How many of you in long tern relationships would choose their current partner or partners again?

Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I would definitely choose to be with my boyfriend again.
11/07/2010
Contributor: minny minny
Love my husband to be
11/08/2010
Contributor: soulrain soulrain
I wouldn't start the relationship the same way if I could do it all over again. I met him while I was in a long term relationship with someone else, and I dated both of them at the same time for a year. I handled it all wrong and it caused a lot of pain for everyone involved, so I would change many things about the whole process. But the fact that I ended up with my man now...I wouldn't trade that for anything.
11/14/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I was listening to the song "I'd Choose You Again" by the Forrester Sisters and I was wondering how many of you felt the same. These are the lyrics:
Looking in my life through the eyes of a young girl
Growing older all the time, ... more
Love my husband and could not imagine being with any one else
11/24/2010
Contributor: southernhawtie southernhawtie
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I was listening to the song "I'd Choose You Again" by the Forrester Sisters and I was wondering how many of you felt the same. These are the lyrics:
Looking in my life through the eyes of a young girl
Growing older all the time, ... more
He's a great guy. Everything I ever wanted and more....very few things that I would change about him. So yes I would definitely chose him again.
12/02/2010
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Hmm. I would choose mine again. I love him sooo much. He is amazing.
12/03/2010
Contributor: dhig dhig
Would not change a darn thing
12/03/2010
Contributor: MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I was listening to the song "I'd Choose You Again" by the Forrester Sisters and I was wondering how many of you felt the same. These are the lyrics:
Looking in my life through the eyes of a young girl
Growing older all the time, ... more
i'd choose her again prolly have a fling or two beforehand, but if it would make choosing her again impossible, than no. i'd just choose her again cos i know how things turn out, and they worked out fine sofar!
12/05/2010
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I would absolutely choose my husband again! I wish I had met him sooner than I did. I wonder what life had been like if we had grown up together as children.
12/06/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I met my man when we were 11. We were friends through high school and lost touch. I'm so glad we finally got together and I wouldn't change a thing. He's perfection.
12/15/2010
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
A million times YES! Love.of.my.life. Very very lucky to have ridden out the rough patches. We've learned a lot about each other.

Our most recent 'd'aww' moment happened last night. He admitted he knows that I know he plays dumb more often than he admits to and I know he knows that I know that he plays dumb and he also learned that even if he tells me the fire is hot, I still have to touch it to believe it.

I just don't think I could have that with anyone else. I've tried and there were many things blocking a successful relationship (intelligence was a HUGE factor in why I dumped my exes). We've been together for 14 years.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I've been in love with my husband since I was 15, and after almost 24 years of marriage, I would definitely choose him again. We always say to each other how we can't believe we are more in love now than we were as teenagers!
12/15/2010
Contributor: Teaser Teaser
What a great poll!!

After 34 years of marriage and years of dating (we are high school sweethearts), I just can not picture my life without her. She really is my everything! I don't know what I would do without her. Not saying that there hasn't been a few rough spots, or an occasional spat, but overall, it has been a great ride!!

Love Ya, Hon!
12/21/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
My girlfriend and I have defiantly hit our fare share of rough patches. Nevertheless, we have pulled through strong and I would not hesitate for an instant to choose her and fall in love all over again.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I would absolutely choose my boyfriend again. He is freaking amazing. I look back at the previous guys that I've dated and I can't believe I put up with everyone else's crap for so long. We just get together so well, we mesh perfectly sexually, he makes me happy and feel special, he's just anything I could ever ask for. We haven't been together for that long yet, but we're both in it for the long haul.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
i would totally pick my primary over and over again
12/23/2010
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
I completly love my baby but sometimes i think were not completly perfect for each other. Im a talker and hes well not. But i'd deffently choose him again.
12/29/2010
Contributor: ana123 ana123
I would choose my boyfriend again any time. I really love him and don't see that going anywhere.
12/29/2010
Contributor: misslady misslady
I love reading the posts in this thread. I haven't found a partner I can consider to be the one, but you all make me optimistic and hopeful!
12/29/2010
Contributor: guard083 guard083
There is not a thing in this world that would keep me from choosing my man all over again. He is my balance in life and my entire world. He does everything in this world to make me happy and the sweetest surprises. He makes me smile when noone else can and he is my best friend. We have our ups and downs but I wouldnt want to have them with anyone else but him. He is my exact opposite but fits me. I cant imagine being with anyone else but him. I had to pick between him and another guy when I was talking to him and picked him and dont regret it one bit. I would pick him all over a million times again.
01/11/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'd choose my man again too. Hands down, no questions - we're too perfect of a match.
01/16/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
It's taken me nearly a lifetime to find my partner. I've had to learn a lot of hard lessons along the way but I believe that I'm a better man for it. To distill those lessons down to a one liner, I'd say "It's the person, not the packaging."

BTW, For those of us who really do like the song "I'd Choose You Again", I'd recommend "Feels Like Home" sung by Bonnie Raitt off of Randy Newman's album Faust. It's also been covered in a duet with Raul Malo and Martina McBride.
01/19/2011
Contributor: danellejohns danellejohns
I would without hesitation choose my husband again. Although I would have to wait impatiently if I knew about it, because he is older then I am by almost ten years.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Dark Muse Dark Muse
I chose the last option, mostly because it made me giggle. Yeah I'd choose him again. We both didn't really WANT to be in a relationship at the beginning, it just sort of happened that way.
01/20/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I was listening to the song "I'd Choose You Again" by the Forrester Sisters and I was wondering how many of you felt the same. These are the lyrics:
Looking in my life through the eyes of a young girl
Growing older all the time, ... more
yes he's great..but maybe there's a side of me that sometimes thinks about fucking other guys because I've only been with 1 and have only been in 1 relationship? I would never do anything of course...
01/20/2011
Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Of course I would choose him again. If I wouldn't I doubt we would still be married.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I certainly wish I'd have done things differently early in our marriage, but I'd definitely choose her again. The grass only seems greener on the other side.
01/20/2011
Contributor: hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I was listening to the song "I'd Choose You Again" by the Forrester Sisters and I was wondering how many of you felt the same. These are the lyrics:
Looking in my life through the eyes of a young girl
Growing older all the time, ... more
After 40 years I guess it works ok.
01/20/2011
Contributor: vanillaSpice vanillaSpice
We went through a bit of a mess to get together, but I'd go through it all again. She's wonderful.
01/21/2011
Contributor: KrissyRoro KrissyRoro
OF COURSE !
01/27/2011