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Ok. So my sweetie does't wanna have sex before marriage and he said he would rather use a toy on me.. meaning one of my dildos. I have two so far.. my favorite which is softer is rather thick. Should I go for the thinner dildo as to not
Ok. So my sweetie does't wanna have sex before marriage and he said he would rather use a toy on me.. meaning one of my dildos. I have two so far.. my favorite which is softer is rather thick. Should I go for the thinner dildo as to not intimidate?
I could always buy a new one between now and then which an average girth.
What do you guys think? Is your man intimidated by a dildo which might have more girth than him?
Why would a thick toy intimidate him? My Man likes to use toys on me that I
enjoy using. A mature man will not be intimidated by a sex toy, no matter what the size.
Don't create a situation where you are always on eggshells trying not to "offend" him. Sweetie, it's no way to start a marriage or anything healthy for a relationship. If he's worth having, he will be mature enough and care enough about YOUR sexual happiness to use any toy YOU think is the most fun.
My Man is not intimidated by any
toy. He knows I love him and that the toys are just tools. He's just happy to make me feel good, as I am to make him feel good.
You are setting the foundation for your future marriage NOW. Don't tip toe around, or you'll be tip toeing all your life. If he's a man
(not a little boy) he can take it and it won't bother him. HIS main concern should be YOUR happiness and sexual satisfaction. If he's intimidated by a large sex toy, I'd investigate what other areas he isn't mature in.