yesterday before leaving for our son's for the weekend that I'm wearing him out.

Mind you - he was the one who was wanting sex more before...and I wasn't in the mood that ... more
Yep, I've felt like that too. lol But we're all only human and sometimes our men need a night or two off from time to time. I don't like to play alone either, so that's not weird either. I usually try to keep myself busy and occupied to keep my mind off of it. Hopefully tomorrow will get here soon!

I love how you two have reconnected, it's really wonderful to hear about!
10/01/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
I totally and its a poopy feelling. and one I have recently had to deal with something like that myself as my husband and I were unable to have sex for over a month because of horrible woman issues. Its sucks when all you want to do is be with your partner and you cant. Toys are unsatisfying because its not the same. Hopefully soon though you will be able to be with your partner
10/01/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Well - I sorta did something positive about it. (This is probably some stuff y'all have done since you're not newbies).

My daughter and I went to Walmart and got some fabric to make bags for each of the toys...in various colors. It is sorta a soft non-linty felt type material - we bought 1/4 yard in 8 different colors (hey a girl can dream of having more toys). Opis which is purple will be getting a purple bag - my Flexi lover will get a pretty pink bag to match its color...you get the idea. We'll sew these by hand to specially fit each toy. We also got ribbon type stuff to tie the bags with.

Then we got some jewelry type items from the craft department. One is a black heart with a smaller heart in red details. My daughter is making me two necklaces of this - one has a long double black chain that is my normal necklace length and I will use it as a sign/reminder to my husband when we're out and about that I'm "available".

The other one is a round cord choker collar with the same black and red heart...its for when he comes home and I want to play but I'm not wearing much underneath or perhaps wearing it with black lingerie or maybe..um...tassles? (Can you tell his birthday present arrived early - it arrived today instead of Monday and has the beginner's bondage kit and some tassles for me to wear,etc). Once again - its mainly a sign for him.

Then there is the other piece....when I look at it and how she's going to make it I think of studded collars and bondage...I'll just put it that way. That will be a necklace to let him know that I'm in for something a bit more....bdsm I guess.

So I guess I killed my time fairly productively?

Now to practice twirling some tassles and thinking about his birthday which is still 10 days away (and I'm going to make us both wait for what I have planned).
10/01/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
That's great! What a fun way to spend your time, and very productive.

Maybe next time he goes away for the weekend you can try out some phone sex for the first time. (My man just suggested that.) Could be another fun way for you to branch out and enjoy each other, even when apart.
10/01/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by indiglo
That's great! What a fun way to spend your time, and very productive.

Maybe next time he goes away for the weekend you can try out some phone sex for the first time. (My man just suggested that.) Could be another fun way for you to ... more
Good idea. Problem is that I've never really known how to describe what I like. I mean - we usually used the missionary position or with my ankles on his shoulder. We're both large people and being on my hands and knees is awesome but not easy.

However, I'm learning to open up enough to tell him my fantasies and so maybe I could learn how to describe things. I'm thinking specifically right now of the free sheath that arrived today with my order..I could describe to him how I'm thinking of using it on him (once we've used it) and maybe work from there.

I miss the man so much right now - not just sexually - but also emotionally. He truly is my best friend.
10/02/2011