So this past weekend, I threw this great big surprise birthday party for my husband. Invited all his friends/family and we took a trip across state to do all this. He thought we were going there for my EF spa party (which was on sunday-his party was sat). So anyways, I also got him tickets to the ball game hes been wanting, his favorite players jersey (which wasn't cheap lemme tell ya) and then I got his favorite beer too! I mean I put a lot of thought into all of this. It was insane how far we went with it. But it was all worth it in the end.
Now, today is Mothers day and monday is my birthday-so I kinda get two days that are totally mine hehe. But, because of our big event last weekend, we're tapped for cash. So tapped, that a bill or two had to be put off til next week, but hey that is ok right? So anyhow, All I really want for mothers day and my birthday is maybe a few nice gestures *(maybe a nice oil massage with all the massage candles I got from EF) or a nice hot bubble bath drawn for me. Ya know, the sappy stuff lol. I don't get that a lot and he's not really one to put a lot of thought into it.
Now, I know he's going to read this eventually or find it-but Im hoping that he doesn't until later this week LMAO!!!!
So Im wondering, would YOU expect something in return or would you be fine with stuff like what I listed off? I had one of my friends tell me "Oh he had better do it up for you this weekend!" and I just thought "Nah, its ok-really. It made me happy to see him so happy having a birthday party when he never got one as a child" So that was enough for me
What do you all think? Should I hold my breath or just be happy with whatever comes what may?
Now, today is Mothers day and monday is my birthday-so I kinda get two days that are totally mine hehe. But, because of our big event last weekend, we're tapped for cash. So tapped, that a bill or two had to be put off til next week, but hey that is ok right? So anyhow, All I really want for mothers day and my birthday is maybe a few nice gestures *(maybe a nice oil massage with all the massage candles I got from EF) or a nice hot bubble bath drawn for me. Ya know, the sappy stuff lol. I don't get that a lot and he's not really one to put a lot of thought into it.
Now, I know he's going to read this eventually or find it-but Im hoping that he doesn't until later this week LMAO!!!!
So Im wondering, would YOU expect something in return or would you be fine with stuff like what I listed off? I had one of my friends tell me "Oh he had better do it up for you this weekend!" and I just thought "Nah, its ok-really. It made me happy to see him so happy having a birthday party when he never got one as a child" So that was enough for me
What do you all think? Should I hold my breath or just be happy with whatever comes what may?
